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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

You’ve been chatting with someone and getting on pretty well. You are thinking meeting this person. You both swap pics and vids and their vid is them having sex bareback.

Do you block them without saying anything or tell them after all this time you aren’t interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say you're not interested. If you feel like you need to give them an answer just say you're not comfortable with them having sex bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest and tell them you don't meet with people doing bareback

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just be honest and tell them you don't meet with people doing bareback "

This

I believe in honesty is the best policy

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Be honest just tell them your not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is the best policy

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

Tell them ...be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love baby !!! Thems the rules . Only question is how much lovin wirh no glovin has he done

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By *ively chicWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Definetly tell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly definitely ..they could wonder what happened other wise..

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By *aa MidletonMan
over a year ago

east cork

If you want to be polite, just say apologies but after seeing you having sex bareback, that you are no longer interested, as you safety is your priority, or just reply no thanks

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples "

Yep, that would be the first thing to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to get lost.

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe ask who the video was with and then if the reply is long term partner you could just say you saw the barebacking and wondered. And if he says one night stand/swing meet then say sorry but not interested. If you tell him you be noticed the barebacking he'll have an excuse. I've heard it before. Just make sure you're happy with the answer whatever it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples "

Exactly this

In my opinion, no harm barebacking if it was a long term partner

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples "

They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples

They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women.."

This

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples

They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women.."

I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples

They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..

I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it."

That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.

Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.

Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’ve been chatting with someone and getting on pretty well. You are thinking meeting this person. You both swap pics and vids and their vid is them having sex bareback.

Do you block them without saying anything or tell them after all this time you aren’t interested "

Be honest if they don't take it well then perhaps block .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples

They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..

I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it.

That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.

Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.

Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels."

This. Have been sent one before , hadnt asked to see it either, and when i asked did she know it was been shared, his answer was no. End of conversation.

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By *ratman236Man
over a year ago

The Zen Den

Be upfront and honest..if your not comfortable with it then they should respect that.If they don't well your lucky you ain't met them yet...But let them know...Might open their eyes a little to safety in the lifestyle...

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples

They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..

I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it.

That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.

Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.

Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels.

This. Have been sent one before , hadnt asked to see it either, and when i asked did she know it was been shared, his answer was no. End of conversation. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My question is ...what if the video was with someone whom is his life partner ..or was previously considered to be his life partner ...would it be an issue then ?

Apples

They always say oh it’s my x girlfriend in the pics.. but if you look again there’s usually different women..

I'm with Ginger on this. And if he thinks it's ok to send videos of barebacking I wouldn't trust him. I hope the girl in the video knows hes sharing it.

That was what I was wondering, if it's an ex, does she know that he is sending her sex video out around the internet. Either way it's a no no.

Op how do you know that he isn't going to video you? It's easily done without the other person being aware.

Complete lack of respect and breach of trust in my opinion on several levels."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight up and say look not into people that go bareback.. although that video could have been with someone they were in a realtionship with so it's all a bit confusing.

If it put you off just be honest and say sorry not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could have sex with someone they where in a relationship with. You can always ask for recent STI tests results before meet to be safe.

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By *ebelRoadMan
over a year ago

Cork / Wexford

We all have to feel safe and trusting when it comes to meets.

If seeing a video of someone playing bareback gives you doubts listen to your gut.

As previously posted, a nice message stating this concern and your decision.

Personally I always glove up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight up and say look not into people that go bareback.. although that video could have been with someone they were in a realtionship with so it's all a bit confusing.

If it put you off just be honest and say sorry not interested"

Honesty always works

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Say goodnight and good luck I think , no matter what he answers you'll always doubt it so it's not worth that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight up and say look not into people that go bareback.. although that video could have been with someone they were in a realtionship with so it's all a bit confusing.

If it put you off just be honest and say sorry not interested

Honesty always works "

Always has for me and I'm sticking with it

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

If your not comfortable dont safety first

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ask them were you having unprotected sex and if they say no good bye simple.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Say goodnight and good luck I think , no matter what he answers you'll always doubt it so it's not worth that"

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