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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford

Is it just me, does anyone else wonder what kinda kick a person gets from trying to intimade someone. Not that I can be intimated easy it has been tried. Is just because they are naturally bullies or have narcissists traits and don't believe they are..

Can't they be adults accept the fallout ignore the person and move on..instead of acting like 5 in the school yard and looking to ppl to join in them on their hate crusade. Are they unable to accept the fall out and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That seems to have been a consistent trend on here over the years. Jealous and butthurt folk are everywhere...my advice would be to block anyone connected. As for those who want to talk sh!t about you-let them. Anybody who knows you will know it's just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that you have experienced this, sad that these people can’t act like adults, their reaction to you is exactly why you wouldn’t want to be with them. As the previous poster said, block them and walk away. Take care x

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

I think its something they learned over the years and had success with it and then it becomes 2nd nature, part of their DNA, but then someone comes along that upsets the apple cart and the intimidation no longer works so the next move is try and enroll others to join them as a form of validation so they feel vindicated

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By *evinM2020Man
over a year ago

Swords

Seen of few status updates on here recently naming and shaming perpetrators of online abuse, there should definitely be some form of reporting this that actually discourages and exposes these clowns.

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By *leasureGuy17Man
over a year ago

City Center

It’s simply to do with their psychological makeup. Your seen as an object rather than a person by these people so rejection cuts deep with them. It’s their issue not yours. As others have said just block them and carry on. Life’s too short ????

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Sad ppl that all they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its their issue, some people are just nasty pieces of work. Narcisists like to control their environment and when it doesnt work, they herd in the sheep for support. This people are worse. No mind of their own. Best solution tell them jog on ...

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Sweetlips theres some awful assholes on here. Just know your strong and they certainly are not. Weak people bully and intimidate, strong people recognise each others differences and just leave the other person be. Know your worth and just remove this person from your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think people like this are severly insecure, they use agression and intimidation to cover this. In order to make themselves feel good they need to drag other's down.

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"I think its something they learned over the years and had success with it and then it becomes 2nd nature, part of their DNA, but then someone comes along that upsets the apple cart and the intimidation no longer works so the next move is try and enroll others to join them as a form of validation so they feel vindicated "

This is exactly how it is..now I'm no angel and I never claim to be. That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out. However I'm adult enough to accept my part and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just nasty

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


" That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out. "

You see, I don't fully agree with that. Sometimes it is the case that one person is as bad as the other but in many cases it's just idiots throwing their weight around, probably happy enough that they'll only get half the blame for it.

There are people here who would end up having a row with their own shadow.

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


" That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out.

You see, I don't fully agree with that. Sometimes it is the case that one person is as bad as the other but in many cases it's just idiots throwing their weight around, probably happy enough that they'll only get half the blame for it.

There are people here who would end up having a row with their own shadow. "

I can see your point and it's a valid one. However How the fallout occurred is one thing but how a person Carrys themselves through and after it says alot about the person i guess.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


" That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out.

You see, I don't fully agree with that. Sometimes it is the case that one person is as bad as the other but in many cases it's just idiots throwing their weight around, probably happy enough that they'll only get half the blame for it.

There are people here who would end up having a row with their own shadow.

I can see your point and it's a valid one. However How the fallout occurred is one thing but how a person Carrys themselves through and after it says alot about the person i guess."

Some of these people have a special talent for rising others though. Personally I'm incredibly well balanced and don't get dragged in but not everyone is as delightful as me

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"I think its something they learned over the years and had success with it and then it becomes 2nd nature, part of their DNA, but then someone comes along that upsets the apple cart and the intimidation no longer works so the next move is try and enroll others to join them as a form of validation so they feel vindicated

This is exactly how it is..now I'm no angel and I never claim to be. That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out. However I'm adult enough to accept my part and move on."

I view it in the same light as freedom of speech, give them a soap box, let them rant and you'll quickly find out all you need to know about them, true colours always shine through.

And its good to see you understand your role in it, own up to and accept your part and then let it go..let it go....la la la ...let it go!

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


" That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out.

You see, I don't fully agree with that. Sometimes it is the case that one person is as bad as the other but in many cases it's just idiots throwing their weight around, probably happy enough that they'll only get half the blame for it.

There are people here who would end up having a row with their own shadow.

I can see your point and it's a valid one. However How the fallout occurred is one thing but how a person Carrys themselves through and after it says alot about the person i guess.

Some of these people have a special talent for rising others though. Personally I'm incredibly well balanced and don't get dragged in but not everyone is as delightful as me "

I'm thick skinned and I usually walk away and forget them. The dude is wasting his time.But I do wonder why they need to waste there energy and time behaving a certain way which is why I posted the thread about said behaviour. Curious I guess.

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"I think its something they learned over the years and had success with it and then it becomes 2nd nature, part of their DNA, but then someone comes along that upsets the apple cart and the intimidation no longer works so the next move is try and enroll others to join them as a form of validation so they feel vindicated

This is exactly how it is..now I'm no angel and I never claim to be. That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out. However I'm adult enough to accept my part and move on.

