FabSwingers.com forum: How long did it take!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity ladies, gents and couples. How long after joining the site, did you arrange and successfully meet with someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On an old profile it took a few weeks had a social coffee meet then. And had a few fun meets after a month or so after. This time around its like pulling teeth. But then im not as active on here like last time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 months or so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wasnt very active to start but took advice and started chatting and posting in here but still nada! You see local ladies and couples joining and after a few weeks even days posting verifications and meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month, we went to a social after 3 weeks and once we were verified we were ready to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasnt very active to start but took advice and started chatting and posting in here but still nada! You see local ladies and couples joining and after a few weeks even days posting verifications and meets. "

much easier for the ladies & couples to get a meet than a single guy

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

About 5 days

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By *ustforfun90777Man
over a year ago

Enfield

say I’m at my end! No meets or even potentials on here and been pretty active the last 6/8 months! Maybe I’m just ugly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"About a month, we went to a social after 3 weeks and once we were verified we were ready to go

Must have been back in the day when you didnt need to be verified to attend socials?

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By *exmaleMan
over a year ago

centre

"say I’m at my end! No meets or even potentials on here and been pretty active the last 6/8 months! Maybe I’m just ugly

lose the dick pic and the party photo would be my friendly advice

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By *ad IdeaMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Took me 3 months to convince someone to meet me. After i got meet verified it was much easier.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Think I was a week

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By *arce47Couple
over a year ago

waterford, Dublin

We are still waiting

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By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal

About 6 weeks, had a social meet first then we had some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely too long for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One day

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We went to a party after 4 days...

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

It took us 2 hours . We only joindled the site and within an hour a couple messaged to say they were near if we wanted them to drop in. We didn't know what to do we thought that this must be the way it works and not wanting to be rude we said ok. So after a mini panic attack from both of us they arrived . We had a little fun and a great laugh . Talk about a baptism of fire lol.

Thankfully it worked out and we found our feet taking it slower after that lol.

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By *exmaleMan
over a year ago

centre

[Removed by poster at 20/09/18 23:46:20]

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By *sir88Man
over a year ago

Donaghmede

Had 3 meets same day i joined, never had a hustke with meets since. Maybe am the luck single lad

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Cant remember to be honest

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Within a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 days I think!

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By *ustforfun90777Man
over a year ago

Enfield

"say I’m at my end! No meets or even potentials on here and been pretty active the last 6/8 months! Maybe I’m just ugly

lose the dick pic and the party photo would be my friendly advice"

Actually thought I had that hidden tbh... my bad! Wouldn’t have said that was a party pic?

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I took it easy....found my feet first. Took me about 4 weeks for a social meet and a play meet was about 6/7 weeks.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

About a month. First meet was a social. Haven’t looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One week and I still see her a few time a month as a very good friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three years, seven months, two weeks, one day and 17 hours ( give or take a few minutes)...and still waiting??

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By *ebra LoungeCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Just out of curiosity ladies, gents and couples. How long after joining the site, did you arrange and successfully meet with someone?"

A year

We tested the waters but then life got in the way for a while....

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By *weetcplCouple
over a year ago

Central

we went to a club in Liverpool, first before we joined fab, lol

it was someone there that told us about the site ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months and still not met anyone. But I do get offers from guys and TVs almost every time that I am online. But it's women and MF couples that I am into.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Been on here a while. Never had the confidence to try get a meet.

I would get all optimistic messaging someone then it’d prolly ruin my day if it was a no and more than likely it will be.

I just end rather not knowing what might happen.

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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago

ashbourne

About 6 months... was losing hope at the number of no shows however events like Vanilla have helped meet more genuine people and Id happily play with anyone there

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Socially within a week but that put me off meeting again for a couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks. Coffee meet which turned into more than a coffee meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Socially within a week but that put me off meeting again for a couple of weeks. "

What happened that put you off so much?

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

A few weeks when part of a couple. Much longer as a single but that was my decision. Your return from Fab depends on your effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my first profile I joined met a guy after a week and deleted profile straight after. Put myself in an awful position. Rejoined 2 months later a lot wiser after chatting to a friend who was here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoping to meet in the next week or so and that makes it around 2 months

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