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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently this is what i have noticed.Are the good old days of guys asking a woman out on a "normal" date . Or in actual fact reading the profiles firstly to see if they are a possible match. What are peoples thoughts on this as people give out to people here for using it like a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most dating sites are used for hook ups now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find most dating sites are used for hook ups now. "

Is it sex now before a meal or other casual hang out things ? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently this is what i have noticed.Are the good old days of guys asking a woman out on a "normal" date . Or in actual fact reading the profiles firstly to see if they are a possible match. What are peoples thoughts on this as people give out to people here for using it like a dating site? "

Its much easier to get sex on tinder than it is here its not just a guy think women know what they want and are quiet happy to have sex on first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most dating sites are used for hook ups now. "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I find most dating sites are used for hook ups now. "

Woohoo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say in here you out line what is exactly that you want and also easier to just ignore or reject anyone. And priorities are different from one person to another.. I like it coz I’m specifically here for that and not playing around or wasting anyone’s time...!!

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I find most girls on dating sites just want sex.

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

I dont think most people are looking for hook ups. I think a good majority are actually looking for a date. Thats mg experience

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By *eys00Man
over a year ago

have boots will travel


"Recently this is what i have noticed.Are the good old days of guys asking a woman out on a "normal" date . Or in actual fact reading the profiles firstly to see if they are a possible match. What are peoples thoughts on this as people give out to people here for using it like a dating site? "

I can honestly say I have had far more sex from Tinder than from here. Tinder isn't really a dating site any longer I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think relationship and romance died it's all just casual sex now

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By *eliciouslyWoman
over a year ago

Mallow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think relationship and romance died it's all just casual sex now "

I agree that is my experience to, also it always the ones who i don't want tryn to do the romance thing lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think relationship and romance died it's all just casual sex now

I agree that is my experience to, also it always the ones who i don't want tryn to do the romance thing lol. "

Fab kinda opened my eyes to the illusion of perfect relationships with so many married and attached on here cheating it's hard to feel it works at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the society we live in now. Everything is instant. People don't have to put effort in to get anything nowadays.

Want a car you walk into dealership take a loan and you have a car.

Want to watch a movie. No more going to video shop just hit a button and instant movie.

Seems you can have everything instantly now so why would anyone want to put effort into dating when you can have instant sex with someone.

How we interact has changed drastically since the internet so yes I think dating sites are just like hookup sites.

Damn shame too

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Most dating sites are the same as here guys and gals just looking for sex and both would be gagging for it. But a friend told me there are lots of serial daters just out to get wined and dined and vanish after your one date and appear back a few weeks later with a new site name . So he gave up just messers .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Romance can be as nice or nicer than sex to be honest if you are with a nice partner .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Romance can be as nice or nicer than sex to be honest if you are with a nice partner . "

True I"d say but the funny thing is guys just don't know how to sweet talk women even lol. Most just send one liners e.g let"s have sex without even saying hello lol = Immediate block from me.

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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Well im on a few like tindr and p o f and i find it harder to get even a date or a meet up from them . Than on here . Maby tindr is not as good when your liven in the sticks but i rarely get matches on it and i dont think im that bad lookin

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

Recently I've harboured the notion, but usually squash it as a stupid idea....who could possibly live up to my expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been doing the dating sites for years. Hopefully I have permanently quit now. My big issues with it.

1. I see the same gee bags year after year waiting for the one/ Mr. Right. It clearly doesn't work.

2. They want the man to spend ages crafting the perfect mail. I sort of understand it. But when I do this I'm probably still going to get rejected because my profile doesn't scream "normal" guy looking to get the express train to kidsville.

3. Dating sites seem to be designed to be addictive wastes of time like Facebook. I'm done with FB too. I'm kind of done with chasing women too. I know myself I know I'm a great catch. I've gotten by grand without them.

Even if I never get back into the fab inner circle again, it's a fun new perspective on the world around me

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I find the concept of dating sites to find a partner rather bizarre. Maybe I'm oldfashioned, but browsing through profiles and looking for a match based on very little information is a bit like playing the lottery, hit and miss with a good chance of beeing messed around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well im on a few like tindr and p o f and i find it harder to get even a date or a meet up from them . Than on here . Maby tindr is not as good when your liven in the sticks but i rarely get matches on it and i dont think im that bad lookin "

I have been trying to delete mine from POF for awhile now why cant they make it easier like tinder. I really hated tinder, i did not last to long there either. As someone has said a waste of time. I have cut down on FB and have thought of deleting that also . Very addictive all of them but it's not that it's something else ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's the society we live in now. Everything is instant. People don't have to put effort in to get anything nowadays.

Want a car you walk into dealership take a loan and you have a car.

Want to watch a movie. No more going to video shop just hit a button and instant movie.

Seems you can have everything

instantly now so why would anyone want to put effort into dating when you can have instant sex with someone.

How we interact has changed drastically since the internet so yes I think dating sites are just like hookup sites.

Damn shame too "

Well said!

Unfortunately this has become the way of the world.

Instant gratification to capture that perfect instagrammable photo!

Very few people understand the benefits of taking some time to enjoy a build up to getting what you want.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Miss grey I luv romance it's a sexy as sex it self.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Miss grey I luv romance it's a sexy as sex it self. "

I'm sure you do, not to sure if I am very romantic myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon only a very small majority of people know the meaning of a date.

Im not sure why they call them date sites even.they just hook up nsa sites

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By *onho30Man
over a year ago

cork

Can't bate pof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely better odds if winning the lotto!

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By *p519Man
over a year ago

Cork

I must be on the wrong dating sites

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must be on the wrong dating sites "

How come?? I have just deleted am done with that lol it's so much better here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently this is what i have noticed.Are the good old days of guys asking a woman out on a "normal" date . Or in actual fact reading the profiles firstly to see if they are a possible match. What are peoples thoughts on this as people give out to people here for using it like a dating site? "

societys perception of Fab v Tinder ... is that there are swingers (perverts) wanting casual nsa sex on Fab & similar sites... on Tinder sex may happen between consenting adults ... yet both sites are frequented by single men & women... so why is a one night stand ok on Tinder/POF but a one night stand on Fab is not ...if you are single you can have sex with whom ever you want...personally I think there are double standard ... for singles there is no difference ... except on a Fab profile everything is up front & in the open ... Fab v Tinder ... i would sooner be on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely better odds if winning the lotto! "

A lot of them here are pretending or too choosy n some times time waster too..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely better odds if winning the lotto!

A lot of them here are pretending or too choosy n some times time waster too.. "

I agree loads of time wasters but also there are some very very genuine people to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few I’d say.. well may be I haven’t met those one yet... this world can be also be not so simple..!

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