FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Catfished

Jump to newest
 

By *opper007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Limerick

Seen some dodgy accounts on here lately.. Clearly men posing as women and couples.. Just wondering if anyone ever arrived at a meet to find a male waiting for them when they expected either a couple or female...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen some dodgy accounts on here lately.. Clearly men posing as women and couples.. Just wondering if anyone ever arrived at a meet to find a male waiting for them when they expected either a couple or female... "

Verify they are genuine in advance with a phone call .... it's funny the amount of couples who's other half is away at the moment though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kik cam makes it easy to know who is real if they wont cam then block and move on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik cam makes it easy to know who is real if they wont cam then block and move on"

Yep kik is good for getting rid of the dead wood alright

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik cam makes it easy to know who is real if they wont cam then block and move on"

I don't Kik cam but I'm real

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik cam makes it easy to know who is real if they wont cam then block and move on

I don't Kik cam but I'm real "

Same here wont cam here or kik

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do u just go on pics ladies or something else

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do u just go on pics ladies or something else "

I use Kik and have no problem swapping pics just don't like using the cam

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do u just go on pics ladies or something else

I use Kik and have no problem swapping pics just don't like using the cam"

Fair enough I suppose whatever we find comfortable

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugs BunnyCouple
over a year ago

south Dublin

Why do men bother doing this tho? Its not like anyones gonna turn up at a meet, expecting a couple/woman, find its a man on his own and say oh well we'll just get it on then!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"Why do men bother doing this tho? Its not like anyones gonna turn up at a meet, expecting a couple/woman, find its a man on his own and say oh well we'll just get it on then! "

I don't know if they actually expect to get to a meet but I imagine some are just pic hunting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen some dodgy accounts on here lately.. Clearly men posing as women and couples.. Just wondering if anyone ever arrived at a meet to find a male waiting for them when they expected either a couple or female...

Verify they are genuine in advance with a phone call .... it's funny the amount of couples who's other half is away at the moment though "

Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

On my first ever swinging meet I got screwed, and not in the good way . Had been talking to a couple for a number of weeks and agreed to meet. I booked a hotel in Dublin. When I got there they looked nothing like the pics she had sent and he absolutely did not want to be there!!!! Live and learn. Expensive lesson though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my first ever swinging meet I got screwed, and not in the good way . Had been talking to a couple for a number of weeks and agreed to meet. I booked a hotel in Dublin. When I got there they looked nothing like the pics she had sent and he absolutely did not want to be there!!!! Live and learn. Expensive lesson though "

Well that sucked

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Seen some dodgy accounts on here lately.. Clearly men posing as women and couples.. Just wondering if anyone ever arrived at a meet to find a male waiting for them when they expected either a couple or female...

Verify they are genuine in advance with a phone call .... it's funny the amount of couples who's other half is away at the moment though "

-------------------

..or else "she's in the shower" again everytime "they're" rung

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal


"Do u just go on pics ladies or something else

I use Kik and have no problem swapping pics just don't like using the cam"

I'm the same, hate camming, just makes me feel uncomfortable but I def have lady bits lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do a coffee meet first, means you can make a polite excuse to leave after downing the coffee

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I never use the kik cam... id chat no problem or send pics......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Y'all should watch Catfish

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Along time ago I arranged a coffee meet but the uncle (not my uncle lol)turned up and not the nephew. Turned out the uncle was using his nephews photos, the mind boggles

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Along time ago I arranged a coffee meet but the uncle (not my uncle lol)turned up and not the nephew. Turned out the uncle was using his nephews photos, the mind boggles "

Did you run ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unnerbenMan
over a year ago

Dublin / Cork

Yep that's why I use the cam chat on fab and also kik and snapchat . A lot easier to out the fakes if they arnt willing to go in cam to show they are a couple .

Also if on the site for example over a year and have no verifications don't even bother responding to them as not worth wasting the time as defo fakes .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opper007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Limerick


"Along time ago I arranged a coffee meet but the uncle (not my uncle lol)turned up and not the nephew. Turned out the uncle was using his nephews photos, the mind boggles "

Oh man that sucks lol... So what did you do? Or what did he actually say to try and justify it ))

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Along time ago I arranged a coffee meet but the uncle (not my uncle lol)turned up and not the nephew. Turned out the uncle was using his nephews photos, the mind boggles

Did you run ??"

When I asked what he thought he was at he just said what's the harm and did I want a coffee. I just told him to grow up and left. And he had the cheek to ask me to verify him later but was swiftly blocked.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Along time ago I arranged a coffee meet but the uncle (not my uncle lol)turned up and not the nephew. Turned out the uncle was using his nephews photos, the mind boggles "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opper007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Limerick


"Along time ago I arranged a coffee meet but the uncle (not my uncle lol)turned up and not the nephew. Turned out the uncle was using his nephews photos, the mind boggles

Did you run ??

When I asked what he thought he was at he just said what's the harm and did I want a coffee. I just told him to grow up and left. And he had the cheek to ask me to verify him later but was swiftly blocked. "

Verify him as what? Not the guy in the pics lol...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Along time ago I arranged a coffee meet but the uncle (not my uncle lol)turned up and not the nephew. Turned out the uncle was using his nephews photos, the mind boggles

Did you run ??

When I asked what he thought he was at he just said what's the harm and did I want a coffee. I just told him to grow up and left. And he had the cheek to ask me to verify him later but was swiftly blocked. "

Cheeky pup!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kik cam makes it easy to know who is real if they wont cam then block and move on"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen some dodgy accounts on here lately.. Clearly men posing as women and couples.. Just wondering if anyone ever arrived at a meet to find a male waiting for them when they expected either a couple or female...

Verify they are genuine in advance with a phone call .... it's funny the amount of couples who's other half is away at the moment though "
Unfortunately that's us at the moment as i..the male half...is away for 8 weeks.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *opper007 OP   Man
over a year ago

Limerick


"Seen some dodgy accounts on here lately.. Clearly men posing as women and couples.. Just wondering if anyone ever arrived at a meet to find a male waiting for them when they expected either a couple or female...

Verify they are genuine in advance with a phone call .... it's funny the amount of couples who's other half is away at the moment though Unfortunately that's us at the moment as i..the male half...is away for 8 weeks. "

Need a temporary replacement

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away


"On my first ever swinging meet I got screwed, and not in the good way . Had been talking to a couple for a number of weeks and agreed to meet. I booked a hotel in Dublin. When I got there they looked nothing like the pics she had sent and he absolutely did not want to be there!!!! Live and learn. Expensive lesson though

Well that sucked "

We had a similar experience but it was the female that didn't want to be there. Needless to say we left it as a social meet. Now that's how we roll, social/click meet first

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do a coffee meet first, means you can make a polite excuse to leave after downing the coffee "

I think a social meet is the only way.Can see for yourself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top