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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my other half are staying in a city centre hotel in a few weeks,

I am looking for a couple to help introduce my missus to the idea of swinging!

If this is ye pm me and lets see what we can come up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?"

Just about to ask did his wife actually in know about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?"

Yeah thats exactly it, but you knew that before you asked the question. So why question it?

Best of luck with your adventure Op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?"

Yeah something like that yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?

Yeah thats exactly it, but you knew that before you asked the question. So why question it?

Best of luck with your adventure Op "

Thanks mate

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Can't tell you how much I've heard stories of guys trying what you're doing op.

Its usually ended with the wife going apeshit but I haven't heard evey story so maybe its worked out in the guys favour before and I just haven't heard about it

Do let us know how it goes and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea

If it works it works if it don't it don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea

If it works it works if it don't it don't

"

To be honest I think it would be way better if you brought up this idea with your wife yourself and maybe talk about plans and what you might like to happen and bring all of this in as rollplay for awhile and see how receptive she is to this

But to drop her into a situation that she has no idea about is just not right ,

Chat to her see how it goes and take it from there . Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you want a couple to talk your unsuspecting wife into swinging is it ?

Yeah thats exactly it, but you knew that before you asked the question. So why question it?

Best of luck with your adventure Op "

Because I can ask a question

That's why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea

If it works it works if it don't it don't

To be honest I think it would be way better if you brought up this idea with your wife yourself and maybe talk about plans and what you might like to happen and bring all of this in as rollplay for awhile and see how receptive she is to this

But to drop her into a situation that she has no idea about is just not right ,

Chat to her see how it goes and take it from there . Best of luck "

Thanks for the advice!

Maybe the idea of the whole thing has me not thinking straight lol

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By *usietranslutTV/TS
over a year ago

carlow

You have a single profile with a picture of, presumably, your unsuspecting wife? There'll be trouble ahead!!

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

I can't see why anyone would do this... or put it this way....a couple who are into swinging spend an evening with you and your other half, the convo turns to swinging and on the slim chance she says yes, then great.....but the flip side is that she says no....now the swinging couple are stuck in the middle of your domestic....what's the up side for them? Are you and your missus like 11/10's? Cause it seems to me it would be so much easier if the swinging couple just met another swinging couple.....anyway, best of luck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea

If it works it works if it don't it don't

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I think you have been watching too much porn. Yes we have met people on holiday or at a bar and just got chatting which progressed to going back to their room but we never went out intending to do so..Wouldn't it be better just to talk to your wife openly about swinging..could save alot of crap in the long run.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Is he for real .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is he for real . "

No need the shitty comment.

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

Jesus if Niall had done this to me when he wanted to broach the subject when he first did, I'd have knocked his block off and I'd be single right now.

The OP wants to basically corner his woman and try coax her into swinging with a couple of strangers

That's just not on

Tina

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.

Maybe not the best way, but a way

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby


"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.

Maybe not the best way, but a way "

It's totally not the best way, it's not a good way in any sense. Would u not just try talk to her about it? Instead of throwing it in her face so to speak

Tina

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.

Maybe not the best way, but a way

It's totally not the best way, it's not a good way in any sense. Would u not just try talk to her about it? Instead of throwing it in her face so to speak

Tina "

Well I ain't exactly goin to tell someone to force themselves on her or to push it on her, if the idea was welcomed well and good if not well thats ok too

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By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby


"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.

Maybe not the best way, but a way

It's totally not the best way, it's not a good way in any sense. Would u not just try talk to her about it? Instead of throwing it in her face so to speak

Tina

Well I ain't exactly goin to tell someone to force themselves on her or to push it on her, if the idea was welcomed well and good if not well thats ok too"

No one thinks ur gonna force someone on her physically

But it could be seen as forcing a situation on her that will possibly make her very uncomfortable. I'm just trying to say there's a much better way of approaching the subject than landing her in it as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the idea is for the couple to start chatting to me and my partner and get a little flirty and all that and suggest the idea

If it works it works if it don't it don't

To be honest I think it would be way better if you brought up this idea with your wife yourself and maybe talk about plans and what you might like to happen and bring all of this in as rollplay for awhile and see how receptive she is to this

But to drop her into a situation that she has no idea about is just not right ,

Chat to her see how it goes and take it from there . Best of luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put the lady in a public, socialising place - to be potentially embarrassed by approaches from people from this lifestyle - unawares - is a deeply disrespectful way to introduce anyone to the scene.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To put the lady in a public, socialising place - to be potentially embarrassed by approaches from people from this lifestyle - unawares - is a deeply disrespectful way to introduce anyone to the scene."

Well I am hardly gonna to put her in a situation where that would happen!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is more, call it a fantasy if you will, that we meet a couple, have a few drinks and a few laughs, some flirting and the likes. And maybe the couple would mention that they were into the swinging scene. And it goes from there.

If it was well received great, if not everyone goes there seperate ways and that would be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op in my opinnion u dont need another couple to sit her down and talk to her about getting into swinging.

Yee are a commited proper couple.sit down with her one to one and tell her what ud like to do.she either going to be interested or not.

Bringing another fab couple into it even for just a chat and drink isnt going to work .and you wouldnt be very respectful of ur partner doing it this way.

Best of luck though which ever way you decide to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

great to see these lunatics still exist,attention seeking freak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and 'drinks' etc - would be where? In a bar! - it sure won't be in a hotel bedroom behind closed doors, will it???


"It is more, call it a fantasy if you will, that we meet a couple, have a few drinks and a few laughs, some flirting and the likes. And maybe the couple would mention that they were into the swinging scene. And it goes from there.

If it was well received great, if not everyone goes there seperate ways and that would be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is he for real .

No need the shitty comment. "

Hahaha you have presumably been cheating on your wife here and now want to drop her into a potentially embarrassing and distressing situation for your entertainment, but yeah, Chocko is the shitty one

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people are very quick to judge on here, nobody knows what goes on in my life!

Thanks for the constructive comments from most of ye, it definitely helps

I will definitely think about this and see what happens

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I think this should be a fantasy that you both enjoy at first..and then if she's happy move it along...but i fear for your relationship if you think she is going to appreciate this surprise...and as was said above no swinging cpl would dream of being part of it.....mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly not you judging op

Just thinking of it from ur other half side

If it was me i wouldnt like to be deceived or find out that way even if its only drinks and chat.

Honestly if u care anything for her you will sit down and talk to her one on one.u could be pleasently surpised she might be curious about it.

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly not you judging op

Just thinking of it from ur other half side

If it was me i wouldnt like to be deceived or find out that way even if its only drinks and chat.

Honestly if u care anything for her you will sit down and talk to her one on one.u could be pleasently surpised she might be curious about it.

Best of luck"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really think this is a bad idea have you every talked to your wife about the idea of swinging because if you can't talk about the idea of then there is very little change it bit for ye

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By *obinhood36Man
over a year ago

Cork

You should talk about it with your Wife she will either say yes or no put yourself in her shoes how would you feel if your wife unexpectedly brought you swinging ask her to go to a meet and Greet chats only first and go from there

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"This is my way of maybe introducing my partner to the swinging world.

Maybe not the best way, but a way "
Talk to her and tell her you are on a swinging site,... And she what she says. Then take it from there.

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