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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

They're gas....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're gas.... "

I know and then the disappointment cos your not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "

Some actually do think that!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

Some actually do think that!! "

Ye they have an overactive imagination obviously watching too much porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "
...it can't be that bad..you got Metallica tickets after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service ...it can't be that bad..you got Metallica tickets after all "

Lmao true that

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"They're gas....

I know and then the disappointment cos your not lol"

Then comes the abuse. Like bold kids

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Couples get it too and far too often.

Very unrealistic and some even get aggressive when you say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples get it too and far too often.

Very unrealistic and some even get aggressive when you say no"

I find couples to be the biggest culprits! Nearly every mail I get from a couple is a last minute meet and when you say no they just block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you don't say on your profile when you are available,how are they,or anyone to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples get it too and far too often.

Very unrealistic and some even get aggressive when you say no

I find couples to be the biggest culprits! Nearly every mail I get from a couple is a last minute meet and when you say no they just block you "
bit of an impass here then..as we'd agree guys can be the worst for "hey you wanna fuck"....at the last min......eh no my partner isn't a piece of bloody meat for your amusement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s just my experience. It would be different if I actually knew the couples but these are complete strangers and 1st messages. No doubt guys will send those stupid messages too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s just my experience. It would be different if I actually knew the couples but these are complete strangers and 1st messages. No doubt guys will send those stupid messages too. "
A good few do unfortunately

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Couples get it too and far too often.

Very unrealistic and some even get aggressive when you say no

I find couples to be the biggest culprits! Nearly every mail I get from a couple is a last minute meet and when you say no they just block you "

We've had a few instances of couple looking last minute to be fair, but not at the same level as SMs.

Everyone's situation is different but generally speaking a couple have more logistical challenges than a SM. While most of us hold jobs and have to be up in the morning, couples (certainly those in their 30s) are likely to have kids and that means babysitters have be arranged and hotels booked etc.

We wouldn't put pressure on a male or another couple for a last minute meet because a rushed meet is less likely to be as successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples get it too and far too often.

Very unrealistic and some even get aggressive when you say no

I find couples to be the biggest culprits! Nearly every mail I get from a couple is a last minute meet and when you say no they just block you bit of an impass here then..as we'd agree guys can be the worst for "hey you wanna fuck"....at the last min......eh no my partner isn't a piece of bloody meat for your amusement "

I tend to agree with him before I've been contacted by numerous times myself by couples last minute and upon refusal due to regular life commitments (I know it is hard to believe I don't live on fab) I had been met with abuse from one or two couples.

Although I know for a fact women and couples do have it worse, regardless of profile type there's a person behind it at the end of the day and they deserve to be treated as such and not a piece of meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples get it too and far too often.

Very unrealistic and some even get aggressive when you say no

I find couples to be the biggest culprits! Nearly every mail I get from a couple is a last minute meet and when you say no they just block you

We've had a few instances of couple looking last minute to be fair, but not at the same level as SMs.

Everyone's situation is different but generally speaking a couple have more logistical challenges than a SM. While most of us hold jobs and have to be up in the morning, couples (certainly those in their 30s) are likely to have kids and that means babysitters have be arranged and hotels booked etc.

We wouldn't put pressure on a male or another couple for a last minute meet because a rushed meet is less likely to be as successful.

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exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think most think if your online your available but I just pop on and off or leave it signed in and if I wanted a meet I'd simply approach my regular chatters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling a spade a spade... when you get s message like that you can be pretty sure the sender’s “small head” is charge at that point...

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Couples get it too and far too often.

Very unrealistic and some even get aggressive when you say no

I find couples to be the biggest culprits! Nearly every mail I get from a couple is a last minute meet and when you say no they just block you bit of an impass here then..as we'd agree guys can be the worst for "hey you wanna fuck"....at the last min......eh no my partner isn't a piece of bloody meat for your amusement

I tend to agree with him before I've been contacted by numerous times myself by couples last minute and upon refusal due to regular life commitments (I know it is hard to believe I don't live on fab) I had been met with abuse from one or two couples.

Although I know for a fact women and couples do have it worse, regardless of profile type there's a person behind it at the end of the day and they deserve to be treated as such and not a piece of meat "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately the emails will continue but good to know that others are getting them too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live near a Motorway services station. I did get inundated with offers off horny truckers looking for quickie until I lowered my age settings. I may be on swinging site but I find it distasteful to be treated like a unpaid sex worker

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Hmm I get them too and frequently they annoys me, however there's a trick to handle them without getting abuse...

So and just because I'm a woman on fab I'm allowed to have double standards, I confess I messaged some darlings on here very short notice for a meet.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I said that ages ago . Guys on here think the women are here for them and not themselfs . Women are here to enjoy themselfs not to pleasure guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm I get them too and frequently they annoys me, however there's a trick to handle them without getting abuse...

So and just because I'm a woman on fab I'm allowed to have double standards, I confess I messaged some darlings on here very short notice for a meet. "

always with the double standards I wouldn’t mind but a lot of the couples invited me over to watch them having sex - ehh what’s in it for me

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"I live near a Motorway services station. I did get inundated with offers off horny truckers looking for quickie until I lowered my age settings. I may be on swinging site but I find it distasteful to be treated like a unpaid sex worker "

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Hmm I get them too and frequently they annoys me, however there's a trick to handle them without getting abuse...

