FabSwingers.com forum: Do women ever message guys first ??

By *hortbutsweet84 OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Just wondering do lady’s or couples ever make the first move with guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they dont

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I do

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By *ercymallowMan
over a year ago

Belfast / Dublin

Sometimes!

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By *hortbutsweet84 OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

I’m still wating lol must be the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had a few say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

When the logistics match, all thats needed is a brief social to get the hygiene, discretion and general gut feelings sorted, then it's down to the good stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do, has happened a good few times for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't happened me yet. Plenty of unverified men who have wife's and partners waiting for me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have messaged one or two guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They only message me to give out to me typical women lol

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By *hortbutsweet84 OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

Good on you Steph and sluttyA

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By *hortbutsweet84 OP Man
over a year ago

limerick

And Tiffa

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

If there thirsty and need a social companion FD

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah sometimes.

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

"I do "

Bring it on girl..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, sometimes they do. Same with couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The smell of desperation off this post

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Regularly send wanna fuck messages

On a serious note I actually do send out first messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do send out the odd first message if I like the guys profile and pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes an odd time , got one yesterday and thank fully it didn’t include a Sky remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wading thru my inbox right now, I wish lol... send winks more than 1st message. Suppose you girls are pelted by hundreds of emails when you join and when you just log in???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been known to message certain single males, from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been know to happy - and it’s loveky to receive mails from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course they do!....though sometimes I don't respond for at least two minutes

....I like them to know how it feels to be ignored!

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Yes I've sent the odd first message

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

If i see a profile that ticks all my boxes and gives me fanny flutters I'll definitly message... 21st century lads.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I have quite a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few women have sent me messages first and that helps with my confidence and also, fair play to them and thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do...but just keep it a secret

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

A good few do. I rarely send a first message anyway so they have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been messaged a few times by women and couples. Can't remember profiles but thanks again. Doesn't always mean fun but it's a good starting point

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have lots of looks from women but yet to recieve a message or wink

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Yes they do I just got one only this morning of a lovely lady telling me how sad I was looking for casual sex at this time of my life when I should be gardening

Awe well I supose that lawn won't cut it self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

Good girl I'm waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they do I just got one only this morning of a lovely lady telling me how sad I was looking for casual sex at this time of my life when I should be gardening

Awe well I supose that lawn won't cut it self

Offer to do her garden and then she might ask for more chores to be

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

Good girl I'm waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

Good girl I'm waiting

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm to shy to mesg first

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

Good girl I'm waiting

Thank you

Messsge sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i have on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i see a profile i like ill always wink or message whats the worse that could happen

Good girl I'm waiting

Thank you

Messsge sent

Its not the same when u beg for a message

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Yes and my mailbox awaits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received one last night for an impromptu meet. Very flattered I was. Yet as a guy on here it certainly raises suspicions. What with all the scams and fakes.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"I received one last night for an impromptu meet. Very flattered I was. Yet as a guy on here it certainly raises suspicions. What with all the scams and fakes."

See what do we do .. we dont message you give out, we do message you give out ... put your positive pants on ...jeezeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received one last night for an impromptu meet. Very flattered I was. Yet as a guy on here it certainly raises suspicions. What with all the scams and fakes."

Sure why wouldnt someone want to meet you. If u turned up in that suit mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for one to reply back at least I’m not the only one on this lol

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and my mailbox awaits

It's a PAGER you need to manage your mail box

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"I'm to shy to mesg first

Loulou your a man eater not one bit shy are ya xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received one last night for an impromptu meet. Very flattered I was. Yet as a guy on here it certainly raises suspicions. What with all the scams and fakes.

See what do we do .. we dont message you give out, we do message you give out ... put your positive pants on ...jeezeeee"
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Sorry. I'm mostly positive. Maybe I wasn't 100% clear. I was kind of angling at certain kinds of profile's. You all know the one's. Only on a few hour's and ten veries. No pic's Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received one last night for an impromptu meet. Very flattered I was. Yet as a guy on here it certainly raises suspicions. What with all the scams and fakes.

See what do we do .. we dont message you give out, we do message you give out ... put your positive pants on ...jeezeeee"

Oh his white pants look pretty positive to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged couple lads 1st.dont rarely though to be honest

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Yes

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By *ad IdeaMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Yes they do message first.Actually most people i played here with contacted me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes"

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I had a few ladies and got to meet one he'll of a sexy goddess but the other was a messer and had couples wink me and then would not answer my messages .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never as there's two many guys on here ,the women on here hold all the cards

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By *hySwirlWoman
over a year ago

Cork

I have done a few time and won't be again my "Hi" got me a "When we meeting " answer each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope none ever messages me .

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I've been lucky enough to get quite a few first messages from ladies of which I'm very thankful. Most have led to hours of unbridled passion. As a shy sensitive sexaholic I'm very happy if the woman makes the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a gorgeous woman message me first this morning, I suspect pity but it still made my day.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I was messaged last week by a couple last week.

I found it so odd considering I'm not verified and asian.

I guess the only thing I have going for me is that I don't have a cock pic.

Strange world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few but I do think they're hard earned. Good conduct and a bit of banter goes a long way in making connections on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have on occasion messaged guys first

what's the harm

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

I've had a few message me first and it has led to some good fun.

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

Yes I do it all the time

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

Yes I do it all the time

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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

I can safely say that I have never got a message from a woman first.

I bearly get a reply when I do send a message

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Got a few.

Most of the conversations petered out in the end but some turned out to be quite interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course. In the name of equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course. In the name of equality."

And a woman who knows what she wants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get one message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never get one message

Your just playing hard to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course. In the name of equality.

And a woman who knows what she wants!"

The best kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The smell of desperation off this post"

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Yeah of course , why wouldn't they , it's only a message not a contract

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By *ORNYSET13Man
over a year ago

BALLYCLARE

Hopefully

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By * am in Your DreamsMan
over a year ago

South

Yes of course they do. I continuously get first contact from women all the time. Here are some examples.....

Hey you I heard about you, your blocked.....

Is it true your cock is only 3.5 inches......

Barring orders are easier to obtain now so don't even try message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes of course they do. I continuously get first contact from women all the time. Here are some examples.....

Hey you I heard about you, your blocked.....

Is it true your cock is only 3.5 inches......

Barring orders are easier to obtain now so don't even try message me."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering do lady’s or couples ever make the first move with guys "
yes, they do.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We have from time to time...find it works best that way for us anyway....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm once or twice .

Men I get daily messsges lol.

Couples few times.

I think it's how you articulate yourself on your personal profile lads in general that puts in effort and as soon you get the right way of doing it ladies will message first

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Yes

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By *eavens stairwayWoman
over a year ago

you never know

I tend to if I like

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Go on OP, tell us how many messages you've had from ladies since you started this thread?

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

I'd have no issues sending a message first if I was interested I'm all about equality

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...

I get the odd one. Nice to get and I always reply

. Nice to be nice and it costs nothing. Get more mails from guys!... same rules apply though...always respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got one . But only one .hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once and it was weird. Lol

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

"Go on OP, tell us how many messages you've had from ladies since you started this thread?"

I message you all the time !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened me!!!

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

The most I manage to do is wink. I’m a shy creature really.

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin westmeath galway

I do some times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I may have to start

You’ll have nothing to lose

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By *oey4somefunMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Drogheda

It has happened to me a few times but got one today asking if I want to chat so I replied but no answer then. Why bother if your not going to follow up.

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