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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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So whats your opinions on someone that doesnt drink ? Alcohol of course ....... i havent had a drink in a few months been out a few times with no drink and didnt really miss it apart from feeling a little less confident but working on this . Whata yer opinions on drinking ?

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Don’t trust them...

We dont meet non drinkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it shouldn’t make a difference one way or the other. I often go for social coffees but don’t actually drink coffee - same thing?

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By *haz0101Man
over a year ago

london

Don't drink either but I find it very hard to socialise or find any event that doesn't involve drinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drink on occasion but dont need it to socalise or play.

Dont see how being a drinker or non drinker has anything to do with meeting people

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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By *r MacmullyMan
over a year ago

Tarbert

I'm off drinking and will now be on Water poor minerals when out..

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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Don’t trust them...

We dont meet non drinkers "

Hmmmm why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it shouldn’t make a difference one way or the other. I often go for social coffees but don’t actually drink coffee - same thing?"

Thought it was just me who doesn't drink coffee at a coffee meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me . Don't drink a whole lot these days normally drink soda water by end of nite . No one knows what it is .

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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Don't drink either but I find it very hard to socialise or find any event that doesn't involve drinking!"

I have found same and if out and not drinking its like a ‘ o is there something up that your not drinking are you on meds etc ..

I have done the whole drinking every weekend and it put my training back .

Prob now is my bodys not used to it if i do .

Cant win lol

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I didn't drink for a long time and was swinging too most people couldn't care if you drank or not. But you'll get asked how do you do it

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Don’t trust them...

We dont meet non drinkers

Hmmmm why not "

Because they are dull as fuck....

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"Surely it shouldn’t make a difference one way or the other."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you even go out if you weren't drinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me if fucking prefer to be sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink and I prefer to meet sober people rather that d*unk for sex meets tbh. I don't mind socials either I go regularly and don't drink .

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

She drinks but I have up drinking when I got my driving license.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"For me if fucking prefer to be sober "

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I'll drink to that

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I don’t need alcohol to have fun.

I prefer to be sober when playing at parties etc, then things are in control and I can leave if and when I want to.

I prefer not to play with people d*unk or high, just my personal preference.

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By *aryjohn88Couple
over a year ago

Borders kilkenny carlow wexford

Fully agreed

It's about being in control of oneself

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway


"Don't drink either but I find it very hard to socialise or find any event that doesn't involve drinking!"

I'm the same. Its not easy to be a non drinker

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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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Wasnt expecting that many non drinkers here . Saying when playing not drinking iv witnessed a few women at parties who were so pissed it was a free for all for the guys . Not really my scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't drink either but I find it very hard to socialise or find any event that doesn't involve drinking!

I'm the same. Its not easy to be a non drinker"

Agreed, social life in Ireland revolves around alcohol and many people start at such a young age that they never develop the social skills to have a good time without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasnt expecting that many non drinkers here . Saying when playing not drinking iv witnessed a few women at parties who were so pissed it was a free for all for the guys . Not really my scene "

Too many complications in that scenario for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasnt expecting that many non drinkers here . Saying when playing not drinking iv witnessed a few women at parties who were so pissed it was a free for all for the guys . Not really my scene "

Sounds like a criminal case waiting to happen

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

None of us drink and we don't need alcohol to enjoy ourselves

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"Wasnt expecting that many non drinkers here . Saying when playing not drinking iv witnessed a few women at parties who were so pissed it was a free for all for the guys . Not really my scene

Sounds like a criminal case waiting to happen "

There was a big court case about one earlier this year...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasnt expecting that many non drinkers here . Saying when playing not drinking iv witnessed a few women at parties who were so pissed it was a free for all for the guys . Not really my scene

Sounds like a criminal case waiting to happen

There was a big court case about one earlier this year..."

The issue wasn't the ability to consent while d*unk though, that has yet to surface..

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

We dont drink, we're bad enought with out it lol

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I'm always cagey around people who drink esp if were in a pub.

Sorry to all the pioneers out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t drink as I like to keep my wits about me, whether that be a social meet or otherwise. I have no issue with a guy having a few drinks but I refuse to be in a meet with someone that’s d*unk.

What enjoyment will I get from playing with a guy that can’t keep an erection or that tries to eat me like he’s lapping up another pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't need drink to play etc but if we're at a party social etc yes we enjoy a drink... Easily we can go out and not drink, this is sometimes the case if one of us has to drive but no one ever says why you not drinking .. so I don't think it matters to most if you drink or not

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've no issue whatsover with someone not drinking, but I do have an issue with someone pouring the drink into himself while meeting. D*unken sex is sheit sex. No thanks. A glass of wine or two is fine but then it's play time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've no issue whatsover with someone not drinking, but I do have an issue with someone pouring the drink into himself while meeting. D*unken sex is sheit sex. No thanks. A glass of wine or two is fine but then it's play time. "

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Being serious for moment..

Theres so many reasons to not drink when meeting someone i couldnt even list them all.

For the social occasion, it is sometimes better to have a drink, especially if you dont know anyone, problem is, some people forget where that are and presume they are still in the local and get hammered.

In saying that i have gone to a few events outside the city and not drank so dont see a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not able to drink...because of this i was regularly greeted with "who else is going out"....

What a fucking insult lol

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By *lowersMan
over a year ago

Derry


"I drink on occasion but dont need it to socalise or play.

Dont see how being a drinker or non drinker has anything to do with meeting people"

I stopped drinking almost seven years ago for no other reason than I stopped enjoying it. To this day people on hearing I once drank but no longer do, ask me if I am an alcoholic. Which I’m not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I drink on occasion but dont need it to socalise or play.

