FabSwingers.com forum: Acceptable number of veris

By *ommando4 OP Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

What's an acceptable number of veris in a potential play partner for you ? Obviously 0 or 1 are too few but when is it too many ? Or does it come into the equation at all ? Should veris be hidden or displayed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think each person can have what ever number they want. At the end if the day it's a swing site. Once your taking care of your own sexualy health does it matter what others do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk have loads but if you read them a good few can be socials or met at a Club etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment I have zip but when I was here before I stopped asking for verifications from meets after the initial one or two.

So really its not a great indication of someone or how many meets they have had.

I always tended to check who thwle veries were from rathet than how many or what they said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the moment I have zip but when I was here before I stopped asking for verifications from meets after the initial one or two.

So really its not a great indication of someone or how many meets they have had.

I always tended to check who thwle veries were from rathet than how many or what they said. "

U are so right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would 0 or 1 not be acceptable!.... Everyone starts on zero don't they?...or do some people arrive on here with celebrity status with 5 gold veris!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike."

Bitchy comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike.

Bitchy comment"
That's because I'm a right bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike.

Bitchy comment That's because I'm a right bitch "

As coming from a hidden profile not worth a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike.

Bitchy comment That's because I'm a right bitch

As coming from a hidden profile not worth a reply"
That's your prerogative.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

we have over 200 veris but most are social but ud be suprised how many wont meet as they think we have had sex with the whole site lol so we took away our summary and left a few veries on show , seems to little veris , no meets and too many vers, no meet either , cant bloody win here

mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have over 200 veris but most are social but ud be suprised how many wont meet as they think we have had sex with the whole site lol so we took away our summary and left a few veries on show , seems to little veris , no meets and too many vers, no meet either , cant bloody win here

mrs crazy

It would probably help if the summary had an option for veri by play meet and veri by social meet like it does for a cam veri.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Don’t care how many veris someone has and I find it strange that that there can be too many. If someone wants to fuck the whole site then more power to them. Me thinks some want to feel special or something

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

mrs crazy

It would probably help if the summary had an option for veri by play meet and veri by social meet like it does for a cam veri."

Yes i totally agree with this too

would make it much easier

Mrs crazy

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"Don’t care how many veris someone has and I find it strange that that there can be too many. If someone wants to fuck the whole site then more power to them. Me thinks some want to feel special or something "

If ya go to one big meet a nd greet ya can get Maybe 10 or more just from that a alone , once someone verifies you ya can't take it away so the numbers keep adding up , we never ask for them but we still get them , we don't mind either way now but we will send one back too

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly would not meet a guy with lots of veris.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Mrs crazy

Yea exactly at socialist you meet loadsa people well socially. But even if they are not social veris I don’t see why it would be off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To see another woman suggest someone is a bike because of a number of veri is utterly disappointing.

So much for sexual liberation.

Not all veri are based on sex ultimately all that matters is that you have respect for each other good connection and clean fun

It’s a swinger site the give away is in the title

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

The amount of veris doesn't mean anything whatsoever. Someone could have very few veris on here but is highly sexually active through other means, you never know. There's peeps on here who don't want veris, i noticed others who delete their profiles when they reached a 'critical' amount just to come along next day with a new profile etc etc.

I'm not bothered by the amount of veris someone has and it certainly doesn't influence my decision to meet or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand how you can have too many verifications on a swinging site

, it has been said to us before and I couldn't care less... We didn't come on here for pen pals we came to have sex!!!

and lots of it

Majority of ours are social meets but either way if you don't like it just move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To see another woman suggest someone is a bike because of a number of veri is utterly disappointing.

So much for sexual liberation.

Not all veri are based on sex ultimately all that matters is that you have respect for each other good connection and clean fun

It’s a swinger site the give away is in the title

Not too sure that is a women and not a troll to be fair... but your point should stand regardless of gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is still a swinging site? Right?

Where adults meet other adults for consensual sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To see another woman suggest someone is a bike because of a number of veri is utterly disappointing.

So much for sexual liberation.

Not all veri are based on sex ultimately all that matters is that you have respect for each other good connection and clean fun

It’s a swinger site the give away is in the title

Not too sure that is a women and not a troll to be fair... but your point should stand regardless of gender"
Just because I give an honest opinion I'm not a woman.If that's not sexist I don't know what is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@bigboobs99 there’s a massive difference between an opinion and judgement of another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To see another woman suggest someone is a bike because of a number of veri is utterly disappointing.

