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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So after a few months of living in stalker hell, ie on here which progressed to other social media outlets , and to family and friends , im giving a heads up to all you suffering the same , Go to the police !! , it's classified as cyber bullying/stalking , and it's taken seriously , no shame in what your doing on here , in fact it's a common scenario, unfortunately I can't name and shame my tormentor as it's with the DPP, but plz never be afraid or ashamed to ask for help, let's eradicate the bullies and drag them into the open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So after a few months of living in stalker hell, ie on here which progressed to other social media outlets , and to family and friends , im giving a heads up to all you suffering the same , Go to the police !! , it's classified as cyber bullying/stalking , and it's taken seriously , no shame in what your doing on here , in fact it's a common scenario, unfortunately I can't name and shame my tormentor as it's with the DPP, but plz never be afraid or ashamed to ask for help, let's eradicate the bullies and drag them into the open "

Omg girl. Sorry to hear that. I had grief on here before.. i just set up a new profile and off i went.. serious assholes on here!!

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

A really lovely lady and good mate. Bullied off the site.... and the sad thing is ... probably all coming from another female . Can’t see a bloke having the determination or holding a grudge for that long ..

Sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aah who's gone now

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Aah who's gone now

Was evie74... originally . Tried coming back under a couple new profiles ... but they continued to harass her . Contacting her family, work colleagues , social media . Saw the messages ... indescribable .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awful I hope it's sorted for he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aah who's gone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of ours has left very recently for the same reasons, he's a great guy and Fab is worse off without him. If its you thats doing this or you've done anything like it, you're a peice of cowardly shit and should be punished to the full extent of the law.

The people who run this site need to take more responsibility for what goes on, at the end of the day thier business will suffer.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Aah who's gone now

Totally unacceptable. Seems to be happening more often. This place is full of sick people. Sick as in unstable. Regards to Evie74.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

At the end of the day we're all here to either swing, chat and have fun or at least that's how it should be...

Unfortunately a few stalkers, weirdos and oddballs are drawn to sites like this to get off on other people's misery

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I'd had people crying telling me that they've been threatened to be exposed to their spouse, family, friends, etc because they didn't meet up or sleep with someone...

For anyone feeling harassed, I'd say go straight to Admin or chat to an experienced Fabber whose opinion and advice you trust.

But at the very least TALK TO SOMEONE

- Secondly, taking a picture from another social media outlet, covering your face and posting it here is not a good idea if you want to remain anonymous...

- Of course we all like to chat & there's no harm in saying a little about yourself... but when someone starts asking & asking: what do you do? whereabouts do you work? Live? What's your mob number? Any kids? Then alarm bells should start to ring a little

- Using KIK or even having a throw away "fun-phone" might be another option if safety is a high priority

- Also be careful of this Dom-sub scenarios where so called "Doms" are organising meets for their subs with complete strangers

in the subs house. This has happened & I've forwarned a few people about how dangerous it can be...

I know that this is a serious subject and some of you might not agree with some of the above but online safety needs to be a no. 1 priority for all of us here...

To quote Hill Street Blues...

"Let's be safe out there" Fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day we're all here to either swing, chat and have fun or at least that's how it should be...

Unfortunately a few stalkers, weirdos and oddballs are drawn to sites like this to get off on other people's misery

...

I'd had people crying telling me that they've been threatened to be exposed to their spouse, family, friends, etc because they didn't meet up or sleep with someone...

For anyone feeling harassed, I'd say go straight to Admin or chat to an experienced Fabber whose opinion and advice you trust.

But at the very least TALK TO SOMEONE

- Secondly, taking a picture from another social media outlet, covering your face and posting it here is not a good idea if you want to remain anonymous...

- Using KIK or even having a throw away "fun-phone" might be another option if safety is a high priority

- Also be careful of this Dom-sub scenarios where so called "Doms" are organising meets for their subs with complete strangers

in the subs house. This has happened & I've forwarned a few people about how dangerous it can be...

I know that this is a serious subject and some of you might not agree with some of the above but online safety needs to be a no. 1 priority for all of us here...

To quote Hill Street Blues...

"Let's be safe out there" Fabbers

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"Report to admin" worse than useless, apparantly they said they wont do anything unless your life has been threatened! Apparantly having your life destroyed isn't enough for them to take action..

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

We are saddened by this and hope all works out. We are very private people and often asked why we don't give out much detail about ourselves ie face pics etc. This thread explains why for us.

Amy and Gareth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad to hear. Been on receiving end of threats and unwarranted nasty messages, reported the profiles but the profiles are still active. Admin need to do a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aah who's gone now

Aww that poor girl... my heart goes out to her! How anyone could be that despicable is unbelievable... I really hope she is ok and that the perpetrator is brought to justice xxx

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

It's not only the "rejectees" that stalk abuse etc. There are a lot of lamppost pissers on here too, also people take exception at posts on certain threads . They think they are being clever but people take notice and notes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very sorry to hear that another person has been harassed off the site, but very glad to see that she went to the law to get sorted. The advice above to report to admin is useless, all they will do is block you and the offender from seeing each other's profile, giving them free rein then to wage war through status updates.

I hope the OP is ok, she definitely did the right thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are saddened by this and hope all works out. We are very private people and often asked why we don't give out much detail about ourselves ie face pics etc. This thread explains why for us.

Amy and Gareth"
...ok a bit shocked by this and has ourselves asking serious questions about firstly the admins of fab and two if it's worth staying on...not tech savvy at best but how could it have went from fab to other media platforms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's us done sharing face pics....we'll have no problem video calling on kik when we get set up with the app but after reading the various comments on the thread i think we'd be forgiven for being extra cautious.

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