FabSwingers.com forum: Leaving the site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thoughts ? My rant...

I'm deleting everything on my page for I don't think the site is worth paying for it and before you say it, it's free to use I think that's rubbish to. you block someone on it and they come back changing there profile and name.

There is nothing but time wasters on it.males pretending to be couples and some are but wanting to play alone etc

People don't read profiles before they mail you

Most people are arrogant and presumptuous esp single males.

If the site cut out the time wasters all together I probably would have stayed. but it has changed for the worst.

People don't chat in the chat rooms there could be 27 people in it and maybe one says hello ,it's a waste of time.like come on, what are the chat rooms for? What is the point of it.

I have met a few nice people I could count in one hand, I will miss them for they are very genuine.

Been on here now nearly a year with a subscription with a few meets. I just don't think it's worth the subscription anymore.

I have never posted in here before but I think there is very little genuine people on Fab. The amount of emails I get with people just being down bright rude and being abusive,no point hitting block button.Having said that most of the emails are coming from non site members. I think it's sad to see the site go this way for you can't even name and shame the time wasters, sure you can report them but nothing's ever done.

I think It should be a full paid site it might reduce the time wasters on it.

what do you genuine fabbers think? Sorry for rant guys...

Everything's deleted including my friends list.But I'm waiting now for my sub runs out and bye it is fab.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I agree that it should be a full paid site, to disrupt the trolls but some will pay for what they call pleasure, so not a complete removal of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very well written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts ? My rant...

There is nothing but time wasters on it.males pretending to be couples and some are but wanting to play alone etc

People don't read profiles before they mail you

Most people are arrogant and presumptuous esp single males.

If the site cut out the time wasters all together I probably would have stayed. but it has changed for the worst.

People don't chat in the chat rooms there could be 27 people in it and maybe one says hello ,it's a waste of time.like come on, what are the chat rooms for? What is the point of it.

I have met a few nice people I could count in one hand, I will miss them for they are very genuine.

Been on here now nearly a year with a subscription with a few meets. I just don't think it's worth the subscription anymore.

I think It should be a full paid site it might reduce the time wasters on it.

what do you genuine fabbers think? Sorry for rant guys...

Everything's deleted including my friends list.But I'm waiting now for my sub runs out and bye it is fab."

You will get all that from some fully paid vertifed members too.its a online site so unfortally u will get as much crap thrown at ya as well as meeting nice people.i wouldnt take fab too serious. By all means leave if u not enjoying it or take a break and maybe set ur message filters tighter to stop unwanted mail.best of luck op.

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

You just have to delete and ignore the shit as best you can.

I'd have been nervous to use my credit card so if it was a paid site, we would probably have missed out on some wonderful experiences and missed meeting a special couple who we have met now for years, and I think many couples at the newbie stage would be the same.

So I think you just have to deal with the crap as best you can really, try not to let it annoy you and, much like any bullying scenario, don't let people know it's annoying you

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Well said but afraid thats how it is. Navigate the eejits and block...

I think the only way you would ever be free of them would be to have a circle of friends and only talk to them on email or kik etc. Anywhere you put any info in the public domain then someone is going to use that information somehow....

the temptation to leave is great i know but why should you let the assholes spoil your fun??

Fill the contact list first at least

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

It has been the same for years, site works well enough if you dont subscribe so its free basically...and leaving is free as well...

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

"It has been the same for years, site works well enough if you dont subscribe so its free basically...and leaving is free as well..."

Plus you don't have to wait until your sub runs out

Just press the button and off you go

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Like life..... if you're not happy change it.

Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts ? My rant...

There is nothing but time wasters on it.males pretending to be couples and some are but wanting to play alone etc

People don't read profiles before they mail you

Most people are arrogant and presumptuous esp single males.

If the site cut out the time wasters all together I probably would have stayed. but it has changed for the worst.

People don't chat in the chat rooms there could be 27 people in it and maybe one says hello ,it's a waste of time.like come on, what are the chat rooms for? What is the point of it.

I have met a few nice people I could count in one hand, I will miss them for they are very genuine.

Been on here now nearly a year with a subscription with a few meets. I just don't think it's worth the subscription anymore.

I think It should be a full paid site it might reduce the time wasters on it.

what do you genuine fabbers think? Sorry for rant guys...

Everything's deleted including my friends list.But I'm waiting now for my sub runs out and bye it is fab."

Whinge-fest..theres a lot of repetition in that post op, man up for god sake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way should it be a full paid site.

I'm a single guy.Never pretended to be a part of a couple.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm afraid even on paid site you will still get your trolls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah no one cares lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been om here since January and have paid for silver membership twice and I have yet to meet F or M/F (my preference).

The way I see this site is that there are a lot of genuine people on here that do meet, but they will only meet with people that have had verified meets or meet at the likes of Vanilla. That's because of the time wasters on this site!

I think once you break your FabSwingers meeting duck, further meets will follow.

I will probably give it until the New Year and if I still haven't met anyone I won't pay anymore and will login less and less.

hopefully it won't come to that, ever the optimist

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