I view it in the same light as freedom of speech, give them a soap box, let them rant and you'll quickly find out all you need to know about them, true colours always shine through.

And its good to see you understand your role in it, own up to and accept your part and then let it go..let it go....la la la ...let it go! "

Ah now I'll be singing that all day

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


" That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out.

You see, I don't fully agree with that. Sometimes it is the case that one person is as bad as the other but in many cases it's just idiots throwing their weight around, probably happy enough that they'll only get half the blame for it.

There are people here who would end up having a row with their own shadow.

I can see your point and it's a valid one. However How the fallout occurred is one thing but how a person Carrys themselves through and after it says alot about the person i guess.

Some of these people have a special talent for rising others though. Personally I'm incredibly well balanced and don't get dragged in but not everyone is as delightful as me

I'm thick skinned and I usually walk away and forget them. The dude is wasting his time.But I do wonder why they need to waste there energy and time behaving a certain way which is why I posted the thread about said behaviour. Curious I guess. "

Can you not just block him or her and be done with it?

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"I think its something they learned over the years and had success with it and then it becomes 2nd nature, part of their DNA, but then someone comes along that upsets the apple cart and the intimidation no longer works so the next move is try and enroll others to join them as a form of validation so they feel vindicated

This is exactly how it is..now I'm no angel and I never claim to be. That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out. However I'm adult enough to accept my part and move on.

I view it in the same light as freedom of speech, give them a soap box, let them rant and you'll quickly find out all you need to know about them, true colours always shine through.

And its good to see you understand your role in it, own up to and accept your part and then let it go..let it go....la la la ...let it go!

Ah now I'll be singing that all day "

Lol, sets trap.....and then hears snap!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Bullying is a very big no no . A friend of mine was put down bye an ex and it took me ages to get her out of the hole he put her down in .

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


" That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out.

You see, I don't fully agree with that. Sometimes it is the case that one person is as bad as the other but in many cases it's just idiots throwing their weight around, probably happy enough that they'll only get half the blame for it.

There are people here who would end up having a row with their own shadow.

I can see your point and it's a valid one. However How the fallout occurred is one thing but how a person Carrys themselves through and after it says alot about the person i guess.

Some of these people have a special talent for rising others though. Personally I'm incredibly well balanced and don't get dragged in but not everyone is as delightful as me

I'm thick skinned and I usually walk away and forget them. The dude is wasting his time.But I do wonder why they need to waste there energy and time behaving a certain way which is why I posted the thread about said behaviour. Curious I guess.

Can you not just block him or her and be done with it? "

I have but you can't block forums etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sweetlips theres some awful assholes on here. Just know your strong and they certainly are not. Weak people bully and intimidate, strong people recognise each others differences and just leave the other person be. Know your worth and just remove this person from your life. "
well said

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


" That the end of the day it takes 2 to fall out.

You see, I don't fully agree with that. Sometimes it is the case that one person is as bad as the other but in many cases it's just idiots throwing their weight around, probably happy enough that they'll only get half the blame for it.

There are people here who would end up having a row with their own shadow.

I can see your point and it's a valid one. However How the fallout occurred is one thing but how a person Carrys themselves through and after it says alot about the person i guess.

Some of these people have a special talent for rising others though. Personally I'm incredibly well balanced and don't get dragged in but not everyone is as delightful as me

I'm thick skinned and I usually walk away and forget them. The dude is wasting his time.But I do wonder why they need to waste there energy and time behaving a certain way which is why I posted the thread about said behaviour. Curious I guess.

Can you not just block him or her and be done with it?

I have but you can't block forums etc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bullying is a very big no no . A friend of mine was put down bye an ex and it took me ages to get her out of the hole he put her down in . "

Ladder?

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Some people are just egotistical twunts

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Some people are just egotistical twunts "

A Twunt?? That's a new one on me.

I've heard of munt, a man cunt but not twunt!

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Some people are just egotistical twunts

A Twunt?? That's a new one on me.

I've heard of munt, a man cunt but not twunt!

"

Twat/Cunt

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Some people are just egotistical twunts

A Twunt?? That's a new one on me.

I've heard of munt, a man cunt but not twunt!

Twat/Cunt "

Ahhhh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just want see the world burn down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting someone down here on fab,all comes down from insecurities and jealousy.

Same as in real life.

The ones who can't stand you,is because you are partially or fully what they would like to be like.

Don't let anyone get you down.

Remember it's them with the issues,not you.

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Try and ignore them sweets if you can .. I don't understand why those that suffer rejection turn nasty .. we all have types that we aren't attracted to for various reasons and vice versa.but we gotta remember that it takes all sorts to make the world go around ..so thank them for their time and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are just egotistical twunts "

Omg best word ever Twunt !!!!

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