FabSwingers.com forum: married men. yes or no girls?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering do most women on here tend to avoid married guys? I'm always upfront about it from the start when I text first.

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By *hanelTvTV/TS
over a year ago

Turners Cross

Definite yes!

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By *ebra LoungeCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes but only if he is married to me or to the woman lying next to me

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Yes too much hassle dont need the grief

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah i get it's not for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a yes to avoid for me unless there part of a couple who want to play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid married playing alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I avoid married playing alone "

A lot on here are the same as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married or not wouldn't bother me. But I know the married ones are harder to arrange to meet (can't do over nights etc)

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Sounds a bit one dimensional ppl...it is what it is with eveyone sure....folk have there own rules and views

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Wouldn't intentionally meet a married man no way not for me

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge

My actual preference I know my bad !!!!

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

No married or seriously attached men (living with partner or with kids) has always been one of Scarlett’s first rules going back to when we were on S4I.

I expect that once we get fully up and running again, that she’ll have the same non-negotiable stance. We just dont want to mess with someone’s domestic situation for a bit of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married me are better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My actual preference I know my bad !!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My actual preference I know my bad !!!!

Good to know there are some women on here that would and I'm not completely wasting my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phoinex pm me please

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops "

I agree with you that we shouldnt judge and that its everyones personal choice.

It might even really help one of the people in a sexless marrage but unless its with the knowlegde of the other person lets not kid ourselves that its being done for the good of the partnership. If the meets were ever doscovered to would destroy the other perfect aspects of the marrage like trust and respect.

As I said let all the adults do as they see fit just dont claim its helping.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't mind if someone's attached or not. It's none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't mind if someone's attached or not. It's none of my business.

Pity I'm outside your age range

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Dosent bother me its there business not mine once there straight about it from the start im not here to judge

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

I agree with you that we shouldnt judge and that its everyones personal choice.

As I said let all the adults do as they see fit just dont claim its helping."

I wasn't just thinking of the partnership, I was thinking of the littlefolk too.

Trust and respect are very honourable virtues, but if mommy or daddy leaves to start again, or live alone just to have sex now and again with someone new, how does this help anyone?

Sex can be just an act of physicality, same as jogging or playing 5 a side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good to know there are some women who will meet without judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is to not play with attached unless it’s a couple. Have done in the past but it’s just too complicated they want you to meet on their schedule and more often than not it’s rushed or they cancel because they have to be somewhere else it’s just not fun.

However what I find frustrating is that some try deny that they’re married at least be upfront about it and give the person the choice to decide if they want to be involved or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

However what I find frustrating is that some try deny that they’re married at least be upfront about it and give the person the choice to decide if they want to be involved or not."

I'm always upfront about it, I always mention it in my 1st msg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However what I find frustrating is that some try deny that they’re married at least be upfront about it and give the person the choice to decide if they want to be involved or not."

I agree. I am married and playing without hubbys knowledge. My reasons are my own but I am honest about it on my profile so guys have the choice.

The ones that omit to say they are married on their profile are idiots as people should have the balls to be upfront about it!

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

East Cork

I'm up front on my profile about being married.

Yes i love her and she is a fab mother, but, in a sexless marriage.

sex/intimacy does not happen and she will not talk about it.

Yes, I would hook up for some no strings sex. #frustrated

And I think there are probably alot of ladies in the same boat ?

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"Married or not wouldn't bother me. But I know the married ones are harder to arrange to meet (can't do over nights etc) "

This is why we avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Married or not wouldn't bother me. But I know the married ones are harder to arrange to meet (can't do over nights etc)

This is why we avoid. "

Yeah overnight meets are very hard and see why you wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

I agree with you that we shouldnt judge and that its everyones personal choice.

As I said let all the adults do as they see fit just dont claim its helping.

I wasn't just thinking of the partnership, I was thinking of the littlefolk too.

Trust and respect are very honourable virtues, but if mommy or daddy leaves to start again, or live alone just to have sex now and again with someone new, how does this help anyone?

