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 & "nice guy" in the two lines that passes as my profile.  I then took a pic of my belly in tracky bottoms in front of the tv with a beer & sent pics of my package to the women  and couples 
with the caption "Hi, how r u?"
...but alas no response 
...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG???" 
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I don't know about you but there seems to be a gargantuan amount of single guys on the forums lately who can't seem to get a meet who are creating forum threads with "what am I doing wrong?"
...which leads me to believe...
- that the population of the planet may very soon come to a screeching halt then decline then extinction if this epidemic keeps spreading
- or that some guys expect that a brief/lazy profile and intro gaurentees a stampede of women of biblical proportions to form an orderly queue right outside their front door
- that instead of going through similar past forum posts, guys reckon posting here is a sure fire strategy to increase chances of that ever elusive first meet
- or that there's a feck load of guys here who are genuinely clueless & are willing to read, learn and then apply any sound advice that's been given to them
...Fabbers, what's your views on this?
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"Most men come to fab thinking bring on the easy ride and are left disappointed. So then look for attention on forum hoping the women will give them a pity ride "Very true, I have become more involved in the forums myself, interacting on threads, etc. It's a great way to interact with fellow fabbers and it's good fun too | |||
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hang in there guys. Be polite interact on the fourms. One word "banter" the lady's like an aul laugh and a bit of Craic. Works for me | |||
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It’s not always their message that grabs attention albeit it does help but if they’ve spent time developing their profile showing what they’re interests are and likes that will grab me more with the simple hey how are u message therefor they don’t have to waste so much time putting individual messages together with no luck.
And becomes less a copy and paste job! | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check "Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check
Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic "It was in all those pics I sent you... Get a magnifying glass and have another look  | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check
Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic
It was in all those pics I sent you... Get a magnifying glass and have another look "Its so much bigger then that.. sure you've a sky remote | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check
Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic
It was in all those pics I sent you... Get a magnifying glass and have another look
Its so much bigger then that.. sure you've a sky remote "It's only a mini sky remote | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check
Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic
It was in all those pics I sent you... Get a magnifying glass and have another look
Its so much bigger then that.. sure you've a sky remote
It's only a mini sky remote "Ffs you had me fooled.... sure your not a grower | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check
Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic
It was in all those pics I sent you... Get a magnifying glass and have another look
Its so much bigger then that.. sure you've a sky remote
It's only a mini sky remote
Ffs you had me fooled.... sure your not a grower "Oh yes, mostly my belly and my pubic wool | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check
Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic
It was in all those pics I sent you... Get a magnifying glass and have another look
Its so much bigger then that.. sure you've a sky remote
It's only a mini sky remote
Ffs you had me fooled.... sure your not a grower
Oh yes, mostly my belly and my pubic wool "Ohh hairball ...yummy | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check
Im dribbling here ... wheres my cock pic
It was in all those pics I sent you... Get a magnifying glass and have another look
Its so much bigger then that.. sure you've a sky remote
It's only a mini sky remote
Ffs you had me fooled.... sure your not a grower
Oh yes, mostly my belly and my pubic wool
Ohh hairball ...yummy "It's like going down on a sheep. Good times! | |||
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""Hi Fabbers, I put words in my profile like "genuine" "discrete" & "nice guy" in the two lines that passes as my profile. I then took a pic of my belly in tracky bottoms in front of the tv with a beer & sent pics of my package to the women and couples
with the caption "Hi, how r u?"
...but alas no response
...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG???"
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"I'm starting to feel inadequate because I don't have sky "You can just buy a remote without the whole package if you'll pardon the pun. | |||
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""Hi Fabbers, I put words in my profile like "genuine" "discrete" & "nice guy" in the two lines that passes as my profile. I then took a pic of my belly in tracky bottoms in front of the tv with a beer & sent pics of my package to the women and couples
with the caption "Hi, how r u?"
...but alas no response
...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG???"
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You're supposed to say
Hi hu r u, Wana fuck?
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"I'm starting to feel inadequate because I don't have sky
You can just buy a remote without the whole package if you'll pardon the pun. "That's true! Where would we be without you Mick? | |||
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"I'm starting to feel inadequate because I don't have sky
You can just buy a remote without the whole package if you'll pardon the pun.