So and just because I'm a woman on fab I'm allowed to have double standards, I confess I messaged some darlings on here very short notice for a meet.

Exactly

always with the double standards I wouldn’t mind but a lot of the couples invited me over to watch them having sex - ehh what’s in it for me "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm I get them too and frequently they annoys me, however there's a trick to handle them without getting abuse...

So and just because I'm a woman on fab I'm allowed to have double standards, I confess I messaged some darlings on here very short notice for a meet.

always with the double standards I wouldn’t mind but a lot of the couples invited me over to watch them having sex - ehh what’s in it for me "

Live action porn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "

Nothing new there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "
Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service Yes. "

Least your honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not free tonight.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "

I find its a good filter as the ones who come out with it are the ones that are just better avoided anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

I find its a good filter as the ones who come out with it are the ones that are just better avoided anyway. "

That’s actually a really good point - saves time in the long run!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

I find its a good filter as the ones who come out with it are the ones that are just better avoided anyway. "

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

I find its a good filter as the ones who come out with it are the ones that are just better avoided anyway. "

I agree

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

I'm washing my hair tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, it should taken as question, you can simply say yes or no.

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By *unnymunroMan
over a year ago

dublin

but seriously..are any of ye available tonight!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send messages saying that have been told I’m nice and polite and still getting no where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think, it should taken as question, you can simply say yes or no. "

You would think, these threads have taken over,the, "i cant get a meet" threads from the guys...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think, it should taken as question, you can simply say yes or no.

You would think, these threads have taken over,the, "i cant get a meet" threads from the guys..."

Showing them why they can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think, it should taken as question, you can simply say yes or no.

You would think, these threads have taken over,the, "i cant get a meet" threads from the guys...

Showing them why they can't "

But your not, the majority of guys, wouldnt be arsed using the forum..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think, it should taken as question, you can simply say yes or no.

You would think, these threads have taken over,the, "i cant get a meet" threads from the guys...

Showing them why they can't

But your not, the majority of guys, wouldnt be arsed using the forum.. "

Well the ones that do post the "I can't get a meet " which have took over the forum will see it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think, it should taken as question, you can simply say yes or no.

You would think, these threads have taken over,the, "i cant get a meet" threads from the guys...

Showing them why they can't

But your not, the majority of guys, wouldnt be arsed using the forum..

Well the ones that do post the "I can't get a meet " which have took over the forum will see it . "
I was going to post a thread about not getting a meet. But then remembered i don't want a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "

Tbh I don't see what's offending you..are you available tonight seems like a reasonable question to me and I've sent similar to both cpls and singles. It's a simple yes or no answer. Isn't it nice to be getting offers regardless whether it's a quick one liner or a long mail.

We've all had the "wanna fuck now" messages and yes I can see why they can offend some people but this is not the same.

If your that bothered block guys.

Mrs S

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By *ellboy101Man
over a year ago

cavan


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

Tbh I don't see what's offending you..are you available tonight seems like a reasonable question to me and I've sent similar to both cpls and singles. It's a simple yes or no answer. Isn't it nice to be getting offers regardless whether it's a quick one liner or a long mail.

We've all had the "wanna fuck now" messages and yes I can see why they can offend some people but this is not the same.

If your that bothered block guys.

Mrs S"

Are you guys available tonight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

Tbh I don't see what's offending you..are you available tonight seems like a reasonable question to me and I've sent similar to both cpls and singles. It's a simple yes or no answer. Isn't it nice to be getting offers regardless whether it's a quick one liner or a long mail.

We've all had the "wanna fuck now" messages and yes I can see why they can offend some people but this is not the same.

If your that bothered block guys.

Mrs S

Are you guys available tonight? "

Most definitely not...I'm too offended to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Mrs S

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Part and parcel of the site. Not worth getting annoyed about or blocking to be honest. Just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Part and parcel of the site. Not worth getting annoyed about or blocking to be honest. Just move on "

No Toxic I'm not available stop asking

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By *ellboy101Man
over a year ago

cavan


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service

Tbh I don't see what's offending you..are you available tonight seems like a reasonable question to me and I've sent similar to both cpls and singles. It's a simple yes or no answer. Isn't it nice to be getting offers regardless whether it's a quick one liner or a long mail.

We've all had the "wanna fuck now" messages and yes I can see why they can offend some people but this is not the same.

If your that bothered block guys.

Mrs S

Are you guys available tonight?

Most definitely not...I'm too offended to meet "

I know, what was I thinking bring so offensive and mean offering that hope you can forgive me now!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Yep for the next 5 minutes come quick x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your going to go thats the way to do it

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "

Took that well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some women doing it here too even couples the later is a bit hard to know, if it the male acting bollocks or not.. in fact in the last 2 weeks getting late invites between1-4 in the morning. First msg and they want you to join them... I must be the last chance on the list..!

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

Love a last minute meets saves weeks of text tennis

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Seriously lads do ye think women are on here as a free escort service "

But what if person a was available tonight and person b never asked? Then both would miss out. Just because the op and some others have highfalutin ideas of what a sex site is to them does not mean their opinion is the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck sake,nag nag nag.

Is that all people do here these days?

I see the OP has done a legger too.

Good luck to you so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask the girl or couple when is a good date if they haven't got a meet posted. Patience is paramount. We all have things going on in real life

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