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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously, i have to stop answering, then guys go saying not getting a chance etc. I have filters on and still getting messages from fakes. All I seem to be doing is blocking . Anyone else having same problem . Not being so nice anymore not giving the benefit of the doubt anymore...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got rid of a good few through reporting fake photos but I suspect they just reregister immediately.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I don't know how you ladies put up with them. Had a few myself . Seriously what do they get out of it annoying people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same. Or all chat and minute you suggest actually meeting even for coffee theres an excuse.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Can someone tell me what the definition of fake is? Is it people of one gender pretending to be the other, people with fake pics, or something else entirely?

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I had a guy chat to me he pretended to be a lady and I never copped him until he told me I'm a guy haha . What for fuck sake what do they get from it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can someone tell me what the definition of fake is? Is it people of one gender pretending to be the other, people with fake pics, or something else entirely? "

I'm not sure about what the op and others think but for me it is people pretending to be someone else. Fake photos usually go hand in hand.

There is also a section of people here a long time with no interest in meeting and have never met, I'm not sure how to categorise them.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

If they get a chance to meet then don't turn up just disappear .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same. Or all chat and minute you suggest actually meeting even for coffee theres an excuse."

Loads of this happening, I understand some are new nervous,shy etc but most are just plain fakes. They either try get information as to who you are what your up etc. I don't know what kick they get out if it really I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a guy chat to me he pretended to be a lady and I never copped him until he told me I'm a guy haha . What for fuck sake what do they get from it . "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy chat to me he pretended to be a lady and I never copped him until he told me I'm a guy haha . What for fuck sake what do they get from it .

Lol "

I see 2 profiles with same pics on them no meets in 6/7 months , couple profiles , joke how add let’s that happen even do thy not look at the pics ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do u report ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of the parcel here

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

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There are countless female and couple profiles poping up in the midlands all from the same guy . How he does the photo verification i dont know .

I caught him out on first profile everything was as it should proper pictures of a girl and all i agreed to meet up for outdoor fun and all was there was a guy . And everytime he has a new profile trying to get me to meet up . Iv reported countless times aswell but nothing happens .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are countless female and couple profiles poping up in the midlands all from the same guy . How he does the photo verification i dont know .

I caught him out on first profile everything was as it should proper pictures of a girl and all i agreed to meet up for outdoor fun and all was there was a guy . And everytime he has a new profile trying to get me to meet up . Iv reported countless times aswell but nothing happens . "

We've run into alot of profiles like that getting to be a pain in the hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy chat to me he pretended to be a lady and I never copped him until he told me I'm a guy haha . What for fuck sake what do they get from it .

Lol

I see 2 profiles with same pics on them no meets in 6/7 months , couple profiles , joke how add let’s that happen even do thy not look at the pics , "
we have a couples profile and Mrs S has her own profile for when I'm away with work which I have been so we've nothing to hide and have got that to....looking to meet then they cancel at the last min

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By *orkchippyMan
over a year ago

Crosshaven

There are genuine guys in here.

Just look in the right direction lol

Here!!!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Why not use your filters to block them & do your own search for suitors?

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

me real but never get reply or invites can and will show my face on cam see I am real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile pics , no veri , no effort = fake

And they just give the real ones a bad name

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Had my pics robbed by fakes before so I watermark all new ones. He'd set up a fake profile using them and I was tipped off by some friends on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy chat to me he pretended to be a lady and I never copped him until he told me I'm a guy haha . What for fuck sake what do they get from it . "

Chocko do you reckon someone who takes 10 years off his age to get past people's filters is fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't make this a big deal.. Its not the end of the world. If she or he doesn't want to meet up coffee after a long chat.. Just block them no need to report them just because they don't want coffee meet or didn't show up for the coffee meet.. Like I said just block them and move on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the blocking button. Admin thank you for that.. Any single suggestions that the person is waster then very happy to add her in my trash bin for recycling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same. Or all chat and minute you suggest actually meeting even for coffee theres an excuse.

Loads of this happening, I understand some are new nervous,shy etc but most are just plain fakes. They either try get information as to who you are what your up etc. I don't know what kick they get out if it really I don't. "

I had this swapped kik chatted away for weeks. I deleted them off kik and unfriended them here than got a nessage threatening to make my pics public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy chat to me he pretended to be a lady and I never copped him until he told me I'm a guy haha . What for fuck sake what do they get from it .

Lol

I see 2 profiles with same pics on them no meets in 6/7 months , couple profiles , joke how add let’s that happen even do thy not look at the pics , we have a couples profile and Mrs S has her own profile for when I'm away with work which I have been so we've nothing to hide and have got that to....looking to meet then they cancel at the last min"

But guys both of you participate in forums so def not a fake profile

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

It's the same on every site,so frustrating.Girls want us to write a decent introduction more than just hi or hello,but what's the point if they turn out to be fake,gets tiresome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the same on every site,so frustrating.Girls want us to write a decent introduction more than just hi or hello,but what's the point if they turn out to be fake,gets tiresome "

Ahahaha introduction, I am not writing a novel here

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon


"It's the same on every site,so frustrating.Girls want us to write a decent introduction more than just hi or hello,but what's the point if they turn out to be fake,gets tiresome

Ahahaha introduction, I am not writing a novel here "
I'm not here either,on other sites with profiles pics,but I've stopped too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same. Or all chat and minute you suggest actually meeting even for coffee theres an excuse.

