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"Well it can happen, sometimes its hard to figure out why. Some people just get the hump with something you posted or what not and then wont let it go and follow you around. I don't think its so bad these days, but shame its bad for you." But the same people who can't be bothered to reply to me in the forum message me an hour later in private asking if I'm free to service them. That to me doesn't sound like a grudge lol | |||
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"I often say my opinion on here its not to everyone's liking and ill get slated by a select few on the forum page but same ones private messsge me and agree in private "It might not even be a controversial topic but someone asking about how to add someone as a friend on here. | |||
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"I like your posts. They are very informative. I wouldn't take it to heart though. I think it depends on the day. Some days there's a bit of craic , some they'd ate ya. Like ROVER said try not over think.. it's Fab. X" Thanks I try not to take it to heart but I'm just confused as to whether it's just rudeness on their part or because tvs seem to get the short end of the stick on here (despite the single males thinking they do) | |||
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"Well it can happen, sometimes its hard to figure out why. Some people just get the hump with something you posted or what not and then wont let it go and follow you around. I don't think its so bad these days, but shame its bad for you. But the same people who can't be bothered to reply to me in the forum message me an hour later in private asking if I'm free to service them. That to me doesn't sound like a grudge lol" I can't speak for everyone but this has happened to me too. Smart arse replies on the forum and wanting to ride me sideways by PM. | |||
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"Well it can happen, sometimes its hard to figure out why. Some people just get the hump with something you posted or what not and then wont let it go and follow you around. I don't think its so bad these days, but shame its bad for you. But the same people who can't be bothered to reply to me in the forum message me an hour later in private asking if I'm free to service them. That to me doesn't sound like a grudge lol I can't speak for everyone but this has happened to me too. Smart arse replies on the forum and wanting to ride me sideways by PM. " Some men on here seriously need a reality check. Constantly whining on the forums that they can't get a meet. There are lots of men out there who don't have a six pack with millions of verifications. They just don't treat the girls on here like shit | |||
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"Well it can happen, sometimes its hard to figure out why. Some people just get the hump with something you posted or what not and then wont let it go and follow you around. I don't think its so bad these days, but shame its bad for you. But the same people who can't be bothered to reply to me in the forum message me an hour later in private asking if I'm free to service them. That to me doesn't sound like a grudge lol I can't speak for everyone but this has happened to me too. Smart arse replies on the forum and wanting to ride me sideways by PM. Some men on here seriously need a reality check. Constantly whining on the forums that they can't get a meet. There are lots of men out there who don't have a six pack with millions of verifications. They just don't treat the girls on here like shit" Unfortunately a lot of guys think it's dial a ride. Or what was said to me once at "my age" I should be happy someone's paying attention to me...it's not all men I might add, good thing I dont give a shit. Lol. | |||
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"Well it can happen, sometimes its hard to figure out why. Some people just get the hump with something you posted or what not and then wont let it go and follow you around. I don't think its so bad these days, but shame its bad for you. But the same people who can't be bothered to reply to me in the forum message me an hour later in private asking if I'm free to service them. That to me doesn't sound like a grudge lol I can't speak for everyone but this has happened to me too. Smart arse replies on the forum and wanting to ride me sideways by PM. Some men on here seriously need a reality check. Constantly whining on the forums that they can't get a meet. There are lots of men out there who don't have a six pack with millions of verifications. They just don't treat the girls on here like shit Unfortunately a lot of guys think it's dial a ride. Or what was said to me once at "my age" I should be happy someone's paying attention to me...it's not all men I might add, good thing I dont give a shit. Lol. " The same with me. The guys on here think I should be lucky that they give me the time of day. Can't mentally comprehend when I don't reply to them that they get so abusive in chat as if I'm on the site for them. | |||
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"Well it can happen, sometimes its hard to figure out why. Some people just get the hump with something you posted or what not and then wont let it go and follow you around. I don't think its so bad these days, but shame its bad for you. But the same people who can't be bothered to reply to me in the forum message me an hour later in private asking if I'm free to service them. That to me doesn't sound like a grudge lol I can't speak for everyone but this has happened to me too. Smart arse replies on the forum and wanting to ride me sideways by PM. Some men on here seriously need a reality check. Constantly whining on the forums that they can't get a meet. There are lots of men out there who don't have a six pack with millions of verifications. They just don't treat the girls on here like shit Unfortunately a lot of guys think it's dial a ride. Or what was said to me once at "my age" I should be happy someone's paying attention to me...it's not all men I might add, good thing I dont give a shit. Lol. The same with me. The guys on here think I should be lucky that they give me the time of day. Can't mentally comprehend when I don't reply to them that they get so abusive in chat as if I'm on the site for them. " Well.... the fact you know that means you're already winning. Block the twats and find the nice guys. Xx | |||
