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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay single folks of fab.. say you fall madly in love with someone who has no idea about fab or the world of swinging.. would you tell them about the site and what you got up to as a swinger or is it a no no??

Love to hear everyone’s opinion on this Because it is something I often think about should I ever be tied down lol

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Good question OP. I don't think I would. Though if I happened to meet "the one" (not looking at present) I would delete my account here as this is just some single fun. Been cheated On, never cheated and never will. If I met "the one" she can tell me what she wishes about her past but i would only be interested in our future and our feelings for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what happens in fab stays in fab ... take ur fab days & experiences to the grave ... a secret know only to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay single folks of fab.. say you fall madly in love with someone who has no idea about fab or the world of swinging.. would you tell them about the site and what you got up to as a swinger or is it a no no??

Love to hear everyone’s opinion on this Because it is something I often think about should I ever be tied down lol"

Yep because she could be just as naughty and love the idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Okay single folks of fab.. say you fall madly in love with someone who has no idea about fab or the world of swinging.. would you tell them about the site and what you got up to as a swinger or is it a no no??

Love to hear everyone’s opinion on this Because it is something I often think about should I ever be tied down lol

Yep because she could be just as naughty and love the idea "

But say you told them and they wore horrified??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good question OP. I don't think I would. Though if I happened to meet "the one" (not looking at present) I would delete my account here as this is just some single fun. Been cheated On, never cheated and never will. If I met "the one" she can tell me what she wishes about her past but i would only be interested in our future and our feelings for each other. "

But on the other handy you’s could have lots of fun together as a couple on here

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas"!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay single folks of fab.. say you fall madly in love with someone who has no idea about fab or the world of swinging.. would you tell them about the site and what you got up to as a swinger or is it a no no??

Love to hear everyone’s opinion on this Because it is something I often think about should I ever be tied down lol

Yep because she could be just as naughty and love the idea

But say you told them and they wore horrified??"

Then you gotta ask yourself if they arent at least accepting of it then are they the one for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you didn't ask for couples opinions but.... for me (Mrs) the kinkier side of sex has always been a part of me so in looking for a partner back in the day I would have been somewhat honest about this side of me. I always felt that if I didn't I would be denying a big part of me. If you are just here for sex that's a different story I'd keep my mouth shut but if swinging is a part of you why not find the right partner for you from the start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know you didn't ask for couples opinions but.... for me (Mrs) the kinkier side of sex has always been a part of me so in looking for a partner back in the day I would have been somewhat honest about this side of me. I always felt that if I didn't I would be denying a big part of me. If you are just here for sex that's a different story I'd keep my mouth shut but if swinging is a part of you why not find the right partner for you from the start "

The forum is open to all

I love the answer though it’s so true it’s not sex it’s the lifestyle so suppose it is best to find someone interested in that lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may as well depend on the maturity of the (one), the point and level of understanding could get quickly twisted or gratified...if she is the type to accept you for who you are then you will be a lucky man but if she repulsed the idea, man I think you would damned the idea...of trying to share that..!!

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By *wing a ding dingWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

As a single woman, if I happened to meet "the one", I would instantly remove myself from here (I suppose that goes without saying). If down the line our pillow talk turned to sexual experiences of the past, I would vaguely mention that I participated in particular scenarios (threesomes,foursomes, moresomes, girl on girl etc). If he seems interested and aroused by it them I may further divulge a little bit more, but only gauge it on his responses. If he's game I would know and would say what a great time I had and my personal take on swinging as a lifestyle. I think theres people who like it or not or may be curious to try it. Never would I mention the topic unless I knew the type of guy he is. If he's straight laced so to speak then I would never mention it. It would remain my secret. However, I cannot deny the FUNdamentals of my being. I am sexual by nature and my happy ever after will have to be exactly the same (no slacking but no pressure lol) If he was horrified by it, then I've either given him too much info or he is definitly not "my one".

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Would delete Fab account

Exit KIK forever

Erase all numbers off my mobile

...and start a brand new life sharing

all experiences I've gleaned from Fab

...without her ever knowing a single detail

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Would delete Fab account

Exit KIK forever

Erase all numbers off my mobile

...and start a brand new life sharing

all experiences I've gleaned from Fab

...without her ever knowing a single detail "

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"knowledge" not "experiences"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single woman, if I happened to meet "the one", I would instantly remove myself from here (I suppose that goes without saying). If down the line our pillow talk turned to sexual experiences of the past, I would vaguely mention that I participated in particular scenarios (threesomes,foursomes, moresomes, girl on girl etc). If he seems interested and aroused by it them I may further divulge a little bit more, but only gauge it on his responses. If he's game I would know and would say what a great time I had and my personal take on swinging as a lifestyle. I think theres people who like it or not or may be curious to try it. Never would I mention the topic unless I knew the type of guy he is. If he's straight laced so to speak then I would never mention it. It would remain my secret. However, I cannot deny the FUNdamentals of my being. I am sexual by nature and my happy ever after will have to be exactly the same (no slacking but no pressure lol) If he was horrified by it, then I've either given him too much info or he is definitly not "my one". "

Great insights there...

I was previously here two years ago and left when I met someone outside of Fab, there was never any mention of my time here during our all too brief time together but that's not say I wouldn't broach the subject should the same occur in the future...unless of course that next someone special comes from within the Fab scene

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By *wing a ding dingWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow


"Would delete Fab account

Exit KIK forever

Erase all numbers off my mobile

...and start a brand new life sharing

all experiences I've gleaned from Fab

...without her ever knowing a single detail "

It sounds scary but you would have many wonderful memories to reflect apon I'm sure

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By *wing a ding dingWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow


"As a single woman, if I happened to meet "the one", I would instantly remove myself from here (I suppose that goes without saying). If down the line our pillow talk turned to sexual experiences of the past, I would vaguely mention that I participated in particular scenarios (threesomes,foursomes, moresomes, girl on girl etc). If he seems interested and aroused by it them I may further divulge a little bit more, but only gauge it on his responses. If he's game I would know and would say what a great time I had and my personal take on swinging as a lifestyle. I think theres people who like it or not or may be curious to try it. Never would I mention the topic unless I knew the type of guy he is. If he's straight laced so to speak then I would never mention it. It would remain my secret. However, I cannot deny the FUNdamentals of my being. I am sexual by nature and my happy ever after will have to be exactly the same (no slacking but no pressure lol) If he was horrified by it, then I've either given him too much info or he is definitly not "my one".

Great insights there...

I was previously here two years ago and left when I met someone outside of Fab, there was never any mention of my time here during our all too brief time together but that's not say I wouldn't broach the subject should the same occur in the future...unless of course that next someone special comes from within the Fab scene "

I have heard many couples have originally started as singles and found their equal in many ways on this, took time out of Fab to focus on themselves and maybe returns the odd occasion (or permanently) as a couple with a totally new dynamic. At least its built on a good basis with both understanding each other's sexual wants and needs from the start. I personally think it's all about knowing your audience so to speak

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