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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Watching a series on Netflix "one husband 3 wives".

What are your thoughts??

Red

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Thinking hes brave ...imagine all 3 with pms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sharing the husband.Equal time with him.

House chores.

Babysitting.

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Think Id prefer the closeness/intimacy of a 1 on 1 relationship so to speak, but allow my partner have all the sexual freedom she wanted from the physical aspect.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Sharing the husband.Equal time with him.

House chores.

Babysitting.

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Its like those sister wives shows. Could you cope with sharing someone you love?? I dont know if i could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are all honest and trust each other to share the husband. What a woman...where I can fund those type of womans ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely consider a 3 way relationship with one man and two women where all three are attracted to each other. Ultimate win.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"I would definitely consider a 3 way relationship with one man and two women where all three are attracted to each other. Ultimate win."

But i dont think the women are involved with each other. I think its all seperate.. you'd be sharing a husband

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would definitely consider a 3 way relationship with one man and two women where all three are attracted to each other. Ultimate win."

I am going down that route of thinking...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would definitely consider a 3 way relationship with one man and two women where all three are attracted to each other. Ultimate win.

But i dont think the women are involved with each other. I think its all seperate.. you'd be sharing a husband "

In this series no they aren't swingers.

They all are separate but United in the decision making process,and sharing responsibilities.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"I would definitely consider a 3 way relationship with one man and two women where all three are attracted to each other. Ultimate win.

But i dont think the women are involved with each other. I think its all seperate.. you'd be sharing a husband

In this series no they aren't swingers.

They all are separate but United in the decision making process,and sharing responsibilities."

Alot to be said for it regarding childrearing and household chores

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Think Id prefer the closeness/intimacy of a 1 on 1 relationship so to speak, but allow my partner have all the sexual freedom she wanted from the physical aspect."

You'll be popular..

Ideal really

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I share my husband sexually no problem...wouldn't share anything else...if i wanted help with household chores id hire a cleaner...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I share my husband sexually no problem...wouldn't share anything else...if i wanted help with household chores id hire a cleaner..."

Thats a valid point.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I would definitely consider a 3 way relationship with one man and two women where all three are attracted to each other. Ultimate win."

Wow what a hott profile sounds like a dream cum true

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of this as alternative lifestyle, men and women should have the freedom to do what they want, if they are happy with it so be it. There are downsides, but if you can cope with the ups and downs, and it works yeah be happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From the series I've watched,it can work out well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the series I've watched,it can work out well."

I'd imagine it can but there needs to be ground rules ... Jealousy has ruined alot of poly realtionships from what I have seen

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows. "

Thats a good idea, why does it have to be all about the man?

I think marriage is more complicated then just being married to two men or more though, cannot rely just on looks there is more to than that.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I don't think I could sHare a lady I luv . It's hard enough to handle one lady without having to handle 3 ..a very brave man .

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"I don't think I could sHare a lady I luv . It's hard enough to handle one lady without having to handle 3 ..a very brave man . "

Pleasure ×3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows. "

Hmmmm now that's an idea

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think they got a bad deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds fabulous on paper!!! In reality, I'd say it's a nightmare!!! Unless they were all sisters!!!

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By *rim PrairieWoman
over a year ago

ahem

I’d love two boyfriends.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows.

Thats a good idea, why does it have to be all about the man?

I think marriage is more complicated then just being married to two men or more though, cannot rely just on looks there is more to than that.

"

I agree on the Sharing bit just all live together

On the other point not need for them all to be married .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows.

Thats a good idea, why does it have to be all about the man?

I think marriage is more complicated then just being married to two men or more though, cannot rely just on looks there is more to than that.

I agree on the Sharing bit just all live together

On the other point not need for them all to be married ."

Not at all.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows.

Thats a good idea, why does it have to be all about the man?

I think marriage is more complicated then just being married to two men or more though, cannot rely just on looks there is more to than that.

I agree on the Sharing bit just all live together

On the other point not need for them all to be married .

Not at all.

"

I'd love for another hott woman like yourself red to here with me and Mrs dirty and all live together . Butt it can only be a dream for now with young kids and a judgemental family

Mr dirty xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows.

Thats a good idea, why does it have to be all about the man?

I think marriage is more complicated then just being married to two men or more though, cannot rely just on looks there is more to than that.

I agree on the Sharing bit just all live together

On the other point not need for them all to be married .

Not at all.

I'd love for another hott woman like yourself red to here with me and Mrs dirty and all live together . Butt it can only be a dream for now with young kids and a judgemental family

Mr dirty xx "

Who knows what the new year might bring... another one of Reds spicy parties ...

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I’d be happy to do this if all 3 were in a relationship together, not this share a husband thing.

But then again if it was share a wife (me) with two hot guys then who knows.

Thats a good idea, why does it have to be all about the man?

I think marriage is more complicated then just being married to two men or more though, cannot rely just on looks there is more to than that.

I agree on the Sharing bit just all live together

On the other point not need for them all to be married .

Not at all.

I'd love for another hott woman like yourself red to here with me and Mrs dirty and all live together . Butt it can only be a dream for now with young kids and a judgemental family

Mr dirty xx

Who knows what the new year might bring... another one of Reds spicy parties ... "

Now there's a great idea

Mr dirty xx

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

We are openly looking for a bi female interested in a poly relationship. So any of you ladies interested in chatting (some of you already know us ) then please come and say hi

Anglo & Pinks xx

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By *tepintomylabCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I would definitely consider a 3 way relationship with one man and two women where all three are attracted to each other. Ultimate win."

