FabSwingers.com forum: Insulting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.

But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Because you hurt their fragile egos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation!

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse

"So I was chatting to a couple and they started to get very very pushing about meeting where they would mail me 3/4 times a day if I didn't reply straight away. And I just got very intimidating. Now they message me insul tying me. Now it doesn't bother me because I know it's keyboard warriors.

But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
Because they think they are the best and nobody should sy no to them. Condescending like

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Massive turn off ....hate pushy people .... just block them

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

We find it best to just block pushy people before the insults arrive. Not ones for crap ourselves

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By *rancisClaireCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Not nice at all , we have similar experiences . Anyway, block them and move on . Plenty of nice and real people here. Between , we are real nice and friendly couple

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By *imerickboyMan
over a year ago

city

Block them straight away and move on

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By *eryRideyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

They're exposing their shallowness. Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss a just block & move on, I wouldn't give the spoilt brats any acknowledgement.you know what your looking for & they probably get offended when you knock them back. (Tell them to grow up & then block X

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Massive turn off ....hate pushy people .... just block them "

Pushy people are great if your car is broken down

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

We have been lucky to meet two unicorns and enjoy our time together .. one thing you never do with anyone is push them into a decision they are unsure of ..for us all parties involved need to want to play that's when the magic happens

op if you feel pressured at all move on you need to be comfortable xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "

Some people get too excited when they start chatting to someone and it seems like all good and then turn around 180 degrees. Some people are not mature enough to realise we are here to have fun and if one side is not align with you anymore they get offended

just pass by and continue with your life and don’t be bothered, if this continues worst case you block them. If they are constantly online does not mean you should be. xx

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "

Because it's all about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point trying to understand why people insult or are pushy here.u will be a long time here trying to figure out people here.its defeating the purpose of u coming here in the first place.

If u feel they are demanding and pushy and insulting block them and move on .plenty of nice folks here

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Massive turn off ....hate pushy people .... just block them

Pushy people are great if your car is broken down

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. There goes my coffee spat all over my phone thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dealt with a couples profile like this before

They used to bug me when I had the couples profile and then messaged looking to meet when I was back on singles profile if I could provide a single bi fem...

I just blocked them

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Well, if it's a couple... it's not as if either of them have gone a few months without & are just looking to have sex...

They probably had a fantasy

and you had to "spoil it all" by saying "No thanks" or "Let's chat for a bit first"

If they're so insulting, at least now they have each other to have angry sex with

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "

Some people get frustrated at the first hint at intimidation or aggression its just best to block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on unfortunately a few couples aren't even couples . Anyone been pushy ain't worth your time.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I read a message, had to get up to go home from work, no time to reply. Marked as unread so I would remember to check it later and reply.

Got home had message calling me every name under the sun they seen i read and marked as unread, they were not into games, etc etc etc.

In a way its good, cause you can just cross them off the list.

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By *ohnjoe888Man
over a year ago

cork

Life to short. You will always find idiots. X block em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on and off fab for a few years and have to admit that I have blocked far far more this time round than ever before.

Maybe my tolerance for idiots has reduced with age lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I swear some people are just unreal on this. 90% of the time I only like talking to one or two people at a time because it get a to much. You get flooded with messages lose what your saying at then people send you loads of messages and start calling you horrible names. Mannors cost nothing and would get better responses and most messages are so vulger for a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read a message, had to get up to go home from work, no time to reply. Marked as unread so I would remember to check it later and reply.

Got home had message calling me every name under the sun they seen i read and marked as unread, they were not into games, etc etc etc.

In a way its good, cause you can just cross them off the list."

Exactly, better to find out what people are like at the message stage rather than ending up meeting psychos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Life to short. You will always find idiots. X block em "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have got to the point I’m almost afraid to reply to guys now as it happens so often and in chat I v rarely reply to anyone as it’s almost straight away hi to wanna meet? I am now a lurker ??

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By *eavier than HeavenMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Have got to the point I’m almost afraid to reply to guys now as it happens so often and in chat I v rarely reply to anyone as it’s almost straight away hi to wanna meet? I am now a lurker ??"

Same, tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have got to the point I’m almost afraid to reply to guys now as it happens so often and in chat I v rarely reply to anyone as it’s almost straight away hi to wanna meet? I am now a lurker ??

Same, tbh

Thats not good. I must be lucky as I have had very few nasty messages. I do have a lot of filters on though..maybe that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "
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Block them??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But my point is why do people get so insulting towards you if you don't reply or just not interested. "

Petty and childish people everywhere there loss no need for that bs

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