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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok folks straight to the point....play meet Saturday ( bukkake type meet )...two are defo attending what I wanted to ask how much longer should we Waite for the remainder to get bk to us...seeing as it's mid week with little word back we thinking no word back by tomorrow then good luck to em..thanks Mr S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t be stuck if a lad pulls out I’ll jump right in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose a weeks notice is long enough for most people. I'm arranging a group meet and it's going to take a month to get everyone together!!!

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

Alot of people get the jitters and chicken out because of nerves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well we think

2/3 days is enough..if u can't decide before then you'll never decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the life of me, i cant understand why guys express the interest, while still unsure if they will be available 5 or 6 days in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For the life of me, i cant understand why guys express the interest, while still unsure if they will be available 5 or 6 days in advance."
thats what we thought

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Ok folks straight to the point....play meet Saturday ( bukkake type meet )...two are defo attending what I wanted to ask how much longer should we Waite for the remainder to get bk to us...seeing as it's mid week with little word back we thinking no word back by tomorrow then good luck to em..thanks Mr S."
ok sorry for my blond moment but what’s a bukkake type meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google it!!!!!!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Well we think

2/3 days is enough..if u can't decide before then you'll never decide"

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Google it!!!!!!"
you could have just explained but now I know . You learn something new every day

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Just send another email asking if they can confirm their attendance or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Google it!!!!!!"

it is hump day after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Google it!!!!!! you could have just explained but now I know . You learn something new every day "
..it's s bit of a sticky encounter lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just send another email asking if they can confirm their attendance or not "
oh that's the idea..we just wanted to ask fellow fabbers thoughts on it or advice even..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have been online and haven't answered mails just move on to people who will show. Alot on here are all talk

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Force them to make up their mind.

Message them and tell them if they're not back to you by 6 o'clock this evening then you will look for someone else.

Even if they get back to you tomorrow tell them it's too late and they will not be considered again.

Might sound a bit harsh but time wasters need to be put in their place. Zero tolerance.

I understand that there are times when things just happen and commitments need to be broken but to not get back to you just reeks of uncertainty and probably wouldn't show up anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Force them to make up their mind.

Message them and tell them if they're not back to you by 6 o'clock this evening then you will look for someone else.

Even if they get back to you tomorrow tell them it's too late and they will not be considered again.

Might sound a bit harsh but time wasters need to be put in their place. Zero tolerance.

I understand that there are times when things just happen and commitments need to be broken but to not get back to you just reeks of uncertainty and probably wouldn't show up anyway."
cheers

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow

I would say it's too late for those that haven't gotten back to you at this stage. You need to give those that you are going to invite in their place a chance to make their attendance as they might need the couple of days notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they have been online and haven't answered mails just move on to people who will show. Alot on here are all talk "

I agree, it's difficult enough to organise anything on here without having to chase anyone up for confirmation

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple
over a year ago

City

You gave them plenty of notice for the meet right?? If they haven't replied by now saying their in, just don't bother msging them and go enjoy your night with others that have shown up

Sweets

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

If people are thatc interested they would be giving their answer straight away. For most meets in order to get 2 people you invite 10 . I hope the 2 guys turn up . Wish you guys the best .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would send more invites.

Then at least you have back ups if someone pulls out.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id invite extras cause sounds like the nerves gone or set up a little Kik group for the ones you have commuted so ye have an idea of who will definitely show. Ahhh and PS enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id invite extras cause sounds like the nerves gone or set up a little Kik group for the ones you have commuted so ye have an idea of who will definitely show. Ahhh and PS enjoy "

*commited

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I would send more invites.

Then at least you have back ups if someone pulls out.

Good luck."

If it's bukakke they probably want guys to pull out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You gave them plenty of notice for the meet right?? If they haven't replied by now saying their in, just don't bother msging them and go enjoy your night with others that have shown up

Sweets "
..yep plenty of notice guys

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