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By *igertiger OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel

One for the guys do you have body confidence? Don't worry the ladies on here won't hold it against you if you admit to a hang up or 2!!! Bi guys are your super confident?

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By *odjer MoreMan
over a year ago

D16

It depends really , for the most part yes . Very rare I'd be shy I can't change what I have . Was alot less confident when I was younger even though I was in decent shape .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

work with what you got...dont body shame yourself..at my age I have a lived in body ... but then so do the ladies ... all shapes & sizes on Fab ... there is one for everyone ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would or have body confidence...I'm 41 and as In good a shape as someone a bit younger then me..personally it's more about fitness then looks,in my work i still wank to be able to keep up with guys 10 / 12 years younger then me and for the most part with effort and work i am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh that was Ment to be WANT not wank...bloody spell check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have body confidence, 50 now and not as aesthetically attractive as I once was,but still in reasonable shape,and it never occurs to me that a lady might be put off as she undresses me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would or have body confidence...I'm 41 and as In good a shape as someone a bit younger then me..personally it's more about fitness then looks,in my work i still wank to be able to keep up with guys 10 / 12 years younger then me and for the most part with effort and work i am.."

Interesting work

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"Eh that was Ment to be WANT not wank...bloody spell check "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not as much as I would like... from having problems when I was younger and the toll past relationships have had on me body confidence naturally takes a hit.. I wont turn around and say I have it in abundance just to try and prove im confident when that isnt the case.. its something I am working on and in time will hopefully get to the level I want to be at

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Eh that was Ment to be WANT not wank...bloody spell check "

I was wondering why you were wanking with the boys

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Probably not as much as I would like... from having problems when I was younger and the toll past relationships have had on me body confidence naturally takes a hit.. I wont turn around and say I have it in abundance just to try and prove im confident when that isnt the case.. its something I am working on and in time will hopefully get to the in green I want to be at "

Your lovely as you are .. make sure your own voice is kind to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really although people always say “your in good shape/ your ripped” I just think I’m skinny.

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By *evinM2020Man
over a year ago

Swords

I’m getting better with the body confidence, lost was decent shape most of my life, put on weight in coll like most lads.

But always held fat around my chest(moobs) even at my slimmest, which always makes me self conscious when wearing a tightish tshirt or shirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tink there is some thing we would all change if we could

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By *ercymallowMan
over a year ago

Belfast / Dublin

Completely varies... I can go through waves of being confident (clothed or unclothed) with or without someone else there.

I know us guys are supposedly “uncaring” when it comes to our shape, physique, hairiness etc but I believe we’re just as conscious as the opposite gender.

I for one have psoriasis... and although I’m happy with my overall appearance and aesthetic... I’m super aware of it’s presence and.. unfortunately for me, something unavoidable/visible that can disconnect someone’s attraction towards me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would or have body confidence...I'm 41 and as In good a shape as someone a bit younger then me..personally it's more about fitness then looks,in my work i still wank to be able to keep up with guys 10 / 12 years younger then me and for the most part with effort and work i am.."
do you find the wanking helps you keep up too the younger guys or do they just run faster when you start wanking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh that was Ment to be WANT not wank...bloody spell check

I was wondering why you were wanking with the boys "
If I was wanking with the boys it would be to your sexy profile pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would or have body confidence...I'm 41 and as In good a shape as someone a bit younger then me..personally it's more about fitness then looks,in my work i still wank to be able to keep up with guys 10 / 12 years younger then me and for the most part with effort and work i am..

Interesting work "
It can be ...

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Eh that was Ment to be WANT not wank...bloody spell check

I was wondering why you were wanking with the boys If I was wanking with the boys it would be to your sexy profile pics "

Ohhh you say the right things

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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Its so interesting to read this body confidence and bidy awareness is pushed generally as a female issue. This thread proves men have this problem as well. Im a bigger woman and its taken me years to love this body. Our bodies and ourselves need self love. Make sure that voice we listen to most, the one in our heads is kind. We are all different, we all posess our own beauty.