That's true! Where would we be without you Mick? "Men with micropenises can be very inventive. | |||
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"I'm starting to feel inadequate because I don't have sky
You can just buy a remote without the whole package if you'll pardon the pun.
That's true! Where would we be without you Mick?
Men with micropenises can be very inventive. "That's called a clit | |||
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""Hi Fabbers, I put words in my profile like "genuine" "discrete" & "nice guy" in the two lines that passes as my profile. I then took a pic of my belly in tracky bottoms in front of the tv with a beer & sent pics of my package to the women and couples
with the caption "Hi, how r u?"
...but alas no response
...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG???"
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You're supposed to say
Hi hu r u, Wana fuck?
You had me at Hi..... "Works 90% of the time ... All the time
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"Ah Tim but not everyone can recylce poetry like you do lol what’s your hit rate with that 1/10
It’s not always their message that grabs attention albeit it does help but if they’ve spent time developing their profile showing what they’re interests are and likes that will grab me more with the simple hey how are u message therefor they don’t have to waste so much time putting individual messages together with no luck.
And becomes less a copy and paste job!"--------------------------- Unless your day job is in comedy, I wouldn't quit it just yet The reason I write poetry on KIk is to make someone smile and not to get laid...
Big difference there ... | |||
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"Ah Tim but not everyone can recylce poetry like you do lol what’s your hit rate with that 1/10
It’s not always their message that grabs attention albeit it does help but if they’ve spent time developing their profile showing what they’re interests are and likes that will grab me more with the simple hey how are u message therefor they don’t have to waste so much time putting individual messages together with no luck.
And becomes less a copy and paste job!
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Unless your day job is in comedy, I wouldn't quit it just yet The reason I write poetry on KIk is to make someone smile and not to get laid...
Big difference there ..."Habe to say Tims poems make me smile. Tim you should post some | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check "you missed the photos with the socks on always a turn on and a messy background on the floor | |||
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"Ah Tim but not everyone can recylce poetry like you do lol what’s your hit rate with that 1/10
It’s not always their message that grabs attention albeit it does help but if they’ve spent time developing their profile showing what they’re interests are and likes that will grab me more with the simple hey how are u message therefor they don’t have to waste so much time putting individual messages together with no luck.
And becomes less a copy and paste job!
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Unless your day job is in comedy, I wouldn't quit it just yet The reason I write poetry on KIk is to make someone smile and not to get laid...
Big difference there ..."I'm smiling.. | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check you missed the photos with the socks on always a turn on and a messy background on the floor "Damn! That must be why you never replied. Ok, I'll get that over to you straight away | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack." ----------- Not a fan of coffee veris myself... ...but do get a laugh when either tries to imply that sex was involved when all it was was just coffee & a chat | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check "All of the above.... guaranteed success | |||
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"Some men join this site in the mistaken belief that this is an NSA sex site. It's not. This is a swingers site, that subtle difference seems to have been lost on the single guys. MrN" With respect, what is the difference? | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack." To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be. | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be." Hard to disagree with that observation. | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be. Hard to disagree with that observation. " | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be." Couldnt agree more... for me veris mean they turn up and they're real. No one will post he'd a small cock and his tongue couldn't find a beer in a brewery | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be. Couldnt agree more... for me veris mean they turn up and they're real. No one will post he'd a small cock and his tongue couldn't find a beer in a brewery "I agree with the latter but it's easy enough to recognise a good veri from a mainstream one. | |||
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""Hi Fabbers, I put words in my profile like "genuine" "discrete" & "nice guy" in the two lines that passes as my profile. I then took a pic of my belly in tracky bottoms in front of the tv with a beer & sent pics of my package to the women and couples
with the caption "Hi, how r u?"
...but alas no response
...WHAT AM I DOING WRONG???"
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I don't know about you but there seems to be a gargantuan amount of single guys on the forums lately who can't seem to get a meet who are creating forum threads with "what am I doing wrong?"
...which leads me to believe...