Sex can be just an act of physicality, same as jogging or playing 5 a side.

For me no matter how nsa or casual sex it it will always be alot more than just a physical activity.

I would meet a married women so I am not judging I just dont see the point in moralising it as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married or not wouldn't bother me. But I know the married ones are harder to arrange to meet (can't do over nights etc) "

I can do overnights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My preference is to not play with attached unless it’s a couple. Have done in the past but it’s just too complicated they want you to meet on their schedule and more often than not it’s rushed or they cancel because they have to be somewhere else it’s just not fun. Im married myself same situation as you and meet others as im. Away from. Home alot with work and nice to have regular nsa partner when away from home

However what I find frustrating is that some try deny that they’re married at least be upfront about it and give the person the choice to decide if they want to be involved or not.

I agree. I am married and playing without hubbys knowledge. My reasons are my own but I am honest about it on my profile so guys have the choice.

The ones that omit to say they are married on their profile are idiots as people should have the balls to be upfront about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops "

Well said and definitely true for me. I think it was a great relief for my husband when I took control of my own sexual needs instead of blaming him for my frustration. We are both much happier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

Well said and definitely true for me. I think it was a great relief for my husband when I took control of my own sexual needs instead of blaming him for my frustration. We are both much happier. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me to be honest, once it doesn’t interfere with plans I’ve made with them. Time here is so precious so when meets are arranged I like there to be no problems with getting away and married guys sometimes seem to be all talk and no action! But sometimes single guys can let ya down too so it’s hard to call but morally I couldn’t care less tbh.

We’re all here for the same reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ultimately, we have no idea what is going on in someone else's relationship, nobody here is going to put forward a scenario where they are the bad guy. We have no desire to get into a situation where there is someone being deprived of the right to consent.

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over a year ago

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By *icey55Man
over a year ago

Dublin /Meath

Nobody should judge others and people are entitled to see married guys or not

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

"Yes too much hassle dont need the grief "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind meeting marred men but them again I am married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't mind meeting marred men but them again I am married. "

So no judgement from you then

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes, as long as the wife knows

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own reasons for been here. Just cause ur married that doesn't mean its a good one.. Personally don't go looking for married men.. But have met one or two..like someone else said. Meets are harder to arrange

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing "

And those are the ones I avoid...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid..."

Respect that

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I’m not into meeting married or attached people without their partners knowledge. It has nothing to do with judging them. I just know myself well enough to know that I’d feel bad. So I just avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry for the husband/wife who isn't aware of their partners secret life, who then might in turn get a not so pleasent genital gift if they are unlucky.

But as people have said all adults here no one should tell people what to do in their lives really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m not into meeting married or attached people without their partners knowledge. It has nothing to do with judging them. I just know myself well enough to know that I’d feel bad. So I just avoid. "

Yeah seems quite a few women are like this and I respect that

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid...

Respect that "

When I first joined Fab I met whoever tickled my fancy. Twice however, I got phone calls from wives where husbands had been careless with my details. So my avoidance is not based on judgement, moreso to protect myself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid...

Respect that

Well that would turn you off them then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid...

Respect that

Well that would turn you off them then "

I prefer married guys as I would have thought they would be more discreet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid...

Respect that

Well that would turn you off them then

I prefer married guys as I would have thought they would be more discreet."

Send me a pm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops "

She does the books as well

can I send mine over too

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid...

Respect that

Well that would turn you off them then

I prefer married guys as I would have thought they would be more discreet."

I thought that too but I never want to hear the words 'I think you're having sex with my husband' again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid...

Respect that

Well that would turn you off them then

I prefer married guys as I would have thought they would be more discreet.

I thought that too but I never want to hear the words 'I think you're having sex with my husband' again

Jeez I would hate that myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, as long as the wife knows

Think most married men are on here without their wife knowing

And those are the ones I avoid...

Respect that

Well that would turn you off them then

I prefer married guys as I would have thought they would be more discreet.

