FabSwingers.com forum: True or false, bad sex can ruin a relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship

It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.

One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments

So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?

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By *ebra LoungeCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship

It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.

One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments

So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?"

If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship

It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.

One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments

So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?

If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese

Straight to the point.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

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"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship

It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.

One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments

So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?"

So you met every few months and the sex was boring and one sided , better off apart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship

It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.

One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments

So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?

If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese

That is the best summary I've ever seen haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship

It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.

One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments

So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?

So you met every few months and the sex was boring and one sided , better off apart."

Agreed

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm afraid sex is a very important part of an relationship. It pulls you together and makes you closer . If the sex is not good and a partner aint willing to change and try make the sex good . The relationship might break up .

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

True thats it... sex is very important, its vital

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By *ortyfunMan
over a year ago

east Meath

true bad sex will only last a little while

great sex is the key to great relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yeah why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm afraid sex is a very important part of an relationship. It pulls you together and makes you closer . If the sex is not good and a partner aint willing to change and try make the sex good . The relationship might break up . "

That's what happened haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"true bad sex will only last a little while

great sex is the key to great relationship"

It just makes everything else gel better, otherwise it just slowly becomes a point of friction..that's what hapened with me anyway

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

It's why most partnerships break up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is sex the only part of a relationship

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Is sex the only part of a relationship "

It's an important part yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why alot cheat also.

Yes I think sex is a big part of a relationship.

Trust.honesty.communication.

Keeping things spicy is a must.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And why alot cheat also.

Yes I think sex is a big part of a relationship.

Trust.honesty.communication.

Keeping things spicy is a must.

Agreed...I can honestly say that I've never once cheated in a relationship but I can see how easily it can happen if one is just miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely. Sex is a big part of a relationship for me.

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By *ed VixenWoman
over a year ago

vixenville

Good sex is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course if the sex is bad there’s no connection and it can ruin it

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Well the amount of people on here as singles that love there partners but are here just for sex I'd say that relationships are not as important as sex

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Well the amount of people on here as singles that love there partners but are here just for sex I'd say that relationships are not as important as sex "
good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and intimacy are very important to a healthy and stable relationship. Can’t have one without the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex and intimacy are very important to a healthy and stable relationship. Can’t have one without the other. "

Agreed. Both feed off each other. A lot of problems are caused by a lack of communication. But if the sex is just plain bad then something dramatic is needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the amount of people on here as singles that love there partners but are here just for sex I'd say that relationships are not as important as sex good sex "

If that were the case why aren't they leaving the relationship?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

When you ask that on a sex site the general consensus will be that good sex is very important.obviously

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Due to bad sex in my marriage it lead me to cheat im not proud of what i done by no means but if the sex was better who knows what would have happened...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you ask that on a sex site the general consensus will be that good sex is very important.obviously"

Doh!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a fact I love making love not just have sex wham bang thank you not into that

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

"Just something that's been on my mind since my last relationship

It was long distance and went on for almost 2 years. We'd meet every few months for a few weeks together.

One thing that always stuck with me...the sex was boring and always one sided to the point I just couldn't enjoy it and wouldn't have it as much as herself which led to arguments

So I pose the question, has anyone had the same kind of problem of bad sex ruining a relationship?

If food and sex are the two basic necessities in life and both have so much variety and skills to be acquired how long would you last with a girl if all she could cook was macaroni cheese

How's the sex there's lots of places that deliver lol (Mel)

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"It’s a fact I love making love not just have sex wham bang thank you not into that "

You’re on the wrong site then - this is a swingers site not a relationship site - although lots of people seem to get confused by that fact .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a fact I love making love not just have sex wham bang thank you not into that

You’re on the wrong site then - this is a swingers site not a relationship site - although lots of people seem to get confused by that fact ....."

I’m not on here looking for a relationship people I’ve been talking to on this don’t just want a quickie they want proper sex not just a quickie and that’s what I’m saying not saying I’m looking for a relationship

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah bad sex can be a pain in the hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah bad sex can be a pain in the hole

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Ah bad sex can be a pain in the hole

As can good sex

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Ah bad sex can be a pain in the hole

As can good sex

Good sex can make your day.

Anal sex can make your hole weak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well the amount of people on here as singles that love there partners but are here just for sex I'd say that relationships are not as important as sex good sex

If that were the case why aren't they leaving the relationship?"

Some enjoy the 'thrill' of cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the sex isn’t good then the relationship is flawed.... it simply can’t survive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So people are saying they have good sex all the time with their partners? Plain lie.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"So people are saying they have good sex all the time with their partners? Plain lie. "

No not at all , but an expert like you is qualified in ???????

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