FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meets

By *riniboo OP Woman
over a year ago

clare

Who should pay for hotel meets . Should it be shared . I am new to this .

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo shared

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Id always insist on sharing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always pay when booking,but my "guest" usually pays half!...though I never ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems fair to share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say share too - only fair if neither can accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems only fair to share but in past I have taken the bill, was worth it so not complaining

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

In general 50:50 but I accepted a few invites if it felt right.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Share..

God it's ages since I had hotel fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say share

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Share..

God it's ages since I had hotel fun..

Ohhh me to its been ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Share..

God it's ages since I had hotel fun..

You should let me change that for you

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By *riniboo OP Woman
over a year ago

clare

That’s what I thought to .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s what I thought to . "

Is someone not willing to split?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s what I thought to . "

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

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By *ed VixenWoman
over a year ago

vixenville

I've always offered to pay half but my meet has refused to take the money off me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely shared unless the person is there for work reasons and ur invited ..

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By *riniboo OP Woman
over a year ago

clare

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left "
what a plonker ..oooh do block and move on..he's gonna go far on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left "

That's a disgrace...what kind of a d**khead does that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left "

WTF!!! Are you serious!! Sorry to hear that, would never treat anybody like that. Sorry you had to endure such a dickhead. X

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Why call him a dickhead he obviously left for a reason there's two sides to every story people ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem to be a lousy thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jasus that’s a bit ruff

It’s share all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why call him a dickhead he obviously left for a reason there's two sides to every story people ...."

Cause he didn’t seem to explain to the OP what his reason was. Also he let her pay. Need I say more?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

He didn't want to stay obviously for what ever reason can't call him a dickhead for that...

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left "

It's always the risk we take when booking & paying for a room. Did ye discuss paying half before you committed to book..

He must of had his reasons for leaving the way he did which wasn't really nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a topic that will bring up differing viewpoints, everyone is entitled to our own opinions though and they should be respected irrespective of own thoughts, that's what the forums are about...

Sorry that happened to you OP, had you both chatted about splitting cost of the hotel room beforehand?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"He didn't want to stay obviously for what ever reason can't call him a dickhead for that..."

It really depends on the pre-meet agreement. No obligation to stay but If it was agreed to share costs, he's a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He didn't want to stay obviously for what ever reason can't call him a dickhead for that...

It really depends on the pre-meet agreement. No obligation to stay but If it was agreed to share costs, he's a dick. "

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed

If it's an mff i pay the bill but if it's a mmf he can go half after all he is gonna fuck my wife lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All way split

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left "

What a complete ar**hole. He’s NOT a man he’s a parasite. If he’s on Fab then block and report (if that can be done).

Lesson learned.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left

What a complete ar**hole. He’s NOT a man he’s a parasite. If he’s on Fab then block and report (if that can be done).

Lesson learned."

Jesus a parasite is a harsh word to be using. Do you know both sides to come to that conclusion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never do hotel meets to be honest i always accommodate ladys usually bring nice wine win win for everybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why call him a dickhead he obviously left for a reason there's two sides to every story people ...."

There’s always 3 sides to a story. In this case there’s his side, her side and the truth.

However, no woman should be treated like that. No matter how he was treated he should NEVER ha done that to her.

SHAME on him.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Jasus that’s a bit ruff

It’s share all the way

When you gonna share with me then??

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock

I understand it should be shared but I always pay for it. The ladies have offered to share but for me, I do not allow any lady pay a share. It's like bringing a lady out on a date and expecting her to pay for her meals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who should pay for hotel meets . Should it be shared . I am new to this .

Yep your right it should be shared people who are genuine would share the cost , I do.

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By *oreignaffairKKMan
over a year ago

Between CW and KK

"I understand it should be shared but I always pay for it. The ladies have offered to share but for me, I do not allow any lady pay a share. It's like bringing a lady out on a date and expecting her to pay for her meals. "

This is the right attitude. However if she wants to pay a round in the bar I accept that. But only one round on her and no more. You know some women feel bad if they don't have even a small share in the bills.

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock

I understand but they might feel bad because they feel the need to pay but Its not something I can let them pay for. If we agree a meet, I book the place, end off. Even the drink at the bar, I would offer to pay for it but only let them pay for their own if they insist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shared. I always insist on paying half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always insist on paying but then say you can get the next one!

I stay in hotels 2-3 days a week anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My company pays for mine lol perk of the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally pay, but if they pay half it's grand, if they don't, they don't!!! As long as it's good fun for all I'm happy!!

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By *ab2Man
over a year ago

Manchester/Dublin

if the guy is any sort of a gentleman he should pay or am I being old fashioned

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’d always share. I have been left with the bill a few times thou! If a guy insists on paying I’ll get drinks or something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's different for different meets... If its a regular we use a you pay, I pay the next time etc, we have also booked hotels and asked someone around so we wouldn't ask for half as we were staying anyway or being invited around to hotels by men on business etc we wouldn't pay half. Once it's decided before hand it's all good as we have been left on soooooo many occasions booking and paying for hotels and never mind them not chipping in they have just not turned up

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By *iroma2010Man
over a year ago

Blackrock

"if the guy is any sort of a gentleman he should pay or am I being old fashioned "

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"if the guy is any sort of a gentleman he should pay or am I being old fashioned

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"if the guy is any sort of a gentleman he should pay or am I being old fashioned

Is nice to be treated sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if the guy is any sort of a gentleman he should pay or am I being old fashioned "

No you’re not being old fashioned, most men would have no issues paying, unless prearranged that you share.

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

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By *he hunter28Man
over a year ago

sligo/

Definitely shared

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Shared always ...

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By *riniboo OP Woman
over a year ago

clare

He was my regular fb for last year . He isn’t on fab . Thanks for all your reply’s .

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By *ively chicWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

"That’s what I thought to .

Don’t tell me he expected you to pay!!

I booked and paid . Went to get a drink came back up he was dressed and left "
Ur not alone their Op, something similar happened too me.

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