I thought that too but I never want to hear the words 'I think you're having sex with my husband' again

Now that would be something that would make you not

Jeez I would hate that myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A def no from us ,don’t want to be part of someone’s misery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A def no from us ,don’t want to be part of someone’s misery."

Misery???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find married/attached women extremely hot and sexual...its her relationship nothing to do with me

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By *ittlePinkUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

It's my preference not to meet them. Unless their partner is aware of their activities.

An ex cheated on me, and I'll always remember the pain when I found out. I don't want to take part in sth that would make another person feel like that.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"It's my preference not to meet them. Unless their partner is aware of their activities.

An ex cheated on me, and I'll always remember the pain when I found out. I don't want to take part in sth that would make another person feel like that."

What she said.^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's my preference not to meet them. Unless their partner is aware of their activities.

An ex cheated on me, and I'll always remember the pain when I found out. I don't want to take part in sth that would make another person feel like that."

Think that's reason a lot of women won't and I respect that

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I find married/attached women extremely hot and sexual...its her relationship nothing to do with me"

I'd say that's down to individuals. I've been married now single no change in how hot and sexual I am. If anything probably more sexual as it's just me I have to think about. Just sayin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find married/attached women extremely hot and sexual...its her relationship nothing to do with me

I'd say that's down to individuals. I've been married now single no change in how hot and sexual I am. If anything probably more sexual as it's just me I have to think about. Just sayin."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any more opinions on this from women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up in the air with this one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's your thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer not to get involved with someone who is not single. I've had the kik message from a wife asking if I met her husband. I hadn't, thankfully & I was able to tell her that but if I had...that would have been awful to tell her.

Initially, I wanted nothing to do with married or attached men. Until one guy said...let me be the one to worry about my marriage, it will never come to your door...I broke all my rules with him.

So I eased up on that rule, thought of all men as single, as long as I knew what I was getting into, it was my choice to accept it or not. Then came all the restrictions...

No perfume.

No make up.

No scented shower gels.

No oils (this is a deal dreaker).

I can see you every tues, instead of going to the gym.

Actually it'll be every 3rd tues, I want to still go to the gym.

I can give you the best sex of your life for 45 mins.

Actually I'll have to have a shower to wash all trace of you off me.

So I'll give you the best sex of your life, on a tues, every 3 weeks for 30mins.

I'll probably have to cancel but feel free to send me naughty pics & videos.

So that's why I stay away from people who aren't single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jesus Christ that's some set of demands, there goes being spontaneous lol. I can understand why you wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would prefer not to get involved with someone who is not single. I've had the kik message from a wife asking if I met her husband. I hadn't, thankfully & I was able to tell her that but if I had...that would have been awful to tell her.

Initially, I wanted nothing to do with married or attached men. Until one guy said...let me be the one to worry about my marriage, it will never come to your door...I broke all my rules with him.

So I eased up on that rule, thought of all men as single, as long as I knew what I was getting into, it was my choice to accept it or not. Then came all the restrictions...

No perfume.

No make up.

No scented shower gels.

No oils (this is a deal dreaker).

I can see you every tues, instead of going to the gym.

Actually it'll be every 3rd tues, I want to still go to the gym.

I can give you the best sex of your life for 45 mins.

Actually I'll have to have a shower to wash all trace of you off me.

So I'll give you the best sex of your life, on a tues, every 3 weeks for 30mins.

I'll probably have to cancel but feel free to send me naughty pics & videos.

So that's why I stay away from people who aren't single.

"
good Lord did he forget anything else..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially, I wanted nothing to do with married or attached men. Until one guy said...let me be the one to worry about my marriage, it will never come to your door...I broke all my rules with him.

So I eased up on that rule, thought of all men as single, as long as I knew what I was getting into, it was my choice to accept it or not. Then came all the restrictions...

No perfume.

No make up.

No scented shower gels.

No oils (this is a deal dreaker).

I can see you every tues, instead of going to the gym.

Actually it'll be every 3rd tues, I want to still go to the gym.