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"Well it can happen, sometimes its hard to figure out why. Some people just get the hump with something you posted or what not and then wont let it go and follow you around. I don't think its so bad these days, but shame its bad for you. But the same people who can't be bothered to reply to me in the forum message me an hour later in private asking if I'm free to service them. That to me doesn't sound like a grudge lol I can't speak for everyone but this has happened to me too. Smart arse replies on the forum and wanting to ride me sideways by PM. Some men on here seriously need a reality check. Constantly whining on the forums that they can't get a meet. There are lots of men out there who don't have a six pack with millions of verifications. They just don't treat the girls on here like shit Unfortunately a lot of guys think it's dial a ride. Or what was said to me once at "my age" I should be happy someone's paying attention to me...it's not all men I might add, good thing I dont give a shit. Lol. The same with me. The guys on here think I should be lucky that they give me the time of day. Can't mentally comprehend when I don't reply to them that they get so abusive in chat as if I'm on the site for them. Well.... the fact you know that means you're already winning. Block the twats and find the nice guys. Xx" Sometimes even the nice guys surprise you and show the true colours lol. Thanks for the advice doll | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? "Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts... | |||
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"Thanks doll but I'm talking more specifically about other peoples posts that are not too crowded and the poster is replying to everything else. Is it because of my age? Or maybe the fact that I'm a tv, only looked at as a sexual object with nothing more to offer? " Well if thst is the case then you need to step away from this person. Please always know your own worth | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts..."Picky much!!!! | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts..."Some of the posts are no longer there from what I've seen because I've replied to a great deal of posts. Other's I have removed my post immediately after a dismissive reply has come back. The posts there currently are one's where either I got some reply or little. | |||
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"I know we're your coming from. I am pity used to getting ignore on these... I don't let it get too me..... Lol nothing to see here
"Moira do you think it's something to do with us being tvs? I see guys on here who have just joined with no photos or verifications getting hundreds of genuine replies on the forums. | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!" im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it  | |||
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"I guess being a tv isn't main stream. We're not socially acceptable. Were still seem as weirdos and something to laugh at.... Seriously, don't let it get you x... " The thing is though this website isn't mainstream either. Seems some guys are only interested in us in private. They feel if they reply to us in the forums it will look like they're interested lol (which many of them are). | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!
im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it "No surprise there lol. I made sure I wasn't making generalisations when I said "this doesn't apply to all" and "some guys". Why would you question it when it's a known fact that some guys on here are just not socially functionable when it comes to interacting with people. | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!
im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it
No surprise there lol. I made sure I wasn't making generalisations when I said "this doesn't apply to all" and "some guys". Why would you question it when it's a known fact that some guys on here are just not socially functionable when it comes to interacting with people. "im questioning your assertion that guys here on the forum are treating you with hostility and annoyance op, as ive already said theres no evidence of that when you hit the green arrow.. | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!
im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it
No surprise there lol. I made sure I wasn't making generalisations when I said "this doesn't apply to all" and "some guys". Why would you question it when it's a known fact that some guys on here are just not socially functionable when it comes to interacting with people.
im questioning your assertion that guys here on the forum are treating you with hostility and annoyance op, as ive already said theres no evidence of that when you hit the green arrow.. "My name isn’t op it’s Chanel . One example of such hospitality shown . When people on here refer to the poster they call them by their user . By using op instead of my username your blatantly displaying some hostility on your part . There’s some evidence for you. | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!
im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it
No surprise there lol. I made sure I wasn't making generalisations when I said "this doesn't apply to all" and "some guys". Why would you question it when it's a known fact that some guys on here are just not socially functionable when it comes to interacting with people.
im questioning your assertion that guys here on the forum are treating you with hostility and annoyance op, as ive already said theres no evidence of that when you hit the green arrow..
My name isn’t op it’s Chanel . One example of such hospitality shown . When people on here refer to the poster they call them by their user . By using op instead of my username your blatantly displaying some hostility on your part . There’s some evidence for you."its clear where the hostility is coming from  | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!
im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it
No surprise there lol. I made sure I wasn't making generalisations when I said "this doesn't apply to all" and "some guys". Why would you question it when it's a known fact that some guys on here are just not socially functionable when it comes to interacting with people.
im questioning your assertion that guys here on the forum are treating you with hostility and annoyance op, as ive already said theres no evidence of that when you hit the green arrow..
