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By *exyman1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lucan

Some ladies and couples on the site want face pictures before they'll chat to you, I don't think so,when you don't even know who your chatting too.what do other genuine fab ppl think about this.im thinking about blocking them??

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Don't ever do anything you're not comfortable with OP.

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By *exyman1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Don't ever do anything you're not comfortable with OP. "
thank you I won't demanding pictures is not going to happen with myself need to chat to someone for a while first

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Although there are a lot of fakes and demanding people on here looking for all sorts.

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By *exyman1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"Although there are a lot of fakes and demanding people on here looking for all sorts."
we have private life from fab last thing you need is problem work and so on

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

If the lady/ couple are well verified then there's no harm in sending face pics straight away . If there is an attraction then things can move a lot faster than text tennis for days or weeks and end up wasting each other's time if after all that the physical attraction is not there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it's too see is there an attraction but they should be willing to exchange also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can demand whatever they want,doesn't mean you have to comply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do what suits you, others can demand what they like, it's your choice whether or not to oblige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap!

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By *exyman1965 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lucan


"People can demand whatever they want,doesn't mean you have to comply."
That's true but it's getting more and more on fab lately which is wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can demand whatever they want,doesn't mean you have to comply.That's true but it's getting more and more on fab lately which is wrong"

It's only wrong if you do it against your wishes,if they aren't for you,what does it matter what they want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with people looking for face pics or for u not wanting to give one chat to the people that suit the way u want to swing and others can do the same

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

We damand anything off anyone but we do ask for pics .It is because the amount of time wasters and fake profiles it's getting worse . If we ask for a face pic and they don't want to send one then that's fine we move on and so do they no big deal. If there's an attraction then of course we send ours back but it saves a lot of time . If your messaging someone with the hope of arranging a meet then you have to be prepared to send face pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me attraction comes from getting to know someones personality, not what their face looks like

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"We damand anything off anyone but we do ask for pics .It is because the amount of time wasters and fake profiles it's getting worse . If we ask for a face pic and they don't want to send one then that's fine we move on and so do they no big deal. If there's an attraction then of course we send ours back but it saves a lot of time . If your messaging someone with the hope of arranging a meet then you have to be prepared to send face pics ."

I agree. I'd never meet without knowing who I'm meeting. But there are a few on here with face pics that are fake. Some even manage to get into hot pics. It's crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately even chatting for some time doesn't prove someone can be trusted with facepics. If you're not comfortable with it don't send them. I don't see why you would block them though just move on to the next couple

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin


"For me attraction comes from getting to know someones personality, not what their face looks like "

Ahh the old he/she has a lovely personality .

Is that not what dating sites are for .

Surly both are important and we are not necessarily looking for best friends just some consensual adult fun that leaves a smile on everyone's face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine it's too see is there an attraction but they should be willing to exchange also "

Ha, great chance if that happening. Usually just get ignored after sending it. Not even a ‘not my type’ text return, let alone a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send face on f i pics via kik and only after I have talked to them\him\ her

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

We find the people we want, but we get so many mails from single males that we say if you are a single male and are contacting us on spec, then send a pic.

To be fair, it is different for couples and singles. As a single male on here, you could explain it away as being like a dating site and just a way to get sex. It wouldn't be ideal but you would get over it. However a couple being found on here could be completely life changing in a very profound way, especially if you have teenage kids that could find out that their parents do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find the people we want, but we get so many mails from single males that we say if you are a single male and are contacting us on spec, then send a pic.

To be fair, it is different for couples and singles. As a single male on here, you could explain it away as being like a dating site and just a way to get sex. It wouldn't be ideal but you would get over it. However a couple being found on here could be completely life changing in a very profound way, especially if you have teenage kids that could find out that their parents do this"

Methinks the biggest fear for most single males is the wife finding out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find the people we want, but we get so many mails from single males that we say if you are a single male and are contacting us on spec, then send a pic.

To be fair, it is different for couples and singles. As a single male on here, you could explain it away as being like a dating site and just a way to get sex. It wouldn't be ideal but you would get over it. However a couple being found on here could be completely life changing in a very profound way, especially if you have teenage kids that could find out that their parents do this"

It isn't just couples that are parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending face pictures is tricky.

I only send one when I happy, and comfortable with the person I am talking to.

Too many nosy people.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

If you don't want to send face pics don't. I never send one with first message. If someone demands one then I don't mail them. Then again I don't usually send the first message I let them mail me first.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"If the lady/ couple are well verified then there's no harm in sending face pics straight away . If there is an attraction then things can move a lot faster than text tennis for days or weeks and end up wasting each other's time if after all that the physical attraction is not there ."
spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the lady/ couple/ male are well verified then there's no harm in sending face pics straight away . If there is an attraction then things can move a lot faster than text tennis for days or weeks and end up wasting each other's time if after all that the physical attraction is not there ."

i agree

added the male part at the top

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Always b safe

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

People can ask you don't have to oblige....i wouldn't see a problem with well verified people...

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