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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this?? "

Ana here ... you have a gorgeous body with curves in the right places. Don't put yourself down. When the negative thought comes in replace it with ... I've gorgeous curves xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even tho the other girls has a nicer body this is my downfall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone got the perfect body we all have our hang ups ..u look amazing...

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

We all like different things. Most on here are happy if you breathing.. some will have you if you not lol

For me to be honest im more attracted to attitude first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank yourself lucky,if we all looked the same,you would all look like me

(Grey here btw)

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Op from your pics your a sexy beautiful lady and you should have more confidence I would be very happy to be getting a meet with someone so gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a gorgeous sexy body.

Don't let anything or anyone get you down.

My first meet,well it was with Me Grey.He let the minx out.A day I still remember very well.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that

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By *cilWoman
over a year ago

Wexford

If a person likes you with your clothes on they are going to love getting you out of them. It's unlikely you are going to get naked with someone if there isn't attraction on both sides so just go for it. Embrace the moment and trust the other person wants to be there as much as you do. If they don't, let them go fuck themselves, they are probably used to it!

Btw you look amazing but you have to learn to believe it yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe invest in lingerie that makes you feel sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that "

Over thinking my dear.

Many people would love to look like you in that age bracket.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Maybe invest in lingerie that makes you feel sexy. "

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Glad you used the word "invest" there

Sexiness is an attitude not numbers on a scale!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this?? "

Diet and exercise. I'm sorry if that's not the answer you were looking for. I'm sure others will propose other 'solutions' too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe invest in lingerie that makes you feel sexy. "

It's not about dressing up its how you wear it. Wear it with confidence and be YOURSELF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all ur own hardest critics when it comes to our own body.

Learn to love ur curves shapes and bumps .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all ur own hardest critics when it comes to our own body.

Learn to love ur curves shapes and bumps ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that "

My body confidence was knocked a few months ago by a guy who I met...an experienced fabber....who made me feel like just a 'pulse and not a person' at all. Not a nice feeling!

Its easy to say to get over it but my confidence in my body shape, and in me as a person, was effected and it does leave a lasting effect and also put me off meeting or at least choosing the 'safe' options for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t be confident with my own body either - would love to be a bit heavier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that "

People will knock you down to make themselves feel better. These sad people are hiding from there own problems. That said it can be very hard to get what was said out of your head. You are beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn’t be confident with my own body either - would love to be a bit heavier"

Wouldn’t be confident with my own body either - would love to be a bit lighter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and personal chemistry is way more important. Way more.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that

My body confidence was knocked a few months ago by a guy who I met...an experienced fabber....who made me feel like just a 'pulse and not a person' at all. Not a nice feeling!

Its easy to say to get over it but my confidence in my body shape, and in me as a person, was effected and it does leave a lasting effect and also put me off meeting or at least choosing the 'safe' options for meets.

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Totally get what your saying......mine was a fabber too

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn’t be confident with my own body either - would love to be a bit heavier

Wouldn’t be confident with my own body either - would love to be a bit lighter. "

Swap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not super confident in my own body after 2 kids , but I am what I am,

Your pics are stunning op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have told me I’ve a nice body and a big dick but I don’t believe them :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that

My body confidence was knocked a few months ago by a guy who I met...an experienced fabber....who made me feel like just a 'pulse and not a person' at all. Not a nice feeling!

Its easy to say to get over it but my confidence in my body shape, and in me as a person, was effected and it does leave a lasting effect and also put me off meeting or at least choosing the 'safe' options for meets.

Totally get what your saying......mine was a fabber too "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Maybe invest in lingerie that makes you feel sexy.

It's not about dressing up its how you wear it. Wear it with confidence and be YOURSELF

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Being yourself and not trying to be someone else or someone you're not is indeed the key

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"People have told me I’ve a nice body and a big dick but I don’t believe them :/ "

Maybe they said you are a big dick?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Why do so many women put themselfs down . I have a friend and her ex put her so far down it took me well over 6 months to get her out of it. The difference in her since he is gone . Why do women let these guys do that .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Start believing in yourself you are a very sexy looking lady

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Start believing in yourself you are a very sexy looking lady "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same, i have 0 confidence and absolutely hate my body, my hubby loves it and is always telling me im gorgeous and after 10 vodkas i believe him lol

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

Is there anyone out there who has nothing theyd like to change about their body!? As i get older tho i give less and less of a sh*t about what other people think. Before a meet think about what you like about how you look! And of course dont underestimate eating healthily, (s)exercising regularly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im on a wheelchair. The way I see it the wheelchair isn't my problem it's theirs if they don't like it. Anyway to answer your question. My meets have been brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence has dropped over the last year from just one comment. Really knocked my me for 6.....struggling to get it back. And I know from my pictures you'll all say you have nothing to worry about but you try telling the brain that "

Flaunt that body, it’s amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this?? "
I'd take another look in the mirror because going by your pics you have nothing to worry about,your a cracking looking lady

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I think it comes down to how we measure ourselves.

