FabSwingers.com forum: Send Hi, got reply not interested

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people here need to relax a bit and read first the message. Not need to be rude, chill out.

I have got strange response. Send " Hi how are you, hope u having a lovely evening" got a reply " not interested" come on I haven't asked her whether she is interested in my profile or not, or is it something scary abt my profile.

Anyway I know, everyone can't be everyone cup of tea but for God sick read the fucking message.

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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"Some people here need to relax a bit and read first the message. Not need to be rude, chill out.

Anyway I know, everyone can't be everyone cup of tea but for God sick read the fucking message.

Nothing strange about her response. Did her profile say she wasn't meeting singles or anything that might exclude you. Also saying that it was just a hello is a bit disingenuous.

Almost every hello here is sent hoping a meet will follow. That's fair enough but if you do not fit the needs expressed in a person's profile then it's best to Leave them alone and not throw a tantrum when the say not interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know, every hello is follow by hopefully a meet but I fund strange to answer like that.. She could had polite explain herself.

But anyway, I didn't message her again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know, every hello is follow by hopefully a meet but I fund strange to answer like that.. She could had polite explain herself.

But anyway, I didn't message her again"

Least she took the time to say not interested most won't even reply

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

"Some people here need to relax a bit and read first the message. Not need to be rude, chill out.

Anyway I know, everyone can't be everyone cup of tea but for God sick read the fucking message.

Do you want me to copy and paste the 4 mails that peeps can see how you abused me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U are not meet verified that would put some people off chicken and egg situation work on trying to get a coffee meet maybe that would have being a better forum post to put up best of luck on your fab journey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people here need to relax a bit and read first the message. Not need to be rude, chill out.

Anyway I know, everyone can't be everyone cup of tea but for God sick read the fucking message.

Do you want me to copy and paste the 4 mails that peeps can see how you abused me?"

Oh yes please!

Also is it not a little weird 2 guys sharing one single male profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know, is not abt been verify or not...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some womans like it the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know, every hello is follow by hopefully a meet but I fund strange to answer like that.. She could had polite explain herself.

But anyway, I didn't message her again

Least she took the time to say not interested most won't even reply "

Exactly, and the FAQs are clear on this : "If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested". It's a case of damned if you do reply and damned if you don't reply on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you want me to copy and paste the 4 mails that peeps can see how you abused me?

I will love to see how I abused you and fabbers in here.. Will decide?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally get it, but waiting until the person propose to meet then genuinely decline or accept.. A simple Hi doesn't explain everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discussing private mails in not allowed on the Forums - unless you fancy a spell on the Naughty Step!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What spell? That's not private... I was just asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that she replied saying not interested should be enough, why should she have to explain herself. Leave it alone. Better things to be worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Believe me, am not worrying but I wouldn't respond like that to anyone. Anyway next time.. I better send message as " Can I fuck you" then not interested will be a perfect response to that.. Instead of Hi how are you

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

I wont post them. But I said no twice and was told I have issues and need help.. I will copy and paste to anyone tho mail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course, I will said plainly that you have some hidden issues but you can't tell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the hell is going on ? Lol

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Opps you blocked me.. so you are breaking the rules lol

Bye bye tiny tears lmao here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d much rather get a not interested message back than nothing at all your not for her so no drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What the hell is going on ? Lol"

Classic case of butt hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh,he said she said..not interested....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I definitely believe and I will said again wetheter u like it or not.. Responding to "Hi how are u" by not interested... Honey u got some issues going on with u.. And if you think that's an abuse.. You are wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nothing message is more likeable then rude reply message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U never had a woman not being interested in you ? Seems to have struck a wee cord

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyway happy fabbing, next time my first message will be " Can I fuck you" done with how are u ou things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely believe and I will said again wetheter u like it or not.. Responding to "Hi how are u" by not interested... Honey u got some issues going on with u.. And if you think that's an abuse.. You are wrong"

Its none of your business what is going on in the ladys life she does not have to converse with u

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If she is like J Lo or Beyonce.. Then yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There u go, the pets arrive

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Some people here need to relax a bit and read first the message. Not need to be rude, chill out.

Anyway I know, everyone can't be everyone cup of tea but for God sick read the fucking message.

Do you want me to copy and paste the 4 mails that peeps can see how you abused me?"

Lets not break forum rules please, posting private messages in the forums will get you a short break away from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she is like J Lo or Beyonce.. Then yes"

And guys wonder why they do not get an answer when they send messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again. Take the hint, nobody wants to get involved as you are not a nice guy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone said if I was looking for spell

.. This is not the heaven site..I don't hid behind the curtain.. Will say the truth.. Hate it or Love it.. If you wanna be a pet.. Be my guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus man just let it go. You’re being childish now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing message is more likeable then rude reply message"

I think a reply saying not interested is more than enough. There's a general rule that no reply means not interested. To get a reply from that person was courteous-not at all rude.You didn't need to start a thread on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing message is more likeable then rude reply message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will love taking the piss of you guys.. I start then you all joke from rigth and left.. Ahahaha I love bringing on.. I was bore at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing message is more likeable then rude reply message

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a feckin knob. Good job u said not interested. All cock and nothing between his ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people don’t reply which is fine, just take the hint! A few people have replied saying not interested so even more respect for them as I’m sure they have pretty full inboxes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will love taking the piss of you guys.. I start then you all joke from rigth and left.. Ahahaha I love bringing on.. I was bore at work

U could always brush up on your english if u are that bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually reply with a not interested. I would have replied to a "how are you" message, with "fine thanks", and then said "not interested". There is no point in engaging in a longer reply, because I'd only end up being called a timewaster.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Let's sort this mess out.

Not answering a message is fine, means they aren't interested, move on.

Copy and pasting private messages breaks forum rules, please don't do it.

Sending people abusive messages, breaks site rules, block and report let Admin sort it.

The forum rule about contacting blocked profiles refers to people asking the block to be removed, mail me please etc, commenting on the same forum thread is OK.

Closing this now I think.

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