So much for sexual liberation.

Not all veri are based on sex ultimately all that matters is that you have respect for each other good connection and clean fun

It’s a swinger site the give away is in the title

Not too sure that is a women and not a troll to be fair... but your point should stand regardless of gender Just because I give an honest opinion I'm not a woman.If that's not sexist I don't know what is."

Yes your right women couldnt possibly have opionions that was exactly what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@bigboobs99 there’s a massive difference between an opinion and judgement of another "
Not judging anyone just saying what I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To see another woman suggest someone is a bike because of a number of veri is utterly disappointing.

So much for sexual liberation.

Not all veri are based on sex ultimately all that matters is that you have respect for each other good connection and clean fun

It’s a swinger site the give away is in the title

Yes your right women couldnt possibly have opionions that was exactly what I said

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I have opinions and I'm not afraid to share them don't care what people think about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification numbers don't necessarily suggest sexual partners. Alot can be social only and really slut shaming anyone shows a level if childish jealousy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/08/18 21:55:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back to the village bike... Same applicable for men?

It's a site for swingers who care if they're not hurting you in anyway let them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about this today seen a woman with in the 80s but who I'm I to judge as long as people look after them selfs fuck away and I'm sure if I looked at all of them I'm sure alot could have been social and cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told before the amount of veris I have is off putting and when I pointed out that most of mine are from a social I hosted I was told that I should remove them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told before the amount of veris I have is off putting and when I pointed out that most of mine are from a social I hosted I was told that I should remove them

Hi jiggly girl is it ok to pm you wana ask you a question about hosting a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told before the amount of veris I have is off putting and when I pointed out that most of mine are from a social I hosted I was told that I should remove them

Hi jiggly girl is it ok to pm you wana ask you a question about hosting a social. "

Yeah sure

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive 30 + most are social coffee or cam some are repeat verfies from members who have left and rejoined and ive re verfied them...

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"To see another woman suggest someone is a bike because of a number of veri is utterly disappointing.

So much for sexual liberation.

Not all veri are based on sex ultimately all that matters is that you have respect for each other good connection and clean fun

It’s a swinger site the give away is in the title

Yes your right women couldnt possibly have opionions that was exactly what I said

I have opinions and I'm not afraid to share them don't care what people think about me."

Good to know you don’t care - I think you’re a sad aul guy looking wank fodder

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"To see another woman suggest someone is a bike because of a number of veri is utterly disappointing.

So much for sexual liberation.

Not all veri are based on sex ultimately all that matters is that you have respect for each other good connection and clean fun

It’s a swinger site the give away is in the title

Yes your right women couldnt possibly have opionions that was exactly what I said

I have opinions and I'm not afraid to share them don't care what people think about me."

Is that why your hiding.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest the amount of verifications and whether that is an issue when someone is considering a play partner is a personal choice for each person. There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to whether verifications should be hidden or displayed either, again that's a personal choice.

Make the best of your own personal Fab experience, that's what I'm enjoying and I'm not concerning myself with what others think, everyone will have an opinion I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the best of your own personal Fab experience, that's what I'm enjoying and I'm not concerning myself with what others think, everyone will have an opinion I guess"

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

Id think a few is acceptable but can you not have lots and only host a couple

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Does it matter that my last ondd was two years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's doesn't really matter how many for us, what matters is the content of the veri's.

You'll see people with 50 or 60 which can be off putting but then when you read through its because they go to meet and greets or go on cam in chatrooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS... when so u people gone get happy whit something ? Strange very strange , if hav none o just one it’s no good if u hav to many as well not good , some of u always lov to comment isn’t ? Nothing and never perfect , what doesn’t matter , they are verify we all know we don’t gett to fuck all the people we meet , most are social verify , bot doesn’t matter sex o social , verify prov that u are a activ swingers , dedicate to the cause , not just joined here and use this as a Facebook ,

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Anything under 10000 is acceptable anything more is just disgusting

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By *eliciouslyWoman
over a year ago

Mallow

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I have a lot of veris because I go to and help organise socials. But I do hide a lot of them because unfortunately people do judge you and you’d be surprised how many people confuse socials with play parties so they still think you shagged half the room.

But like others have said. It shouldn’t matter who or how many people we’ve shagged as long as we are all looking after our health.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

" Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike."

