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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "

Depends maybe on how regular is the persons normal regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "

Its certainly possible... what I think is impossible is knowing before hand if there will end up being more than just a sexual element

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By *oxer22Man
over a year ago

limerick

I had a regular buddy, and we both agreed before hand that's what it was ,but alas the friendship became more for her and feelings crept in. So we called it a day.

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "

Nope don't think so!

If regular bases things get compelated .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya I've experienced this where for both of us it was no strings and we did say we didn't want anything more. Met quite a bit but unfortunately we had to cut contact because she was getting feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many on here looking for fuck buddy's but i think it's asking for trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.

It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.

On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but if the sex is very regular with one person, as little jealusies can arise if you also continue to meey other people..the person may be an FB but they also like to feel special & even exclusive...but its not just singles as couples also react the same way with their FB couple os single

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

I can easily happen... even when two of you start out as totally nsa, feelings that develop can be hard to resist. Often it can add to the excitement as the closeness develops. Happened me few years ago and i still often think of her... eventually we both knew it was best to have had what we had and return to our regular partners. Wouldnt change it for the world! Ouch you know u can let go... all is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.

It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.

On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.

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My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.

It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.

On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.

My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol"
Sprinter or long distance ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.

It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.

On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.

My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???"

Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.

It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.

On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.

My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???

Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since "

But he must have had great stamina alk the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.

It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.

On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.

My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???

Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since

But he must have had great stamina alk the same "

Think he was Mormon with the amount of wives he wanted at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 2 people are meeting just each other then it is highly likely that emotions will become involved. Been there and got the t shirt. Glad it happened though.

It is hard to end it without someone getting hurt.

On the other hand, it can become permanent as I know of a man on here that left his family for a fb he met on here.

My ex ran off with his fuck buddy lol Sprinter or long distance ???

Defo long distance cos I haven't seen him since

But he must have had great stamina alk the same

Think he was Mormon with the amount of wives he wanted at the same time "

Lol

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

I think it all depends on the 2 individuals and how well they get on outside the bedroom

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I think if you keep the meets sporadic then there's less chance of the other person going all moony over you.

I make it clear it's a NSA thing for me.

Problem is when the sex is great I want more of it. Made the mistake previously of meeting up with someone too regularly and they got the wrong idea.

I had to finish it in the end.

Learnt my lesson on that one.

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"I think if you keep the meets sporadic then there's less chance of the other person going all moony over you.

I make it clear it's a NSA thing for me.

Problem is when the sex is great I want more of it. Made the mistake previously of meeting up with someone too regularly and they got the wrong idea.

I had to finish it in the end.

Learnt my lesson on that one."

Yes you hae to be sure both people know the score and a gentle reminder of the NSA clause is always a good idea. Getting close isnt the worst thing to happen as long as both can deal with each being with others or it not going anywhere

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "
Yes you can once you both are on same page and have regular chats and keep it real if feelings come into it , its ruined you can both love things about each other but if you both start falling for each other its time to make or break.

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By *asualguyMan
over a year ago

I don’t think so as good as the sex was your ex is your ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think so as good as the sex was your ex is your ex for a reason "

It's nsa not your ex

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I've done it in the past. But it can become difficult depending on the person and the emotional connection between your fuck buddy and you.

I had one for years and we lost contact for a few months found out it was because she got married lol.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually "

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Unless certain parameters are set early on (shorter meets, personal information not disclosed, etc), I think it's inevitable that feelings will eventually creep in over time where one fancies the other.

We're mammals so I guess over time we're hardwired to care about someone we like the longer we know them

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually

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Unless certain parameters are set early on (shorter meets, personal information not disclosed, etc), I think it's inevitable that feelings will eventually creep in over time where one fancies the other.

We're mammals so I guess over time we're hardwired to care about someone we like the longer we know them "

True. The sharing info is probably a no no, the good morning /good night texts etc just muddy the waters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye prob best to space the meets out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fuck bud she is married as well ,we only meet 2 times a month ,it's nsa only for both of us

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Is it actually possible to keep things to just sex if it's a regular set up or do feelings always creep in eventually

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Unless certain parameters are set early on (shorter meets, personal information not disclosed, etc), I think it's inevitable that feelings will eventually creep in over time where one fancies the other.

We're mammals so I guess over time we're hardwired to care about someone we like the longer we know them "

It would be very hard to have repeat meets and not disclose personal information.

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By *ndianas bonerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I wouldn't mind meeting someone long term on here. Everyone has a past I guess. It's the future we want!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind meeting someone long term on here. Everyone has a past I guess. It's the future we want!"

Suppose good side to catching feelings if they are returned

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