FabSwingers.com forum: The longest you’ve gone...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without having sex..c’mon fabbers, spill

I’ll get the ball rolling

it was around 10 months for me

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

During my marriage 18mts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 18 months at one point here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between when I lost my virginity at 18(late starter)lol and the next time at 19,a solid year later

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

"Between when I lost my virginity at 18(late starter)lol and the next time at 19,a solid year later "

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Close on 2 years for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would have been a year for me and before that year of no sex I had sex 5 times in a year and a half. (I was in a relationship at the time with a partner with no sexual urges it Or just refused to have sex with me)

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

About a year and a half I think maybe a year wasn’t counting as I wasn’t wanting sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No penetrative sex for 3 years

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Little over 12 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Admiring the honesty guys! Was expecting answers like ‘just a few weeks’

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

"Admiring the honesty guys! Was expecting answers like ‘just a few weeks’

Me too, cause for me it was no more than 3 months max

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Admiring the honesty guys! Was expecting answers like ‘just a few weeks’

2mths for me at the mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went 2 years before.... Safely that dry spell has never been topped by me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Admiring the honesty guys! Was expecting answers like ‘just a few weeks’

2mths for me at the mo

8months for me

but I have a lot on my plate right now so not my main priority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 months at one time, the less I had it the less I cared at the time

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By *ratman236Man
over a year ago

The Zen Den

Omg can't believe it 16 months.But sure as hell making up for lost time now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 months that was the hardest time of my life but I’m making up for lost time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm i thought i struggled with this but after some posts hire i am fine i guess. 1-2 week's for me. And i am going crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8 months think was wasn't keeping track

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 9 months. No interest at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8-9 months

Not easy ...

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin westmeath galway

2 weeks for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five yrs

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

3 years.

Alternatively 7 inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of droughts when younger where I'd have lost track of the time but would estimate a couple of years each. Bad times and it was hard to get out of ruts like that when confidence was so low. Never letting it happen again though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

7 mths ... and tbh I'm gagging at this stage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When married a couple of years!

...tried to hang in there,thought in my late forties no one would be interested!.....but walked away took a chance and here I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit Saturday night , that’s like nearly three whole days

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Shit Saturday night , that’s like nearly three whole days

Show off

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Most likely 15 years

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Holding since April here...I’m surprised I haven’t murdered anyone.

but previously before I was on site I think it was almost 2 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit Saturday night , that’s like nearly three whole days

Show off

Could have been that ass

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Shit Saturday night , that’s like nearly three whole days

Show off

Could have been that ass

One day Fast you'll loosen the boxer's and ill pin ye down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit Saturday night , that’s like nearly three whole days

Show off

Could have been that ass

One day Fast you'll loosen the boxer's and ill pin ye down

Bring it on PB

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By *antricMan
over a year ago

Belfast

17 years..

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By *ndianas bonerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Had a slow period as a relationship was winding down last year...prob about 6 months

...the 6 weeks after that period was absolute carnage though...think my cock grew an inch longer it was being sucked off me so much lol

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By *eebawMan
over a year ago

Im on 3 months now n i felt bad .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 6 yrs i lost count so id say a spell of 7 yrs from 26 yrs to 33/34 yrs old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years..I got lucky the night of my inter cert

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeez, a lot of unhappy people before fab

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

A year when I was married. A tough 12 months.

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

Far far too long for me

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By *addy0Man
over a year ago

carlow town

14 months and was in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years when in a marriage..happily divorced now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3 years when in a marriage..happily divorced now"

Not a great advert for marriage and i thinking of tying the knot

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

6 months and that includes self loving too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years. Have had more and better sex in the last 4 years than all the other years put together lol

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Not anywhere near as long as some of the posts..but genuinely reckon i place less emphasis on sex that most people on here...its really not a big thing to me..just kinda part of what you do when you like someone??..

.longer im on fab the weirder i think i am..

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Not anywhere near as long as some of the posts..but genuinely reckon i place less emphasis on sex that most people on here...its really not a big thing to me..just kinda part of what you do when you like someone??..

.longer im on fab the weirder i think i am..

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How much do you like yourself???

...is the million euro question though

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

.longer im on fab the weirder i think i am..

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How much do you like yourself???

...is the million euro question though

..erm..fairly often..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment it's 6 months and counting for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"5 years. Have had more and better sex in the last 4 years than all the other years put together lol"

I was pretty much the same as my marriage slowly ran into the ground but it has been a fantastic rediscovery of myself since. Someone said above about a lot of unhappy people before fab. Sex does not necessarily equate to happiness. Being on fab for me isn't just about having sex, it's more about sexual freedom and all aspects of swinging. I will happily turn down sex if I don't think it's a good connection. I can happily have amazing orgasms on my own. When I click with someone and the chemistry is great, the sex is totally enhanced which is worth waiting for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2/3 weeks and that was hard

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By *lpha MusicianMan
over a year ago

Dublin

2 years and counting

Just coming out of a sexless marriage. My wife has no real drive and suffers from constant severe pain.

Totally convinced me that monogamy is not very practical

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By *eavens stairwayWoman
over a year ago

you never know

15 months longest,10 months,6 months,9 months as I dont just jump into bed with folk unless something there and that's hard work finding it so I choose to do with out !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Five yrs"

How? Why?

(2yrs from 18-20) was going to become a priest I didn't get it for so long !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck the hell, I can't do without sex in a week, got to push my dick in a pussy and feel the best blessed gift given to a woman by God. If am in a relationship, I fuck daily if am chanced and when am not, I hit the bars and clubs, if you are smart, there is always someone beautiful blessed horny ladies out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very surprised by some of the answers and fair play to everyone being open and honest. Is it frustrating not having it in months or some cases years? Or after a while do you stop caring? Ive being lucky enough, longest dry spell is a little over two weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very surprised by some of the answers and fair play to everyone being open and honest. Is it frustrating not having it in months or some cases years? Or after a while do you stop caring? Ive being lucky enough, longest dry spell is a little over two weeks"

It depends, was in a sexless relationship for a long time and there was just no desire but no that I’m free it’s slightly harder to go without

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

my latest stint. to much stuff going on elsewhere in life. the hand to Willy action has to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years. Most of it was manageable but toward the end when puberty kicked in it got really bad. I am of course not counting the uncomfortable ventures into oral sex back when I was an alter boy.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

My longest was about 11 years. Married 20 years but last 15 years have been sexless. Fab has thankfully changed that for me as I was going slowly mad with frustration.

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By *verready32Man
over a year ago

omagh

"During my marriage 18mts

How could any man resist that body for 18 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would have been a year for me and before that year of no sex I had sex 5 times in a year and a half. (I was in a relationship at the time with a partner with no sexual urges it Or just refused to have sex with me)"

Wow his loss sexy lady

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