And some "ladies" are fake... find another hobby trolling is pathetic and weak minded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not so much the number of verifs, its who they are from that could effect my meeting a person.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Does it matter that my last ondd was two years ago

If having loads makes you a bije what does none in 2 years make you ..... a stationary bike ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it matter that my last ondd was two years ago

If having loads makes you a bije what does none in 2 years make you ..... a stationary bike ??

No wonder everyone is so energetic in that fecking spinning class so....

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Does it matter that my last ondd was two years ago

If having loads makes you a bije what does none in 2 years make you ..... a stationary bike ??

No wonder everyone is so energetic in that fecking spinning class so...."

They've so many veris you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you..."

And here was me taking them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

And here was me taking them off

You shouldnt be so easily swayed

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

And here was me taking them off

You shouldnt be so easily swayed

He said keep your knickers on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

And here was me taking them off

You shouldnt be so easily swayed

He said keep your knickers on

And do you always do as your told

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

And here was me taking them off

You shouldnt be so easily swayed

He said keep your knickers on

And do you always do as your told

Depends on whos doing the telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

And here was me taking them off

You shouldnt be so easily swayed

He said keep your knickers on

Ahem I have boobs a vajajay ... think I am a lady... Not a he

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Only you can answer that. You know how many is acceptable for you.

Whatever number you choose, someone else will think differently.

Tbh only 1 veri needs to be on display if you want to show any but again, that’s your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

And here was me taking them off

You shouldnt be so easily swayed

He said keep your knickers on

And do you always do as your told

Depends on whos doing the telling

Touchè

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies ladies... keep your knickers on ... it's Sunday...

Geez ...

Keep your knickers on? This is the worst advise I have ever seen on Fab shame on you...

And here was me taking them off

You shouldnt be so easily swayed

He said keep your knickers on

Ahem I have boobs a vajajay ... think I am a lady... Not a he

Best to double check

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

At the end of the day it's just a few words most people get veris from social meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to each person how many verification s they choose to display

.like some have said some can be from social meets not all are play..

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By *nsearchofmatureMan
over a year ago

Cork

Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

What is someone with your attitude doing on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

What is someone with your attitude doing on a swingers site

Searching for mature virgins apparently

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By *nsearchofmatureMan
over a year ago

Cork

"Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

What is someone with your attitude doing on a swingers site

Searching for mature virgins apparently

From your Status update "Fun male looking for my car keys....heard swining is good for that"

Just curious here enlighten us please but what is this "swining " you are here for ??

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

Jesus your 41 on a swingers site either cop on and show some maturity or head of to gardeners world and you can happily judge others from your fence. We're all here for the same reason... except you, your here to judge others. Attractive quaility sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

What is someone with your attitude doing on a swingers site

Searching for mature virgins apparently

From your Status update "Fun male looking for my car keys....heard swining is good for that"

Just curious here enlighten us please but what is this "swining " you are here for ??

Yip its a typo thanks for pointing it out I shall change it straight away... thank you for takingvthe time to view my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

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Brilliant.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Some of them have had more loads in them than me Mams old washing machine

What is someone with your attitude doing on a swingers site

Searching for mature virgins apparently

From your Status update "Fun male looking for my car keys....heard swining is good for that"

Just curious here enlighten us please but what is this "swining " you are here for ??

Yip its a typo thanks for pointing it out I shall change it straight away... thank you for takingvthe time to view my profile

Bet you feel better for that .. say that spelling mistake was effecting your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs crazy

I agree it is ridiculous Mrs crazy lots of mine are social and I don't want any verifications . I am not giving anymore either for privacy reasons. I think the site should allow you to refuse them, I might make a suggestion.As said already once you safe then all good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike."
lol yeah that could be off putting

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

" Some ladies have that many veris you could easily mistake them for a bike. lol yeah that could be off putting "

So are judgmental small minded men but thats life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's an acceptable number of veris in a potential play partner for you ? Obviously 0 or 1 are too few but when is it too many ? Or does it come into the equation at all ? Should veris be hidden or displayed ?"
verirs is a bullshit, it do provide an ideas about the person only if they aren't fake, I have seen people with 3-4 verifications even they joined the site few hours

ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's an acceptable number of veris in a potential play partner for you ? Obviously 0 or 1 are too few but when is it too many ? Or does it come into the equation at all ? Should veris be hidden or displayed ?verirs is a bullshit, it do provide an ideas about the person only if they aren't fake, I have seen people with 3-4 verifications even they joined the site few hours

ago."
I think the amount of Veris should not matter .Its a lifestyle .Blaming somebody of having too many veris would be similar like blaming somebody of having Too much Fun

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