Not something we'd thought about until we met a polyamorous couple last year... Ever since then we've always thought that a third would be a great addition to the relationship.

If it ever went bad though I'd imagine a break up could be complicated.

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula

It could work, though this set up is patriarchal. I think the guy gets the ultimate say on situations, which could cause problems, also the religious aspect, with a council of elders sounds like a nightmare. Was this not on UK TV last year?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have enjoyed some experience of a poly relationship with another woman previously and we would very much like to again providing that everybody be content with the arrangements and boundaries clear and shared.

We did not live together but in the same area as each other and became a very real part of each other's daily lives. This suited the three of us as we have young children, she had a very public professional career and we all equally enjoyed our own space from each other too.

We never entered into the arrangements of each other's personal decisions such as finances or family decisions as this was again something we were all happy with.

We never broadcasted our relationship either and although suspicions and enquiry arose from family and friends from time to time we just passed our relationship off as being very close friends.

The sexual aspect of the relationship was entirely open between the three of us with both of us women being Bi-sexual and no restraints or jealousy either.

The intimate side of things worked really well too as I am not as affectionate and touchy feely as Dave is. We would often sleep together, the three of us non sexually and apart as well but this was what they shared together and valued.

I on the other hand valued having such a close dependable friend socially and personally that was involved so intimately that we talked about every aspect of our lives together and would go out socially and go away together.

It can work and be amazing for people that are looking for the same things as each other it's all about honesty trust and communication. Sadly our relationship ended as the other woman decided she wanted to move forward with her life and settle down get a mortgage and have kids of her own, wich although very disappointing on the one hand we were all also very supportive of and respected that that's what she wanted to do. The really great thing that came from all of this was we still speak regularly and get together with her and her vanilla husband and our little ones gained an aunty and an uncle that dote on them and are truly great friends.

Although very long we know (apologies) we hope sharing our experience will give at least our insight into our feelings on this. We would both gladly enter into another relationship again should we all have that shared understanding and View as each other and a shared chemistry and attraction mutually. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have enjoyed some experience of a poly relationship with another woman previously and we would very much like to again providing that everybody be content with the arrangements and boundaries clear and shared.

We did not live together but in the same area as each other and became a very real part of each other's daily lives. This suited the three of us as we have young children, she had a very public professional career and we all equally enjoyed our own space from each other too.

We never entered into the arrangements of each other's personal decisions such as finances or family decisions as this was again something we were all happy with.

We never broadcasted our relationship either and although suspicions and enquiry arose from family and friends from time to time we just passed our relationship off as being very close friends.

The sexual aspect of the relationship was entirely open between the three of us with both of us women being Bi-sexual and no restraints or jealousy either.

The intimate side of things worked really well too as I am not as affectionate and touchy feely as Dave is. We would often sleep together, the three of us non sexually and apart as well but this was what they shared together and valued.

I on the other hand valued having such a close dependable friend socially and personally that was involved so intimately that we talked about every aspect of our lives together and would go out socially and go away together.

It can work and be amazing for people that are looking for the same things as each other it's all about honesty trust and communication. Sadly our relationship ended as the other woman decided she wanted to move forward with her life and settle down get a mortgage and have kids of her own, wich although very disappointing on the one hand we were all also very supportive of and respected that that's what she wanted to do. The really great thing that came from all of this was we still speak regularly and get together with her and her vanilla husband and our little ones gained an aunty and an uncle that dote on them and are truly great friends.

Although very long we know (apologies) we hope sharing our experience will give at least our insight into our feelings on this. We would both gladly enter into another relationship again should we all have that shared understanding and View as each other and a shared chemistry and attraction mutually. Xx

"

Thank you for sharing.

I knew there are families like this.

Good luck and hope you find someone else if you wish to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking hes brave ...imagine all 3 with pms "

Only thing worse that having 1 wife pissed off at you and being wrong all the time... is havin 3 wives pissed off at ya and being wrong all the time on 3 different accounts..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thinking hes brave ...imagine all 3 with pms

Only thing worse that having 1 wife pissed off at you and being wrong all the time... is havin 3 wives pissed off at ya and being wrong all the time on 3 different accounts.."

Is that even possible ??

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By *ublincouple bi femaleCouple
over a year ago

Anywhere

As a bloke dont think i could actually love more than one partner like that all up for a bit of fun but nothing that serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking hes brave ...imagine all 3 with pms

Only thing worse that having 1 wife pissed off at you and being wrong all the time... is havin 3 wives pissed off at ya and being wrong all the time on 3 different accounts..

Is that even possible ??

"

hehe oh yes, if they nagging its a sign that they care, when they quiet they plotting to kill you .. x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

My 4 Wives on TLC is very good I am quite addicted to their family life. Not all plain sailing but for the most part they deal with plural life well.

The kids are lovely well brought up polite. I am sad for them having to leave Utah or face prison.

He doesnt claim benefits and pays his way. Live and let live I think.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Thinking hes brave ...imagine all 3 with pms

Only thing worse that having 1 wife pissed off at you and being wrong all the time... is havin 3 wives pissed off at ya and being wrong all the time on 3 different accounts.."

Don't piss them off then lol

Mr dirty

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Watching a series on Netflix "one husband 3 wives".

What are your thoughts??

Red "

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"Happy wife ...happy life"

"Many wives ...plenty of fecking strife"

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