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By *aster of Seduction OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Responded to a FAB member earlier who had a meet today on her profile. Made contact via kik but she wanted e30 lodged to her account to prove I was genuine.... Not sure if this is what FAB is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it quacks like a duck; if it walks like a duck; It's probably a duck!

Dodgy enough - report the profile - Block and move on.

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By *aster of Seduction OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I think you have got it in one. Profile seems to have disappeared so maybe some one else reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you back off from their 'offers' - they tend to block you - to move onto the next likely victim.

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By *aster of Seduction OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I think you got it sussed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never go for someone asking for money or vouchers.

This is a swinger site with adults consenting to sex.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never go for someone asking for money or vouchers.

This is a swinger site with adults consenting to sex.

Good luck "

I wondered what an e20 was, but think you just clarified that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the same interaction, reported but can see the profile still live today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive heard about this girl, and I cant really see what it is she's actually doing wrong. Every one has the right to set their own terms and conditions don't they? It's up to you how you respond to them. I get that it makes you suspicious, and I'm sure it puts the majority of people off. But, what rule has she actually broken?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive heard about this girl, and I cant really see what it is she's actually doing wrong. Every one has the right to set their own terms and conditions don't they? It's up to you how you respond to them. I get that it makes you suspicious, and I'm sure it puts the majority of people off. But, what rule has she actually broken? "

Looking for money for a meet is a definite no no... It would be deemed prostitution legally would it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because that's not what she's suggesting. I've seen the messages she sent a guy about this. And she basically said that she's a single parent and every time she goes on a meet she has to pay a babysitter. And she's sick and tired of dudes not showing up and being left out of pocket. So she says she wants the 30e as a kind of garuntee that they'll show, and then she'll give it back. Look, I don't know the girl and if a guy was looking for money off me and tell him where to go. I'm just not convinced she deserves to be reported cos I can't see exactly what she's doing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who is this girl? Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because that's not what she's suggesting. I've seen the messages she sent a guy about this. And she basically said that she's a single parent and every time she goes on a meet she has to pay a babysitter. And she's sick and tired of dudes not showing up and being left out of pocket. So she says she wants the 30e as a kind of garuntee that they'll show, and then she'll give it back. Look, I don't know the girl and if a guy was looking for money off me and tell him where to go. I'm just not convinced she deserves to be reported cos I can't see exactly what she's doing wrong."

That's just wrong...if she's being messed about then she just needs to be more choosy. I had this happen to me at the start of the year and she wanted €30 in Amazon vouchers...they don't pay for the petrol that she claimed she'd have to buy even though we were to meet at hers. It's a scam...simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because that's not what she's suggesting. I've seen the messages she sent a guy about this. And she basically said that she's a single parent and every time she goes on a meet she has to pay a babysitter. And she's sick and tired of dudes not showing up and being left out of pocket. So she says she wants the 30e as a kind of garuntee that they'll show, and then she'll give it back. Look, I don't know the girl and if a guy was looking for money off me and tell him where to go. I'm just not convinced she deserves to be reported cos I can't see exactly what she's doing wrong."

I agree with you...you don't want to pay the moment ..just move on why reporting her...there are worst people than her in here..at least she is straight asking money and getting to the point..you peoples are all nasty and you think you all perfect..let me tell something nobody is perfect in this world..you all jump to let's report it...if something doesn't suit you in a profile or a person move on for God sick...Admin must be foolish to read all your reports garbage

Everyone will get his match in here...don't make it small it's bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because that's not what she's suggesting. I've seen the messages she sent a guy about this. And she basically said that she's a single parent and every time she goes on a meet she has to pay a babysitter. And she's sick and tired of dudes not showing up and being left out of pocket. So she says she wants the 30e as a kind of garuntee that they'll show, and then she'll give it back. Look, I don't know the girl and if a guy was looking for money off me and tell him where to go. I'm just not convinced she deserves to be reported cos I can't see exactly what she's doing wrong.

That's just wrong...if she's being messed about then she just needs to be more choosy. I had this happen to me at the start of the year and she wanted €30 in Amazon vouchers...they don't pay for the petrol that she claimed she'd have to buy even though we were to meet at hers. It's a scam...simple as that."

But like... What's the problem? Even if she does just want some money, that's a kink for some people. U lot need to stop being so butt hurt and get over it. If it's not for u, grand. But there's a reason the admins have done nothing about it. And they're dead right in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is - the Owners/Admin of this site do not allow anyone to use it when they are charging for meeting.


"But like... What's the problem? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is - the Owners/Admin of this site do not allow anyone to use it when they are charging for meeting.

But like... What's the problem? "

Well clearly they're not taking action in this case, so... build a bridge and move on maybe? Or you could all sit around here whinging on forums. Up to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Responded to a FAB member earlier who had a meet today on her profile. Made contact via kik but she wanted e30 lodged to her account to prove I was genuine.... Not sure if this is what FAB is about

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You have been on here over a year,and you are unsure if this is what fab is about?

Really?

I doubt that very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is - the Owners/Admin of this site do not allow anyone to use it when they are charging for meeting.

But like... What's the problem?

Well clearly they're not taking action in this case, so... build a bridge and move on maybe? Or you could all sit around here whinging on forums. Up to you! "

I agree with Sbelle.....it wouldnt be for me but possibly she has her genuine reasons for it.....we don't know her circumstances....the babysitter seems like a logical one....i'd simply delete and ignore....live and let live

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By *aster of Seduction OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Thanks for your views. For the record I Did not report or name the fab member but by the sound of things some members know the lady.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Sure why don't we all look for money for a meet. I dont need a babysitter so how about payment towards new lingerie or travel expenses. No payment of any kind should be requested on here. Report and block anyone who does.

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By *aster of Seduction OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Spot on plenty of fish in the FAB pool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never go for someone asking for money or vouchers.

This is a swinger site with adults consenting to sex.

Good luck

I wondered what an e20 was, but think you just clarified that lol"

Some people probably have forms to fill out in advance I personally request Garda vetting for all potential meets

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Never go for someone asking for money or vouchers.

This is a swinger site with adults consenting to sex.

Good luck

I wondered what an e20 was, but think you just clarified that lol

Some people probably have forms to fill out in advance I personally request Garda vetting for all potential meets "

Good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never go for someone asking for money or vouchers.

This is a swinger site with adults consenting to sex.

Good luck

I wondered what an e20 was, but think you just clarified that lol

Some people probably have forms to fill out in advance I personally request Garda vetting for all potential meets

Good luck with that "

Something to hide Blondie......

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Never go for someone asking for money or vouchers.

This is a swinger site with adults consenting to sex.

Good luck

I wondered what an e20 was, but think you just clarified that lol

Some people probably have forms to fill out in advance I personally request Garda vetting for all potential meets

Good luck with that

Something to hide Blondie...... "

Nope. Wasn't me,and I won't do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got offered 400€ off a bloke to suck me off on a Sunday morning recently! Obviously let him down gently and said look I’m straight as they come pal! He was like no prob thanks for replying!!! Told the missus ya wouldn’t believe what happened this morning and proceeded to tell her the story! Cheeky bitch asked what I done with the 400€ lol

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Got offered 400€ off a bloke to suck me off on a Sunday morning recently! Obviously let him down gently and said look I’m straight as they come pal! He was like no prob thanks for replying!!! Told the missus ya wouldn’t believe what happened this morning and proceeded to tell her the story! Cheeky bitch asked what I done with the 400€ lol"

Was that the first offer. :-

D . I'd say you could have rounded I t off to €500. Christmas is coming.

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