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By *leasureGuy17 OP   Man
over a year ago

City Center

Really hate time wasters. Why agree to meet and then stop answering messages ? Think they should be named and shamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with you man. I know things happen but the regular time wasters should be named and shamed

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By *leasureGuy17 OP   Man
over a year ago

City Center


"I totally agree with you man. I know things happen but the regular time wasters should be named and shamed"

It’s crazy on here, never seen a site like it

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Well at least it wasn’t a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob just change of minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True... altho ive had no shows too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prob just change of minds "
true there but a messege to let someone know wouldn't go astray if that was the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prob just change of minds true there but a messege to let someone know wouldn't go astray if that was the case."

No answer is the same thing here unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prob just change of minds true there but a messege to let someone know wouldn't go astray if that was the case.

No answer is the same thing here unfortunately "
yeah thats the sad thing unfortunatly. As for me id meet anyone who's up for a social coffee and see how things go.

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

People lack manners in all walks of life and it shows on fab as well

This is reason why name and shaming isn't allowed. Because you don't know the motives behind the name and shame, and will only get one side of a story.

Reporting is the only way to go, fortunately or unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People lack manners in all walks of life and it shows on fab as well

This is reason why name and shaming isn't allowed. Because you don't know the motives behind the name and shame, and will only get one side of a story.

Reporting is the only way to go, fortunately or unfortunately "

Can you report someone for a no show? Seems to have the same issue as naming and shaming..

Agree 100% it happens in all walks of life, take it on the chin and onto the next one

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Also changing your mind is not time wasting esp if you had agreed to meet before sending face pics

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By *leasureGuy17 OP   Man
over a year ago

City Center


"Well at least it wasn’t a no show"

Who in their right mind would do a no show to you

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County


"People lack manners in all walks of life and it shows on fab as well

This is reason why name and shaming isn't allowed. Because you don't know the motives behind the name and shame, and will only get one side of a story.

Reporting is the only way to go, fortunately or unfortunately

Can you report someone for a no show? Seems to have the same issue as naming and shaming..

Agree 100% it happens in all walks of life, take it on the chin and onto the next one "

If it's an arranged meet yes you can report.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever


"Well at least it wasn’t a no show

Who in their right mind would do a no show to you "

No one but I’ve heard it happens

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

How about introducing a points system? Start at 5 and you go up or down depending on show/no show

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By *leasureGuy17 OP   Man
over a year ago

City Center


"How about introducing a points system? Start at 5 and you go up or down depending on show/no show"

I actually like that idea

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Really hate time wasters. Why agree to meet and then stop answering messages ? Think they should be named and shamed "

Sometimes that can happen when the guy gets too eager/clingy/messaging constantly about the meet and turns you right off and the person doesn’t know how to say sorry but not interested now. I wouldn’t call them time wasters. I’ve had guys plan a meet in advance but on the day be nowhere to be seen, that’s a time waster

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

I had a meet organised with someone, we were getting on great until she said she only does bareback. I politely declined and cancelled our meet. She specifically stated "safe sex" as one of her preferences. She called me a typical time waster. In this situation I think it would be unfair to name and shame me, as I really did nothing wrong yet in her eyes I was a time waster.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

That was her fault she should have been up front to you about only liking bareback .

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"I had a meet organised with someone, we were getting on great until she said she only does bareback. I politely declined and cancelled our meet. She specifically stated "safe sex" as one of her preferences. She called me a typical time waster. In this situation I think it would be unfair to name and shame me, as I really did nothing wrong yet in her eyes I was a time waster."

It's because of this that a points system wouldn't work. It could be abused by those who hold a grudge.

In this case the poster could be "docked" points even though he did nothing wrong.

E8ay users would be familiar with the feedback system they use, it relies on the goodwill of others to keep your feedback at 100%, 1 slip and a bad review and you lose your perfect score.

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