I can give you the best sex of your life for 45 mins.

Actually I'll have to have a shower to wash all trace of you off me.

So I'll give you the best sex of your life, on a tues, every 3 weeks for 30mins.

I'll probably have to cancel but feel free to send me naughty pics & videos.

So that's why I stay away from people who aren't single.

I mean those gainz aint gonna get themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially, I wanted nothing to do with married or attached men. Until one guy said...let me be the one to worry about my marriage, it will never come to your door...I broke all my rules with him.

So I eased up on that rule, thought of all men as single, as long as I knew what I was getting into, it was my choice to accept it or not. Then came all the restrictions...

No perfume.

No make up.

No scented shower gels.

No oils (this is a deal dreaker).

I can see you every tues, instead of going to the gym.

Actually it'll be every 3rd tues, I want to still go to the gym.

I can give you the best sex of your life for 45 mins.

Actually I'll have to have a shower to wash all trace of you off me.

So I'll give you the best sex of your life, on a tues, every 3 weeks for 30mins.

I'll probably have to cancel but feel free to send me naughty pics & videos.

So that's why I stay away from people who aren't single.

good Lord did he forget anything else.. "

Yes, I forgot to add...you'll need to lock your cats outside...this one made me laugh.

I'm not here to cater to anyone, if someone wants to meet me, they meet me as I am.

I like a bit of make up & perfume & they would enjoy the oil. I always have an unscented bottle & clean up is part of it for me.

I'm not about to reward anyone's demands.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The cats hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially, I wanted nothing to do with married or attached men. Until one guy said...let me be the one to worry about my marriage, it will never come to your door...I broke all my rules with him.

So I eased up on that rule, thought of all men as single, as long as I knew what I was getting into, it was my choice to accept it or not. Then came all the restrictions...

No perfume.

No make up.

No scented shower gels.

No oils (this is a deal dreaker).

I can see you every tues, instead of going to the gym.

Actually it'll be every 3rd tues, I want to still go to the gym.

I can give you the best sex of your life for 45 mins.

Actually I'll have to have a shower to wash all trace of you off me.

So I'll give you the best sex of your life, on a tues, every 3 weeks for 30mins.

I'll probably have to cancel but feel free to send me naughty pics & videos.

So that's why I stay away from people who aren't single.

I mean those gainz aint gonna get themselves"

Need to go more than once a week to gain some gainz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The cats hahaha"

Right?! I am one cat away from crazy cat lady status & I intend to keep it that way but you don't mess with a woman's cats! ^•^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's what I was laughing at, him asking for the cats to be put out, holy Jesus I'd say he was a barrel of laughs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I was laughing at, him asking for the cats to be put out, holy Jesus I'd say he was a barrel of laughs "
Was only interested in one type of pussy ..I'd deliberately have kept them in the house..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahaha fuck him and his list of rules, or not fuck him rather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We Always avoid married men unless part of a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I was laughing at, him asking for the cats to be put out, holy Jesus I'd say he was a barrel of laughs "

I think he thought the cats would be on the bed, judging him lol

Just to be clear...like most people, my bedroom has a door, it closes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what I was laughing at, him asking for the cats to be put out, holy Jesus I'd say he was a barrel of laughs Was only interested in one type of pussy ..I'd deliberately have kept them in the house..

He did not get the pleasure of meeting any of my pussies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pissing myself here, the cats judging him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf Mabel probably would...if you've ever seen the gif of the cat filing it's claws...Mabel has that attitude.