Dont see how being a drinker or non drinker has anything to do with meeting people

I stopped drinking almost seven years ago for no other reason than I stopped enjoying it. To this day people on hearing I once drank but no longer do, ask me if I am an alcoholic. Which I’m not"

Just tell them u dont need drink

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Wasnt expecting that many non drinkers here . Saying when playing not drinking iv witnessed a few women at parties who were so pissed it was a free for all for the guys . Not really my scene "

Yeah and this is one of the reasons why I don't generally drink at parties, mainly just at socials (unless I'm driving).

I don't find d*unkenness attractive and more importantly I prefer to keep my wits about me as alcohol tends to lead to some form of drama and I avoid drama at all costs.

I leave drinking for nights out with my mates, at parties I prefer to focus on play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t trust them...

We dont meet non drinkers "

Fuck I’m glad I’m an also so ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t trust them...

We dont meet non drinkers

Fuck I’m glad I’m an also so ha"

Alco even.

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I don't drink myself and wouldn't play with anyone that has been drinking just one of my rules

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I can take or leave drink. But def prefer to be sober for a meet and prefer whoever I’m meeting to have their wits about them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to put too fine a point on it but heavy drinkers really stink up the sex.

Also makes for sloppy, amateur sex. No thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a happy medium you want, I rarely drink myself these days but I'll enjoy a couple but not drink to excess like I did when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t need alcohol to have fun.

I prefer to be sober when playing at parties etc, then things are in control and I can leave if and when I want to.

I prefer not to play with people d*unk or high, just my personal preference. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t had a taste of drink near my lips in 10 years. Don’t feel the need to have it either. I’ve just as much as the next person and jump in the car and head home

Can be tough at times though, listening to people who are drinking make a complete eejit out of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it or leave it. I don't like d*unk people though and I never drink enough to get d*unk

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I'm sure some people do have a problem with non drinkers seeing as their are so many people here with alcohol problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure some people do have a problem with non drinkers seeing as their are so many people here with alcohol problems

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The problem is that some wish they could do without it, but cannot as it is difficult . So then it is easier to say non drinkers are boring etc etc because they have to have it . I understand this, I have been to plenty party's with people drinking and have not had any negativity from people really. Alot saying how do you do it, i wish i could do it.

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By *inearbysayhiWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I drink, but its becoming rarer and rarer these days. I dont like to drink if I'm going to an event, or party. I've noticed it sometimes makes people uncomfortable, but ce la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much rather not drink during meets, being able to drive is a big plus and I enjoy the fun a lot more when I’m sober

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really shouldnt make a difference.

Plenty to do and enjoy without being d*unk.

If one needs to be d*unk to have a good time, need to find something else to do rather than drink!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their business i couldn't care less. Same as someone who doesn't smoke. Just as long as they don't preach from their throne to me about it. Nothing worse.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I can go for months without drink don't miss it . Dont need drink to make me confident in fact rather be sober meeting ladies .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never trust a man who doesn’t drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a side note: how is d*unk an offensive word? Lmao

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I like a drink or 5...i dont HAVE to or NEED to, but i like it now n then.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I find d*unkenness very attractive in a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with your Guns . I’m non drinker also .You can still have fun when not drinking .You feel great in the morning and have even Greater memories . However don’t go over them with your grandchildren in the future . Haa Haa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not able to drink...because of this i was regularly greeted with "who else is going out"....

What a fucking insult lol"

Me too, I've had to stop due to illness but to be honest I rarely go out anymore since I had my eldest 4 years ago. I have a wedding on New Years Eve and I am focking dreading it!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I never drink on a meet. Out with mates then yes bring it on, but on a social or a horizontal then nope.

Wouldn't judge anyone who doesn't drink.

Wouldn't want to meet someone who had been drinking..Have done it twice and both meets were underwhelming...

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I haven't d*unk in years, except i have a bottle of rum or something on christmas day.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Never trust a man who doesn’t drink. "

You only hear this shite in ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped drinking 8 1/2 years ago, I had to. The first couple of years were extremely difficult, I didn't go out.

Thankfully now I can go out and enjoy myself.

As for being put off by non-drinkers, I avoided them like the plague when I was drinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never trust a man who doesn’t drink. "

Or who's eyebrows join in the middle

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By *aa MidletonMan
over a year ago

east cork

I wouldn't call myself a non drinker (alcohol) but would have a pint or a glass of wine, but no more than the one, it is a focus point in Ireland for socialising, I know a lot of people who can't hold a conversation unless they are drinking

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Never trust a man who doesn’t drink.

Or who's eyebrows join in the middle "

"Beware of those whose eyebrows meet,

For in their heart there lies deceit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasnt expecting that many non drinkers here . Saying when playing not drinking iv witnessed a few women at parties who were so pissed it was a free for all for the guys . Not really my scene "

That's quite disturbing

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Never trust a man who doesn’t drink.

Or who's eyebrows join in the middle

"Beware of those whose eyebrows meet,

For in their heart there lies deceit " "

That's me fucked (not literally though) non drinker and I have those pesky few hairs in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a non drinker but drink very little these days and am happier for it. Dread weddings and stag parties as there is pressure on to drink but even with those I generally drink less than those I drink with.

If I'm ever invited to parties or meets and greets I don't think I'll bother.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't need drink to play etc but if we're at a party social etc yes we enjoy a drink... Easily we can go out and not drink, this is sometimes the case if one of us has to drive but no one ever says why you not drinking .. so I don't think it matters to most if you drink or not "
(yeah same here )

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