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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

First of all Good morning!...now my thought for the day!....Has being on fab made you more age conscious?.. Now in my day to day life I don't think about it,I feel no different now to how I did say 10,15 years ago and when I see an attractive lady I don't think of their age (within reasonable boundaries)and I would imagine in a normal social situation most people don't!...Imagine you getting chatting to someone when you're out, thinking they're very nice and you fancy them,and suddenly they say "I'm 50"! ..now I doubt you would suddenly think "oh I don't want to meet anyone older than 48", make your excuses and run!...yet that is what some do on Fab ,I understand people having age guidelines, but are we all being very narrow minded in perceiving people by a number?

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By *ebra LoungeCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"First of all Good morning!...now my thought for the day!....Has being on fab made you more age conscious?.. Now in my day to day life I don't think about it,I feel no different now to how I did say 10,15 years ago and when I see an attractive lady I don't think of their age (within reasonable boundaries)and I would imagine in a normal social situation most people don't!...Imagine you getting chatting to someone when you're out, thinking they're very nice and you fancy them,and suddenly they say "I'm 50"! ..now I doubt you would suddenly think "oh I don't want to meet anyone older than 48", make your excuses and run!...yet that is what some do on Fab ,I understand people having age guidelines, but are we all being very narrow minded in perceiving people by a number?"

As a rule if someone seems too old to us then that’s that. Getting the exact age number and realizing they actually fall within our age acceptable brackets won’t change anything. Also works the other way. Came across some men and women that really look much better then their age and yes exceptions can then be made

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Age is an unfortunate filter at times, its really frustrating when you try to say hi and you too old but as theres so many of us chasing so few you got to thin the herd somehow and i dont know what my BMI is if they were to use that or some other indicator.

Think you have to accept it (or fib lol)

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"First of all Good morning!...now my thought for the day!....Has being on fab made you more age conscious?.. Now in my day to day life I don't think about it,I feel no different now to how I did say 10,15 years ago and when I see an attractive lady I don't think of their age (within reasonable boundaries)and I would imagine in a normal social situation most people don't!...Imagine you getting chatting to someone when you're out, thinking they're very nice and you fancy them,and suddenly they say "I'm 50"! ..now I doubt you would suddenly think "oh I don't want to meet anyone older than 48", make your excuses and run!...yet that is what some do on Fab ,I understand people having age guidelines, but are we all being very narrow minded in perceiving people by a number?"

We cant criticise folk for having upper limits when we have lower limits lol but that’s simply cos it would be creepy meeting people the age of our children

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have being to a good few m&gs and partys where ladys have asked me why i have never texted them when i tell them i am over their45 age filter its never a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is an unfortunate filter at times, its really frustrating when you try to say hi and you too old but as theres so many of us chasing so few you got to thin the herd somehow and i dont know what my BMI is if they were to use that or some other indicator.

Think you have to accept it (or fib lol) "
...BMI! ...think i'm better off using my age!..I don't need to be filtered to oblivion

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Don't think it's being narrow minded....on here it's a guide line and a way of filtering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age has never been a problem for us and most of the time I seem to go for older men but.... If its getting close to my parents age its just a no And I have not been in a pub and found any of their friends hot so don't think it will be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like going younger.prefer around my own age or older

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"First of all Good morning!...now my thought for the day!....Has being on fab made you more age conscious?.. Now in my day to day life I don't think about it,I feel no different now to how I did say 10,15 years ago and when I see an attractive lady I don't think of their age (within reasonable boundaries)and I would imagine in a normal social situation most people don't!...Imagine you getting chatting to someone when you're out, thinking they're very nice and you fancy them,and suddenly they say "I'm 50"! ..now I doubt you would suddenly think "oh I don't want to meet anyone older than 48", make your excuses and run!...yet that is what some do on Fab ,I understand people having age guidelines, but are we all being very narrow minded in perceiving people by a number?"

No, but it has made me more self body conscious. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing tbh

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