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So my friend fancies a 3some

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx

So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "

Do it with people you know

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

Do it with people you know "

Mm she'd have to choose wisely then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd make sure I already knew at least one of them very well and trusted him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose two people you trust implicitly and be clear on boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd make sure I already knew at least one of them very well and trusted him. "

Defo this. Me and Hal have had lots of mfm’s and having him there meant I was always comfortable. And I felt safe. That’s an important issue for me.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx

Funny this conversation has been had and guys are a bit more reserved then i thought...a couple of men that would be seriously considered.

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"I'd make sure I already knew at least one of them very well and trusted him.

Defo this. Me and Hal have had lots of mfm’s and having him there meant I was always comfortable. And I felt safe. That’s an important issue for me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny this conversation has been had and guys are a bit more reserved then i thought...a couple of men that would be seriously considered. "

By reserved do you mean not entirely keen? Lots of men aren't comfortable with being naked around other men or performing in front of them or the risk of their naked bodies touching - not that surprising really.

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By *reland8Man
over a year ago

sandyford


"Funny this conversation has been had and guys are a bit more reserved then i thought...a couple of men that would be seriously considered. "

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Choose two people you trust implicitly and be clear on boundaries"

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Pick two men you've already met and arrange a drink/meal for all three beforehand.

Ensure all three are comfortable together to avoid any issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before you go mad Rover, make sure you’ve met one of the men first a couple of times. It will help you relax a bit more and enjoy it more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before you go mad Rover, make sure you’ve met one of the men first a couple of times. It will help you relax a bit more and enjoy it more. "

Sorry, that was for your friend.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Something I thought of but don't think I could do it. Would feel to weird.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Why not join them and make it a foursome, that way you can also look out for your friend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick two men you've already met and arrange a drink/meal for all three beforehand.

Ensure all three are comfortable together to avoid any issues."

definitely agree with this ... & it would probably help if the guys were bi & didnt have a problem being naked or touched by another guy... tell your friend to choose wisely

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "

Rover I think the woman should always be in charge, it will make you feel more at ease. Knowing one of the guys well also makes it easier. Wish your friend good luck.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well you have to get 2 guys who will work with each other . My lady friend and I were let down but still enjoyed each other .

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

Rover I think the woman should always be in charge, it will make you feel more at ease. Knowing one of the guys well also makes it easier. Wish your friend good luck.

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My friend says thank you and shes excited to someting new

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

As others said choose one you know well, ideally one that has 3sum experience or even better a tag partner or knows someone he got on with in a party/group occasion. Needless to say that you have the last decision if you want to go ahead with the suggestion or not.

Alternatively choose a second person yourself again ideally with 3sum experience.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

Rover I think the woman should always be in charge, it will make you feel more at ease. Knowing one of the guys well also makes it easier. Wish your friend good luck.

My friend says thank you and shes excited to someting new "

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"As others said choose one you know well, ideally one that has 3sum experience or even better a tag partner or knows someone he got on with in a party/group occasion. Needless to say that you have the last decision if you want to go ahead with the suggestion or not.

Alternatively choose a second person yourself again ideally with 3sum experience. "

Thank you DH .... fair idea who'd be number one choice ....its number 2 that is giving me bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the most important part of this team work is that men participating in this must be comfortable, and confident about their body first.. it doesn’t really you can’t emphasize on having a mfm without a certain degree of coming in close contact with the other lad in d room..!

If I was presented with that opportunity I’d take it coz im a fan of the idea any way and plus I’m quiet comfortable being naked..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to fall in love rover

Be attracted to both guys, and remember humour is attractive..if theres two holes involved, use condoms accordingly, and change when necessary, i would suggest your friend purchase the condoms...no alcohol prior to the meet also...and finally, do it in your own time..enjoy

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"Try not to fall in love rover

Be attracted to both guys, and remember humour is attractive..if theres two holes involved, use condoms accordingly, and change when necessary, i would suggest your friend purchase the condoms...no alcohol prior to the meet also...and finally, do it in your own time..enjoy "

Such good advise then you spoil it by mentioning that word ... ughhhh i was getting excited there

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"I think the most important part of this team work is that men participating in this must be comfortable, and confident about their body first.. it doesn’t really you can’t emphasize on having a mfm without a certain degree of coming in close contact with the other lad in d room..!

If I was presented with that opportunity I’d take it coz im a fan of the idea any way and plus I’m quiet comfortable being naked..!! "

Well judging that one nipple i know id like to see more

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

2 confident guys one being a good friend would be a help but not necessary. Wish you the best .I have had a few mmfs very horny scenarios .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "

Do it with people you know and trust. Maybe that you've met before and got on with. And have a safe word if there's anything you're not liking or don't feel comfortable with. Good communication is key. Two guys that respect your boundaries and respect the scenario so it's enjoyable for all too maybe. Enjoy

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

Do it with people you know and trust. Maybe that you've met before and got on with. And have a safe word if there's anything you're not liking or don't feel comfortable with. Good communication is key. Two guys that respect your boundaries and respect the scenario so it's enjoyable for all too maybe. Enjoy "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say meet one of the guys you're going to have the threesome with and play a domineering role over him... Then make sure the other guys on board and hey presto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "

Depends on how controlling you plan on being. If you want male on male as you watch them knowing each other may turn bad. If they haven't experienced it before. The main thig should be you getting what you want so set your rules clearly before any play. Its only fun if you all know were you stand. Give clear orders of what you want.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "

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Clear-cut chat beforehand where fantasy & intentions are made

"As long as cards are all on the table, let's play strip poker" is best approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She should be the Domme, that way it would ease the nerves and she would feel safer.

Also use a strapopn on them as it will probably turn you on. Opps I meant it would probably turn your "friend"on

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

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Clear-cut chat beforehand where fantasy & intentions are made

"As long as cards are all on the table, let's play strip poker" is best approach "

Strip snap instead maybe

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

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Clear-cut chat beforehand where fantasy & intentions are made

"As long as cards are all on the table, let's play strip poker" is best approach

Strip snap instead maybe "

Dont you have a quicker game ???

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By *oseph soapMan
over a year ago

Slane

If your friend had a regular playmate that'd be an advantage, she needs to have someone to watch her back. As others have said the two guys need to be comfy around each other. I've found that meeting briefly before playing helps ease the mood. A drink wouldn't do much harm once it's not to excess. Neither of the two guys being afraid to cross swords is definitely desirable. Apparently!

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously "

Tell your friend to pick the two man she wants and feels comfortable with then have a straight chat with them, make it clear what she wants of them, let them know how far she is happy to take things, and if they have never met put them in contact with each other so they can chat and hopefully they can get comfortable with each other before they meet up with her, hope everything goes well.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"So serious question here ...if a woman was to want a mfm but she wanted to be in control. What advise would you ladies or gents give to this lady about arranging a little get together. Asking for a friend obviously

Tell your friend to pick the two man she wants and feels comfortable with then have a straight chat with them, make it clear what she wants of them, let them know how far she is happy to take things, and if they have never met put them in contact with each other so they can chat and hopefully they can get comfortable with each other before they meet up with her, hope everything goes well. "

Thank you _ube ...good advise

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