- that the population of the planet may very soon come to a screeching halt then decline then extinction if this epidemic keeps spreading
- or that some guys expect that a brief/lazy profile and intro gaurentees a stampede of women of biblical proportions to form an orderly queue right outside their front door
- that instead of going through similar past forum posts, guys reckon posting here is a sure fire strategy to increase chances of that ever elusive first meet
- or that there's a feck load of guys here who are genuinely clueless & are willing to read, learn and then apply any sound advice that's been given to them
...Fabbers, what's your views on this?
"I tried to help a dublin guy that put a post up here recently saying he is leaving if he does'nt get a meet. I gave him a chance when i was in Dublin for a social on the Sunday ... take a wild guess what happened . | |||
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"I have to admit I was guilty of posting on the forums after not really using the site very well for about a year. I did genuinely seek advice and I have tried to use that advice and become more active in the forums and tried to get involved in a meet and greet I still find it difficult to get more than a brief hello but I now enjoy the site for the craic in the forums. Seems my final hurdle is getting an actual meet and verification but I'm happy to wait and I'm sure it will happen. Patience is a virtue im told." I was on here for a while about two years ago. There was a forum thread about how long it was since you last met and had sex with someone on here. I was amazed at how many active forum members said years or never. | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be." Very true | |||
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"Here’s how I feel about the messages coming to my inbox! And I mean some days I’d log out for a few hours and have 20 + messages when I log back in! I’m in no rush and therefore I’m in no rush to answer! Well first off, cool it with the dick pics! One is enough if it must be sent! Stop looking for nude pics in the first message! You won’t be getting any then! Keep ur mobile number to yourself til a meet arranged! If ur told “im not interested in text sex” don’t reply with “I’d love to be sticking my fingers in ur pussy” Don’t send 40 more messages when u don’t get an immediate reply! Women are getting hit with messages in here constantly! Don’t get thick when we don’t reply! Obviously we’re either not interested or are chatting to someone else! On a last note, I agree with the earlier statement: it’s a swinging site but single men want to use it for single hook ups! And when I point This out, I get attacked!! This is how I feel!! "Out of interest, what in your mind do you understand the concept of swinging to mean? | |||
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"Here’s how I feel about the messages coming to my inbox! And I mean some days I’d log out for a few hours and have 20 + messages when I log back in! I’m in no rush and therefore I’m in no rush to answer! Well first off, cool it with the dick pics! One is enough if it must be sent! Stop looking for nude pics in the first message! You won’t be getting any then! Keep ur mobile number to yourself til a meet arranged! If ur told “im not interested in text sex” don’t reply with “I’d love to be sticking my fingers in ur pussy” Don’t send 40 more messages when u don’t get an immediate reply! Women are getting hit with messages in here constantly! Don’t get thick when we don’t reply! Obviously we’re either not interested or are chatting to someone else! On a last note, I agree with the earlier statement: it’s a swinging site but single men want to use it for single hook ups! And when I point This out, I get attacked!! This is how I feel!! "You are lucky u get any messages no profile pic no ordinary pics no veries no effort put into your profile why would guys send messages | |||
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But as I said, I’m in no rush so when I’m ready I’ll put up pics, set meets etc! And get the profile up to date! | |||
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"Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ??" But your profile is a single female (!!!!!)? So why did you join the site? | |||
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"Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ?? But your profile is a single female (!!!!!)? So why did you join the site? " | |||
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"Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ?? But your profile is a single female (!!!!!)? So why did you join the site? " It was set up quickly to check out the site as it was highly recommended by another swinger! But I will go back over it and sort the check boxes. Yes I’m single! I joined to swing! | |||
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"Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ?? But your profile is a single female (!!!!!)? So why did you join the site? It was set up quickly to check out the site as it was highly recommended by another swinger! But I will go back over it and sort the check boxes. Yes I’m single! I joined to swing! "Well there really is only one "box" you have to check, you are single. Put simply, that by definition and in accordance to your earlier post, means you shouldn't be on this site. Rem it's a swinging site..... you said it. | |||
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"Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ?? But your profile is a single female (!!!!!)? So why did you join the site? It was set up quickly to check out the site as it was highly recommended by another swinger! But I will go back over it and sort the check boxes. Yes I’m single! I joined to swing!