Loads of this happening, I understand some are new nervous,shy etc but most are just plain fakes. They either try get information as to who you are what your up etc. I don't know what kick they get out if it really I don't.

I had this swapped kik chatted away for weeks. I deleted them off kik and unfriended them here than got a nessage threatening to make my pics public "
so is kik not even safe from these f###king clowns,and then people...sorry but a good lot being guys...wonder why couples & single ladys don't / won't send face pics eh because of stunts like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same. Or all chat and minute you suggest actually meeting even for coffee theres an excuse.

Loads of this happening, I understand some are new nervous,shy etc but most are just plain fakes. They either try get information as to who you are what your up etc. I don't know what kick they get out if it really I don't.

I had this swapped kik chatted away for weeks. I deleted them off kik and unfriended them here than got a nessage threatening to make my pics public so is kik not even safe from these f###king clowns,and then people...sorry but a good lot being guys...wonder why couples & single ladys don't / won't send face pics eh because of stunts like this "

Im a lot more cautious about who i chat to or give my kik too but think that stops guys chatting as they feel im not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Then when someone is "named and shamed" a ban comes after wards when you may not have actually named the profile. You may have just confronted a person who has fake traits....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same. Or all chat and minute you suggest actually meeting even for coffee theres an excuse.

Loads of this happening, I understand some are new nervous,shy etc but most are just plain fakes. They either try get information as to who you are what your up etc. I don't know what kick they get out if it really I don't.

I had this swapped kik chatted away for weeks. I deleted them off kik and unfriended them here than got a nessage threatening to make my pics public so is kik not even safe from these f###king clowns,and then people...sorry but a good lot being guys...wonder why couples & single ladys don't / won't send face pics eh because of stunts like this "

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We don't send the face pics. We found a better way to verify who is on other side and if a couple, defo both must be visible on the video chat on kik.

There were few crazy people, so my hubbie adds me to the group chat once we know it's safe.

Unfortunately, there are many fake profiles - men pretending to be a woman or a couple. Any time we want to meet them for a coffee or drink, these people look for excuses. We have busy private life and understand other people, especially with kids, that everything might happen in last minute.

Once we know about it, it's ok and we can rearrange the meeting.

We all are adults and why some people behave childish /immature? I don’t know.

Every meeting we all are nervous but if people don't click it's not end of the world. Right?

Cheers

Mrs ADventure69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same. Or all chat and minute you suggest actually meeting even for coffee theres an excuse.

Loads of this happening, I understand some are new nervous,shy etc but most are just plain fakes. They either try get information as to who you are what your up etc. I don't know what kick they get out if it really I don't.

I had this swapped kik chatted away for weeks. I deleted them off kik and unfriended them here than got a nessage threatening to make my pics public so is kik not even safe from these f###king clowns,and then people...sorry but a good lot being guys...wonder why couples & single ladys don't / won't send face pics eh because of stunts like this

Im a lot more cautious about who i chat to or give my kik too but think that stops guys chatting as they feel im not interested"
thats their problem and if it stops them chatting to you they can blame the other males on the site for acting like D##KS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously, i have to stop answering, then guys go saying not getting a chance etc. I have filters on and still getting messages from fakes. All I seem to be doing is blocking . Anyone else having same problem . Not being so nice anymore not giving the benefit of the doubt anymore..."

Fab is full of them same problem.i just block block block , they send friend requests without speaking . They don't read your profile , they contact you with dick pics which everyone knows what one looks like.

Website gone to pot fast.

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Juat curious

What action do admin take on trolls fakes and people who are abusive using those profiles?

I would imagine blocking their IP address should be the most effective way of ing them all out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Juat curious

What action do admin take on trolls fakes and people who are abusive using those profiles?

I would imagine blocking their IP address should be the most effective way of ing them all out.

"

I guess for admin it is hard to decide who is a troll and who is fake. So blocking IP' foe thos is a bit excessive.

As for abuse then that should be easier to prove and I agree they should be blocked.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Doesn't really bother me. Maybe because I've never come across any. If they want to waste their lives setting up multiple profiles then that's up to them

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Doesn't really bother me. Maybe because I've never come across any. If they want to waste their lives setting up multiple profiles then that's up to them "

If I came across one I'd just wipe it off and move on

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Doesn't really bother me. Maybe because I've never come across any. If they want to waste their lives setting up multiple profiles then that's up to them

If I came across one I'd just wipe it off and move on "

Now I've just washed the curtains

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Doesn't really bother me. Maybe because I've never come across any. If they want to waste their lives setting up multiple profiles then that's up to them

If I came across one I'd just wipe it off and move on

Now I've just washed the curtains "

Excellent.. Maximum absorbency!

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse

I have noticed there are so many fake curvy lady that can accomodates...

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By *ohnson qMan
over a year ago

Kildare/Newbridge

It just makes it harder for the ones that are genuine,

I hate this.

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By *onho30Man
over a year ago

cork

Block block block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Joanna699 something fake

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"There are countless female and couple profiles poping up in the midlands all from the same guy . How he does the photo verification i dont know .

I caught him out on first profile everything was as it should proper pictures of a girl and all i agreed to meet up for outdoor fun and all was there was a guy . And everytime he has a new profile trying to get me to meet up . Iv reported countless times aswell but nothing happens . "

Because you don't need to show your face to be photo veri'd..

Imagine if this was compulsory to open a profile here it would cut the fakes by at least 3/4s.

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