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon


"One for the guys do you have body confidence? Don't worry the ladies on here won't hold it against you if you admit to a hang up or 2!!! Bi guys are your super confident?"
Honestly I would be lacking in body confidence

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"Its so interesting to read this body confidence and bidy awareness is pushed generally as a female issue. This thread proves men have this problem as well. Im a bigger woman and its taken me years to love this body. Our bodies and ourselves need self love. Make sure that voice we listen to most, the one in our heads is kind. We are all different, we all posess our own beauty. "

We are all our own harshest critic. Be kind to yourself and try to quiet that negative voice we all have in our heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh that was Ment to be WANT not wank...bloody spell check

I was wondering why you were wanking with the boys If I was wanking with the boys it would be to your sexy profile pics

Ohhh you say the right things "
Really ...oh the things I say to Mrs snickers is worse ....stuck all the way out in this sand box and I have her plus you and the ladys of fab teasing me with your profile pics...,it's a hard life lol and even harder when your horny haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a take me or leave me kinda guy. Too long in the tooth to be worrying about 6 packs or biceps. Ya can't fuck a 6 pack at the end of the day

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

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"Eh that was Ment to be WANT not wank...bloody spell check

I was wondering why you were wanking with the boys If I was wanking with the boys it would be to your sexy profile pics

Ohhh you say the right things Really ...oh the things I say to Mrs snickers is worse ....stuck all the way out in this sand box and I have her plus you and the ladys of fab teasing me with your profile pics...,it's a hard life lol and even harder when your horny haha."

You may do something about that ..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think everyone would have varying degrees of confidence depending on their situation. Some day you can feel great and somedays not as much. I wpuld be suprised if anyone here didnt have one hang up at least about themselves

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I'm happy with mine and have no need to change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body is a constant "work in progress" and I'll never be totally happy but I don't lack any confidence

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I have limited confidence in my body as sometimes it just does things without asking or consulting with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not as much as I would like... from having problems when I was younger and the toll past relationships have had on me body confidence naturally takes a hit.. I wont turn around and say I have it in abundance just to try and prove im confident when that isnt the case.. its something I am working on and in time will hopefully get to the in green I want to be at

Your lovely as you are .. make sure your own voice is kind to you"

There's a quote for us all to remember. To make sure our own voice is kind to us. So simple yet so true really well put

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I went through a phase of body confidence a while back. I was working 3 shift cycles and due to bad sleeping, lack of energy for exercise and poor eating habits all of a sudden I had put on a heap of weight.

I was never toned or athletic, always had a little excess around the middle, but I just didn't like how I looked when I gained this weight. It was very noticeable.

I've since changed shift patterns so am working on getting back to where I was. I've lost 1 st. 4 lbs. since April and feeling that confidence coming back

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By *igertiger OP   Couple (MM)
over a year ago

cc hotel


"Its so interesting to read this body confidence and bidy awareness is pushed generally as a female issue. This thread proves men have this problem as well. Im a bigger woman and its taken me years to love this body. Our bodies and ourselves need self love. Make sure that voice we listen to most, the one in our heads is kind. We are all different, we all posess our own beauty. "

beautiful words thank you we should take heed x

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"One for the guys do you have body confidence? Don't worry the ladies on here won't hold it against you if you admit to a hang up or 2!!! Bi guys are your super confident?"

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Maybe it's an age thing but I've confidence enough to know that I'm more than just a body in that I can string a sentence together, love a good natter & can crack a joke ...sometimes!

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

If I am honest I am body conscious with all these muscles on show what lady is going to pick the overweight fella over a hunk ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the guys do you have body confidence? Don't worry the ladies on here won't hold it against you if you admit to a hang up or 2!!! Bi guys are your super confident?"

Definitely more comfortable in my own skin these days, I did lose over four stone a few years ago through exercise and healthier lifestyle, have gained a bit back but still alot better than before weight loss...looking to get back to regular exercise and tone up again.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Its good to see that its not just us women that have issues with our bodies as a bigger lady myself it has taken me yrs to love what i have anyway for me its more whats on the inside that counts if i am feeling not that confident i have a special set of underwear that someone special bought me and i feel like i can do anything or achieve anything when i wear them x

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