Well there really is only one "box" you have to check, you are single. Put simply, that by definition and in accordance to your earlier post, means you shouldn't be on this site. Rem it's a swinging site..... you said it. "But then I also explained what I thought swinging was "Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ??" Couples and singles! | |||
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"Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ?? But your profile is a single female (!!!!!)? So why did you join the site? It was set up quickly to check out the site as it was highly recommended by another swinger! But I will go back over it and sort the check boxes. Yes I’m single! I joined to swing!
Well there really is only one "box" you have to check, you are single. Put simply, that by definition and in accordance to your earlier post, means you shouldn't be on this site. Rem it's a swinging site..... you said it.
But then I also explained what I thought swinging was
Where couples meet other couples and singles for sexual adventures! ??
Couples and singles! "And these "sexual adventures" go beyond what you consider to be NSA? Am genuinely just curious as to your original post/ view. | |||
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"Cock pics are the way forward. I consider it a bad day if I haven't sent at least 50. Toilet bowl.. Check Brown trout.. Check Sky remote.. Check Miniature lynx can.. Check you missed the photos with the socks on always a turn on and a messy background on the floor
Damn! That must be why you never replied.
Ok, I'll get that over to you straight away "haha love it | |||
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"Here’s how I feel about the messages coming to my inbox! And I mean some days I’d log out for a few hours and have 20 + messages when I log back in! I’m in no rush and therefore I’m in no rush to answer! Well first off, cool it with the dick pics! One is enough if it must be sent! Stop looking for nude pics in the first message! You won’t be getting any then! Keep ur mobile number to yourself til a meet arranged! If ur told “im not interested in text sex” don’t reply with “I’d love to be sticking my fingers in ur pussy” Don’t send 40 more messages when u don’t get an immediate reply! Women are getting hit with messages in here constantly! Don’t get thick when we don’t reply! Obviously we’re either not interested or are chatting to someone else! On a last note, I agree with the earlier statement: it’s a swinging site but single men want to use it for single hook ups! And when I point This out, I get attacked!! This is how I feel!!
You are lucky u get any messages no profile pic no ordinary pics no veries no effort put into your profile why would guys send messages "I get tons of messages and have no pics up thats statement not true | |||
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"Here’s how I feel about the messages coming to my inbox! And I mean some days I’d log out for a few hours and have 20 + messages when I log back in! I’m in no rush and therefore I’m in no rush to answer! Well first off, cool it with the dick pics! One is enough if it must be sent! Stop looking for nude pics in the first message! You won’t be getting any then! Keep ur mobile number to yourself til a meet arranged! If ur told “im not interested in text sex” don’t reply with “I’d love to be sticking my fingers in ur pussy” Don’t send 40 more messages when u don’t get an immediate reply! Women are getting hit with messages in here constantly! Don’t get thick when we don’t reply! Obviously we’re either not interested or are chatting to someone else! On a last note, I agree with the earlier statement: it’s a swinging site but single men want to use it for single hook ups! And when I point This out, I get attacked!! This is how I feel!!
