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By *ovigal OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

My BDSM restraints arrived and very excited about trying them out with my man...but he's very timid! Any ideas how I can get him out of his shell?

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Whio his ass

Seriously msybe doms not his thing but yours ??

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By *ovigal OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Whio his ass

Seriously msybe doms not his thing but yours ?? "

Think you might be right! Will have to look further afield!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whio his ass

Seriously msybe doms not his thing but yours ??

Think you might be right! Will have to look further afield!"
Give him one taste of it and he'll soon change his mind or is it the dynamic he's not sure about...do u want him sub to your Dom or the other way around...

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By *ovigal OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Neither of us have any experience but I'd be more adventurous, he's happy the way we are, I'm bored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither of us have any experience but I'd be more adventurous, he's happy the way we are, I'm bored!"
Mmmmh pity as the male sub and female Dom is a good role reversal...

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Just don't give him a choice, pin him down and make him your bitch!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Tie him up and whip his shyness out of him

Softly tease him there and instruct him in what you want but keep the communication going

Happy BDSM

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Neither of us have any experience but I'd be more adventurous, he's happy the way we are, I'm bored!"

You tie him if hes up for it ... i think you'll enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't give him a choice, pin him down and make him your bitch!"

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Talk to him... if he doesn't have sub tendencies don't push him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk to him... if he doesn't have sub tendencies don't push him. "
..or give him a sleeping tablet and explain the whole restraint things when he wakes up

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Talk to him... if he doesn't have sub tendencies don't push him. ..or give him a sleeping tablet and explain the whole restraint things when he wakes up "

Or tell him it was a dream.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Tie yourself naked or in nice lingerie to the bed, invite him over and let the cock do the thinking.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Tie yourself naked or in nice lingerie to the bed, invite him over and let the cock do the thinking. "

Top tip... Send the invite before you tie yourself to the bed!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Tie yourself naked or in nice lingerie to the bed, invite him over and let the cock do the thinking.

Top tip... Send the invite before you tie yourself to the bed! "

That is a top tip.

How do you tie yourself to a bed?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Tie yourself naked or in nice lingerie to the bed, invite him over and let the cock do the thinking.

Top tip... Send the invite before you tie yourself to the bed!

That is a top tip.

How do you tie yourself to a bed?"

First the legs than one arm and then get the neighbours to do the second arm

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Tie yourself naked or in nice lingerie to the bed, invite him over and let the cock do the thinking.

Top tip... Send the invite before you tie yourself to the bed! "

And just hope he isn't a no show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My BDSM restraints arrived and very excited about trying them out with my man...but he's very timid! Any ideas how I can get him out of his shell?"

Showing him a video of someone else tieing you up with them might work lol

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark


"Tie yourself naked or in nice lingerie to the bed, invite him over and let the cock do the thinking.

Top tip... Send the invite before you tie yourself to the bed!

That is a top tip.

How do you tie yourself to a bed?"

You know theres sort of a safe way but it takes a little prep, put 2 hooks into water an freeze them, then use it as a link between 2 ropes, its a type of time release as the ice melts, a tad messy but if things go right its the good type of messy!

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

You are either that way inclined or not. Some people are afraid of giving into the dominant side of kink as well as the submissive.

Do not push him into something he is not comfortable with. I mean would you like if someone pushed you into something you weren't happy to try.

That being said talk to him and see if he will give it a go. Many men/women are afraid of hurting the ones they care for when first exploring This side of things.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Tie yourself naked or in nice lingerie to the bed, invite him over and let the cock do the thinking.

Top tip... Send the invite before you tie yourself to the bed!

That is a top tip.

How do you tie yourself to a bed?"

By using a slip knot on one wrist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk to him... if he doesn't have sub tendencies don't push him. ..or give him a sleeping tablet and explain the whole restraint things when he wakes up "

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Good advice from Thor's.hammer but if it was me, I'd be very pleased if I was hit over the head and knocked unconscious only to awake tied to a bed and my partner standing over me with nothing on but a devilish smile.....OK throw in some latex too

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Good advice from Thor's.hammer but if it was me, I'd be very pleased if I was hit over the head and knocked unconscious only to awake tied to a bed and my partner standing over me with nothing on but a devilish smile.....OK throw in some latex too "

Yeah I would be too but I already know I'm into that

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