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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a big issue if you agree to meet someone and it appears they don’t drink alcohol .Is that off putting on a meet?? I imagine it helps some people to relax ,brake the ice whatever .I personally had to develop a habit to talk ,chat ,mix with people without drinking. All my friends in my “other life “ do drink alcohol .So any opinions about that ???

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Surely if the other person does not drink alcohol thats their choice... if they dont feel the need for 'dutch courage' then why should it be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is confident without the crutch of alcohol is preferable in our book.

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"Someone who is confident without the crutch of alcohol is preferable in our book."

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

we both dont drink when on a meet as dont need courage to play if we did need to have drink , then swinging prob wouldnt be for us , people take us the way we are sober , but dont mind people having a few but will never play with d*unk swingers

mrs crazy

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"we both dont drink when on a meet as dont need courage to play if we did need to have drink , then swinging prob wouldnt be for us , people take us the way we are sober , but dont mind people having a few but will never play with d*unk swingers

mrs crazy "

You two are mad without alcohol ffs

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

No drink before a meet. Dulls the performance and theres nowt worse than trying to fuck with a stomach full of pints lol

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"we both dont drink when on a meet as dont need courage to play if we did need to have drink , then swinging prob wouldnt be for us , people take us the way we are sober , but dont mind people having a few but will never play with d*unk swingers

mrs crazy

You two are mad without alcohol ffs "

just imagine what we be like with a few drinkes

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never drink on a meet,social or otherwise.More for the fact that I prefer having my full faculties about me.Have no problem with others drinking provides they can handle themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd never drink on a meet,social or otherwise.More for the fact that I prefer having my full faculties about me.Have no problem with others drinking provides they can handle themselves. "

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"we both dont drink when on a meet as dont need courage to play if we did need to have drink , then swinging prob wouldnt be for us , people take us the way we are sober , but dont mind people having a few but will never play with d*unk swingers

mrs crazy "
I prefer to meet without alcohol, and afterwards, if we have a few beers that's fine. I've been to clubs where couples get d*unk, later in the night, and they are not fun to play with.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"we both dont drink when on a meet as dont need courage to play if we did need to have drink , then swinging prob wouldnt be for us , people take us the way we are sober , but dont mind people having a few but will never play with d*unk swingers

mrs crazy

You two are mad without alcohol ffs

just imagine what we be like with a few drinkes

mrs crazy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a glass of water so not to dehydrate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm going to play I usually don't drink, certainly not on a first meet,I might have one(and I mean one!) drink if I'm having a repeat meet,and we happen to be meeting in a pub or hotel bar!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it would be a problem, I'd much prefer to meet someone sober than someone d*unk, or in need of a drink to meet me.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Think there's a big difference between a social drink and having drink for courage...we prefer people that think like us...everything in moderation..

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

We don't drink so have no issues meeting don't mind others having a drink or 2 but would not play if they are d*unk

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I prefer not to drink and fab. It’s not a reflection on the other person but for my own safety I prefer to be able to leave if I have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we both dont drink when on a meet as dont need courage to play if we did need to have drink , then swinging prob wouldnt be for us , people take us the way we are sober , but dont mind people having a few but will never play with d*unk swingers

mrs crazy "

I agree with this,i will not meet on my own with anyone after drink. In a group setting party's etc I don't mind it once it doesn't affect me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped drinking at fab events fairly recently, felt I'd forget the night and even not be able to place faves to names. Find it can be much more enjoyable sober and the play is better

I still enjoy a drink just I can take it or leave it these days

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I'd never drink on a meet,social or otherwise.More for the fact that I prefer having my full faculties about me.Have no problem with others drinking provides they can handle themselves. "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Dont change op, a sober meet is way sexier than one on the drink.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Is it a big issue if you agree to meet someone and it appears they don’t drink alcohol .Is that off putting on a meet?? I imagine it helps some people to relax ,brake the ice whatever .I personally had to develop a habit to talk ,chat ,mix with people without drinking. All my friends in my “other life “ do drink alcohol .So any opinions about that ???"

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All a sober guy needs to learn is how to dance

This means he can chat, doesn't need dutch courage if there's any nightclubs involved, can see everything & read the signals and has a car at the end of the night

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