You are lucky u get any messages no profile pic no ordinary pics no veries no effort put into your profile why would guys send messages
I get tons of messages and have no pics up thats statement not true "I am just saying what would be said to a guy on here says a lot for guys on here | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be." I don't just read the verifications of the who has messaged me but also the reviews of the verifiers themselves. But I wonder... if you only go by profile blurbs, pics and bland or convenient "buddy" veris... then how much time do you have to waste on mails and real-time chat? | |||
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And no... it's not displayed on my profile either. | |||
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"well put Bunny but veris are a bit like racing form ... you wouldnt place a bet with knowing the form ..but on occasion a rank outsider performs well ... & we all started without veris & someone kindly gave us a start "I've bet or gambled on anything... or played the lotto... guess that says more about me not willing to take unnecessary risks with no chance of reward! I'm more of the view that fab veris are like tripadvisor or Google reviews... highly subjective but still worth a second look. | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be." Veries are totally useless, 100% of them are made by the Random Verification Generator app. Look at them, everyone is genuine, down to the earth, with excellent oral abilities, and looking for the 2nd round, with the good advice of don't pass the chance to meet her/him. Never read in any veries like room was booked, but he/she's got so wasted in the bar, I was spending all night with bringing him/her back from the dead. Or like she was late an hour, he was nice but wasn't able to build a boner. So I don't read them anymore, just take a look on the verifier to see what taste she has. | |||
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"I dunno why some of the girls replying to this lad are making fun of him. He just wants a bit of help. That's the trouble with us all. We say we are good listeners and we are willing to help. But when it comes to the crunch are we? This thread proves we're less than helpful. " Making fun of who? | |||
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"I have to admit I was guilty of posting on the forums after not really using the site very well for about a year. I did genuinely seek advice and I have tried to use that advice and become more active in the forums and tried to get involved in a meet and greet I still find it difficult to get more than a brief hello but I now enjoy the site for the craic in the forums. Seems my final hurdle is getting an actual meet and verification but I'm happy to wait and I'm sure it will happen. Patience is a virtue im told. I was on here for a while about two years ago. There was a forum thread about how long it was since you last met and had sex with someone on here. I was amazed at how many active forum members said years or never. " Years?? Wow! Thankfully I can still find willing females in ordinary circumstances otherwise a couple of years without a meet might feel like a wasted endeavour! | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be. Veries are totally useless, 100% of them are made by the Random Verification Generator app. Look at them, everyone is genuine, down to the earth, with excellent oral abilities, and looking for the 2nd round, with the good advice of don't pass the chance to meet her/him. Never read in any veries like room was booked, but he/she's got so wasted in the bar, I was spending all night with bringing him/her back from the dead. Or like she was late an hour, he was nice but wasn't able to build a boner. So I don't read them anymore, just take a look on the verifier to see what taste she has. " ---------------------- Granted... sexual creative licence is used sparingly in many a veri here but here's where veris can be useful... - First, veris can reveal a common theme i.e do a few seperate people mention that he or she is polite, well groomed, chatty or a genuine nice semi-normal person?
- Veris also reveal any kinks or sexual practices that a guy or woman prefers (sensual massage... dress up... tie up BDSM , extreme etc)
- Maybe you yourself know the person writing the veri personally and yes, they may be telling it as it is Also, if you both have a mutual Fab friend, the chances of one cancelling on the other tends to be reduced significantly (I've found)
So, although veris can't reveal how good someone is in bed, they serve a purpose & give an inkling of what's in store
...and that can be a very good thing! | |||
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"To be fair, some of the women's profiles reads like a laundry list of don'ts followed by a terabyte of useless trivia. Then there's the 50 coffee-meet veris... another pet peeve of mine. I don't *care* if he showed up at Costa on time... I just wanna know if he's good in the sack. To be fair veries aren't intended to tell you whether a man/woman is good in the sack. Who's going to display a veri that says they're crap anyway! Just because a woman claims to have been more than satisfied with the company of some man doesn't mean every woman he meets will be. Very true "Very true ... not every one has the same taste in sex ... | |||
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"People come on here for all sorts of different reasons, parties, to make friends, post in forums, look at pics, display pics, read stories, pass the time in work, to feel less isolated, to explore their gender,their sexuality, to save their marriage and a million more reasons I don't even understand........these people make fab..... ....and then there's the quick fuck guys, the keyboard warriors, the sneaker males, the creeps, the immatures, cry babies, the list of demands people and a billion more....these peopke also make fab.... ...cause if you don't know the bad, how are you ever going to recognise the good? " | |||
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"People come on here for all sorts of different reasons, parties, to make friends, post in forums, look at pics, display pics, read stories, pass the time in work, to feel less isolated, to explore their gender,their sexuality, to save their marriage and a million more reasons I don't even understand........these people make fab..... ....and then there's the quick fuck guys, the keyboard warriors, the sneaker males, the creeps, the immatures, cry babies, the list of demands people and a billion more....these peopke also make fab.... ...cause if you don't know the bad, how are you ever going to recognise the good? " You know what that makes sense... those ive met are great people. We've had great times. No ones ever going to meet an ass. Like your mindset | |||
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