If looks is the only thing then you’re going to have ups and downs all the time. But the moment you recognise you are far more than just what you look. You start measuring yourself in other ways, your confidence becomes diversified over everything that is good about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even tho the other girls has a nicer body this is my downfall"

You're joking right? Ask yourself this; do you only like one body type in men? I doubt it, variety is the spice of life, besides, you look smoking anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this??

Ana here ... you have a gorgeous body with curves in the right places. Don't put yourself down. When the negative thought comes in replace it with ... I've gorgeous curves xx "
I'd say the same everything looks good from this side

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By *oupleuncutCouple
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

I was too busy trying to get them into bed to worry about my body, didn't take long so I got naked before they changed their minds even the most beautiful women have their insecurities so love what you have girl, god took a little bit extra time to make you sexy as hell xxx

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this?? "

Body positivity... i look in the mirrior and remind myself im a beautiful strong woman. I enter a room with confidence and a smile, make eye contact.. remind yourself someone is there because they want to be not because they have to be. Enjoy your body..... get to know it again. Inner voices should always be kind, its the voice you listen to the most xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this??

Body positivity... i look in the mirrior and remind myself im a beautiful strong woman. I enter a room with confidence and a smile, make eye contact.. remind yourself someone is there because they want to be not because they have to be. Enjoy your body..... get to know it again. Inner voices should always be kind, its the voice you listen to the most xxx"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this??

Body positivity... i look in the mirrior and remind myself im a beautiful strong woman. I enter a room with confidence and a smile, make eye contact.. remind yourself someone is there because they want to be not because they have to be. Enjoy your body..... get to know it again. Inner voices should always be kind, its the voice you listen to the most xxx

Well said "

Just to add my first meet was amazing. He took his time to build things up beforehand and he made me feel so special. It was a fantastic meet and my body confidence wasnt an issue then. I felt so sexy. Enjoy your first meet xx

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By *rudenMan
over a year ago

dublin

I wish lovely body. Dermot

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By *eys00Man
over a year ago

have boots will travel


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this?? "

Anybody with the ability to jive need never be self conscious. That thing is an art form!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this?? "

I wish I had your legs and figure. You are hot and Im not bi.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did everyone do on there first meets? I myself would be bbw and not so confident with my body! How do u over come this?? "

i was nervous as hell at my first meet ... i still get some nervous ... but that all adds to the excitement ... at my first meet the lady was very kind & understanding ... she made the meet to be like a date with a girlfriend ... we chatted, laughed & enjoyed a drink ... when it came to play she took the lead, relaxed me, ket me know what she wanted & liked ... i may not have been great but she re assured me I was ... & we made love quite a few times through out the evening ... I loved every minute of the meet,headed home feeling like king of the world .

since then I have always endeavoured to have relaxed fun meets, thank the people for meeting, find something nice to say about their body & personality... make the meet like meeting a friend..we were all 1st meets once

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

You look fabulous in your photos and I wouldn't call you a bbw lovely and curvy yes you need to keep telling yourself your beautiful and your confidence will grow my first experience at this was as a single lady and didn't go well,it's easier when you have a partner to swing with just relax and go with the flow and you'll have a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u everyone for yr lovely messages I wi.rake all advice on bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank u everyone for yr lovely messages I wi.rake all advice on bored "
Jesus not it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every body is everybody's type. If some numb nut isn't into you find someone who is. If you aren't happy with you learn to be and if you can't, try to exact a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes all sorts on here to make up the site . No one is the same and for every bad comment there are 10 good in My experience and believe me I've been called some awful names or horrible things said about my appearance in pics . But I'm not here to make everyone happy so F**k the nasties and enjoy your time here. I'm sure anyone wanting to meet you will enjoy your curvy sexiness

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