My name isn’t op it’s Chanel . One example of such hospitality shown . When people on here refer to the poster they call them by their user . By using op instead of my username your blatantly displaying some hostility on your part . There’s some evidence for you.
its clear where the hostility is coming from "Thank you. I’m glad you’ve come to your senses | |||
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"Yes OP I know exactly where your coming from and have found it from men and women, it’s like they want to hide the fact they know you or chat to you but are quite happy to have banter with others. As others have pointed out you have to know your own worth. I’ve pulled so called friends over it in the past too and they ended up apologizing they didn’t realise they hurt my feelings but they lost my friendship in the end. Head up girl and be yourself "are you being hostile now calling the op, op | |||
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"Yes OP I know exactly where your coming from and have found it from men and women, it’s like they want to hide the fact they know you or chat to you but are quite happy to have banter with others. As others have pointed out you have to know your own worth. I’ve pulled so called friends over it in the past too and they ended up apologizing they didn’t realise they hurt my feelings but they lost my friendship in the end. Head up girl and be yourself
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"I cant speak to your personal experience or what messages you get off the forums, but there are some people on the forums who do get loads of replies no matter what they post. I think it is just that they have build up connections with people. I hope there is nothing targeted or nasty about it. " Thanks for your input I appreciate it ! | |||
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"Yes OP I know exactly where your coming from and have found it from men and women, it’s like they want to hide the fact they know you or chat to you but are quite happy to have banter with others. As others have pointed out you have to know your own worth. I’ve pulled so called friends over it in the past too and they ended up apologizing they didn’t realise they hurt my feelings but they lost my friendship in the end. Head up girl and be yourself "At least I know it's not just me experiencing it. Thank you Lori! | |||
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"Honestly I don't think it's because you are a TV. This site contains 80%+ men who largely are looking to meet women/couples. And tend to only reply to their preference group on the threads. Maybe? Just an observation. Could be wrong " Understanable. But why ignore me on the forum then message me in chat to meet. I'm obviously what they're looking for if they're messaging me | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!
im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it
No surprise there lol. I made sure I wasn't making generalisations when I said "this doesn't apply to all" and "some guys". Why would you question it when it's a known fact that some guys on here are just not socially functionable when it comes to interacting with people.
im questioning your assertion that guys here on the forum are treating you with hostility and annoyance op, as ive already said theres no evidence of that when you hit the green arrow..
My name isn’t op it’s Chanel . One example of such hospitality shown . When people on here refer to the poster they call them by their user . By using op instead of my username your blatantly displaying some hostility on your part . There’s some evidence for you."Ah heeeeere!  | |||
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"Maybe your overthinking ?? Sometimes posts do get overlooked but its not personal there just coyld be other chats going on. I think your fab "this | |||
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"I'm not trying to be a victim here or anything but this is just something I've noticed about the forum. (This doesn't apply to all but some).Whenever I post something or reply to something on the forum which is generally me just giving advice, I'm met with some serious hostility or annoyance by some members (mostly men). Sometimes I'm even ignored to the point where it's like I haven't posted anything. However, I've noticed some of the same guys messaging me to meet and treating me as if I'm some kind of princess in private chat. I'm not saying I want to be treated like a princess on the forums but I'm so confused by this behaviour. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Hi op, looking at your previous posts/threads im struggling to see where you have been met with hostility by guys here, maybe you could highlight the specific threads, posts...
Picky much!!!!
im not really, if i think guys are getting a bad wrap here, i will question it
No surprise there lol. I made sure I wasn't making generalisations when I said "this doesn't apply to all" and "some guys". Why would you question it when it's a known fact that some guys on here are just not socially functionable when it comes to interacting with people.
im questioning your assertion that guys here on the forum are treating you with hostility and annoyance op, as ive already said theres no evidence of that when you hit the green arrow..
My name isn’t op it’s Chanel . One example of such hospitality shown . When people on here refer to the poster they call them by their user . By using op instead of my username your blatantly displaying some hostility on your part . There’s some evidence for you.
its clear where the hostility is coming from
Thank you. I’m glad you’ve come to your senses "just because he called you op you think he's been hostile wtf | |||
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"Me thinks the OP who likes to go by the name of Chantel needs to get of her high horse and stop being a drama queen and wanting all the attention on her / his self. Many a thread the original postee is referred to as the OP occasion s when not it implies of actual knowledge by the op by a known person.. " One million percent agree, case closed lol | |||
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"I guess being a tv isn't main stream. We're not socially acceptable. Were still seem as weirdos and something to laugh at.... Seriously, don't let it get you x... The thing is though this website isn't mainstream either. Seems some guys are only interested in us in private. They feel if they reply to us in the forums it will look like they're interested lol (which many of them are). " OP - I think you will find that 95% of them will fall into this category. So called Macho guys who would publicly deride TV/TS but secretly harbour desires they would never admit to. | |||
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