I've totally taken over your thread lol my cats really do get everywhere

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not married but not single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You and that pussy of yours have brightened up my Monday, thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You and that pussy of yours have brightened up my Monday, thanks x"

Lol anytime

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh if only x pm me anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh if only x pm me anytime "

If I do, you better come up with better demands...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The only demands will be from you and I'll be happy to oblige x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never judge the choices of anyone and I think we are all here for our own reasons. However having been cheated on by my ex husband and the pain and hurt it caused myself and our children I choose to only meet with single men, or those whose wives are aware or involved with the meet. I did unknowingly meet a married man a few times from a dating site... I found out when his wife contacted me. She subsequently tried to commit suicide when she discovered her husband had been shagging half the country. So I like to keep it drama free and only meet unmarried men. Just my opinion though, certainly not judging those here who are married as long as they are upfront and honest about it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jesus that's awful, I posted this because I'm always upfront about being married and I thought if i was going to cheat that this might be the safest way for me not to hurt her by finding out

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Oh if only x pm me anytime

If I do, you better come up with better demands..."

What about these: 'I adore my wife, don't want to hurt her'

'I'm married and intend to stay that way'

'She'll never find out'

'No, of course she's not on Fab'

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Jesus that's awful, I posted this because I'm always upfront about being married and I thought if i was going to cheat that this might be the safest way for me not to hurt her by finding out"

People who cheat do it because they don't think they will be caught. The majority of them do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suppose that's a matter of opinion

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Yes it is. In my opinion its quiet accurate. I've a lot of separated friends. Everyone of them caught their partner cheating. I'm not judging btw. Just voicing my opinion.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Jesus that's awful, I posted this because I'm always upfront about being married and I thought if i was going to cheat that this might be the safest way for me not to hurt her by finding out

People who cheat do it because they don't think they will be caught. The majority of them do. "

I agree....they underestimate their partners

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By *ittlePinkUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Jesus that's awful, I posted this because I'm always upfront about being married and I thought if i was going to cheat that this might be the safest way for me not to hurt her by finding out

People who cheat do it because they don't think they will be caught. The majority of them do. "

I agree with this. Also just my opinion, that sooner or later most people gets caught. All it takes is a minor slip up once.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Probably true, as I said it's good to get lots of different views on this

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By *ird of paradiseWoman
over a year ago

newark

Definitely avoid, makes me so sad when I imagine the wife at home on her own

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By *urlyloverMan
over a year ago

n Ireland

The thing is it mostly is married guys on here.

If I was single there’s no way I would be on here.

No need

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not all of them are honest about it tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops "

Perfectly put... I'm totally happily married.... but we haven't had sex in months and months... our sex drives are just totally incompatible..

So I play away.... and quite happy to do so..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

Perfectly put... I'm totally happily married.... but we haven't had sex in months and months... our sex drives are just totally incompatible..

So I play away.... and quite happy to do so.. "

Just to clear something up for me. I know there are women who categorically wont't meet married men which is their choice.

But there are women who say they won't meet married men yet are verified by one or two.

So possibly blurred lines for some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

Perfectly put... I'm totally happily married.... but we haven't had sex in months and months... our sex drives are just totally incompatible..

So I play away.... and quite happy to do so.. "

Everyone's situation is different, why I never judge anyone

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Definitely avoid, makes me so sad when I imagine the wife at home on her own "

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By *m158Couple
over a year ago

Cork

Don't mind married men when part of a couple.

We are married play togeather and separately. I like when he goes off and meets someone. As does he me when I play alone.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

She does the books as well

can I send mine over too

I mean the accounts not the tricky colouring in ones Lim, ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

She does the books as well

can I send mine over too

I mean the accounts not the tricky colouring in ones Lim, ..lol

But I'm stuck on one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

Perfectly put... I'm totally happily married.... but we haven't had sex in months and months... our sex drives are just totally incompatible..

So I play away.... and quite happy to do so..

Just to clear something up for me. I know there are women who categorically wont't meet married men which is their choice.

But there are women who say they won't meet married men yet are verified by one or two.

So possibly blurred lines for some.

I have met married men & been verified by one or 2.

Restrictions are what puts me off but also their attitude towards their wives. Women as well, towards their husbands.

There are some that celebrate their disrespect for their marriages, those people I won't meet. That may be hypocritical, but that's what it is. I won't meet disrespectful single people either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering do most women on here tend to avoid married guys? I'm always upfront about it from the start when I text first."

Only if the wife joins in.

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I don’t ask... if they are both in fab I will ask d wife if it’s ok but I don’t want to know personal stuff about fabbers.

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By *totheizzoMan
over a year ago

new

There should be a new question added to your profile.

Married men/woman yes or no?

I know some people put it on however it would save a lot of lieing/questions/Hassel

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over a year ago

"There should be a new question added to your profile.

Married men/woman yes or no?

I know some people put it on however it would save a lot of lieing/questions/Hassel "

There was a similar one done last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There should be a new question added to your profile.

Married men/woman yes or no?

I know some people put it on however it would save a lot of lieing/questions/Hassel "

Do you really imagine people would be truthful?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There should be a new question added to your profile.

Married men/woman yes or no?

I know some people put it on however it would save a lot of lieing/questions/Hassel

Do you really imagine people would be truthful?"

You'd hope so, eventually they'd find out that's why i always say it in my first msg

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

Tbh if you don't say it how would I know it...

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By *aloma12TV/TS
over a year ago

city cnt

its a yes for me hav a thang for married guys

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By *ollymouse3Woman
over a year ago

sligo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops "

Nail on head for me and exactly why I'm here. Love the woman to death but she's not a very special being, but apart from that I absolutely adore and worship her! Suppose nobody is perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all have our reasons for being on here

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over a year ago

"This is meant to be nsa. fun.

A lot of married men and women are in sexless marriages which are perfect in every other way. Which I imagine they love every aspect of but yearn for the physicality of sex.

Far from destroying such marriages I believe the ladies or gentlemen who meet these people (discreetly) help these couples. After all sex is surely the greatest stress reliever of all.

I'm very lucky I have my Apples who fullfils my every need ( including doing my books).

Least we be the ones to judge.

Olliepops

Nail on head for me and exactly why I'm here. Love the woman to death but she's not a very sexual being, but apart from that I absolutely adore and worship her! Suppose nobody is perfect "

Edited to say sexual lol. She's very special just not very sexually driven! Damn autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha guessed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes too much hassle dont need the grief "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Obviously not for everyone

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By *immyIrishMan
over a year ago

Malahide

For the married men/women here, what would you deem a sexless relationship?

Literally never having sex? Vanilla a couple of times a month?

In my relationship, it’s nearly laughed at if I suggest having sex more than once a week.

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I don't judge anyone's reasons for being on here but I wouldnt play with a married man when I was swinging on here that was my preference. But I did get caught a few times when the men lied to me, and I found out after the fact. we are all here for the same reason but it sure put me off meeting anyone again I've no wish to get in the middle of anyone's relationship

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"For the married men/women here, what would you deem a sexless relationship?

Literally never having sex? Vanilla a couple of times a month?

In my relationship, it’s nearly laughed at if I suggest having sex more than once a week. "

Once a week!! Lucky fucker! Literally

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"There should be a new question added to your profile.

Married men/woman yes or no?

I know some people put it on however it would save a lot of lieing/questions/Hassel

Do you really imagine people would be truthful?

You'd hope so, eventually they'd find out that's why i always say it in my first msg"

I have it on my profile, so there's absolutely no confusion

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By *traycats2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

I think a lot of single women (even though I know it’s a swinging site) still hope to find a long time partner so stating you are married will automatically have you as a non runner . Then you have the other side of people not wanting to break up a family and be the cause of it. Fair play to your honesty though , I’m sure there are a lot of married people on here pretending to be single which is worse .

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By *ssex vikingMan
over a year ago

around and about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny when people write "not judging anybody, to each their own", they turn around and do just that.

Married people are people too. Sometimes they're happily married, sometimes not.

Single people aren't beyond reproach either. Most of the meets from single players we've met ranged from cheating single love-rat with five baby mommas on the go to genuine sweet guys.

And lest anybody think that female players are also free of judgement, we've had personal experience of some real two-faced specimens over the years.

So really... it's less about status and more about other things... like being able to hold a conversation while sober and charging their hotel room on their VISA without even asking.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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