FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Sex but nothing in common

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're only meeting for sex then that's all you need to have in common. If it's a date or whatever then there's no point leading her on just to get your way. But if she's game ball for just NSA fun then nothing to worry about. Go enjoy it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh shes left me in no doubt its just sex. She even suggested the room

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Tbh OP personally I couldn't have sex if there was no chemistry. When you have sex you want it to be great not just a wham bam

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your heart man!!! Your head will always say sex!!! U need some attraction

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

If i had no connection with anyone to me the sex is cold and I certainly wouldn't enjoy. Part of the meet is the build up the anticipation. Nothing in common is a huge turn off..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was obviously discussed as the room is arranged so both involved know what the outcome is.

Not like she shall be confessing her undying love for you darling.

If you have reservations discuss it with her to settle yourself.

Go and enjoy.

Psyche (f)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah sure look op, give me the room number and I'll fill in for you. I'm nice like that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

I.like a connection make it more fun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool"
if she is that uninspiring save money on the room and have a wank lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do u want another guy to join ye.. maybe that would break the nothing in common just sex factor..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Is it good sex Op???

...and if so why is your heart saying it's wrong??

Never look a gift clit in your mouth!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah sure look op, give me the room number and I'll fill in for you. I'm nice like that. "

Good man

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Do you not have sex in common?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to feel a connection with people, but I also like the anonymous club sex we sometimes have.

Everyone is different but why pass up an experience?

Sam

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed "

-----------

Love it when you talk pushing boundaries

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

As they say up north... "get her bucked!"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed

-----------

Love it when you talk pushing boundaries "

Love them been pushed tim

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed

-----------

Love it when you talk pushing boundaries

Love them been pushed tim "

----------------------------

Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed

-----------

Love it when you talk pushing boundaries

Love them been pushed tim

----------------------------

Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady "

My pleasure Tim

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed

-----------

Love it when you talk pushing boundaries

Love them been pushed tim

----------------------------

Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady

My pleasure Tim "

--------------------

Sorry about this Fabbers...

Both looking for that proverbial room

right now!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed

-----------

Love it when you talk pushing boundaries

Love them been pushed tim

----------------------------

Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady

My pleasure Tim

--------------------

Sorry about this Fabbers...

Both looking for that proverbial room

right now! "

Found it ....come in

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Sometimes you dont need to share a love of cookery, yoga and good literature. Sometimes its just about the sexual chemistry.

Your both consenting adults see what happens. Sometimes these kind of "relstionships" can be the most powerfull, you can learn alot.

If i was you and the desire was there I'd go witb it. Never know what boundries might be pushed

-----------

Love it when you talk pushing boundaries

Love them been pushed tim

----------------------------

Just let me do the pushing then sassy lady

My pleasure Tim

--------------------

Sorry about this Fabbers...

Both looking for that proverbial room

right now! "

Try airbnb or boocking.com they have apartments going at good rates

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

You can find out so much more about a person when you are skin on skin. You might think now you have nothing in common but I'm sure you'll share more than a sense of humour.I'll be surprised if you don't learn a whole lot more from an older lady who's sexually confident. If I were you I'd definitely meet her and hopefully you'll post a thread on how good a meet it was.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and see what happens, you might be surprised at what you discover about each other, try to put it to back of mind about lack of things in common and just enjoy the experience...it might just be the start of something fun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lurrynfeeCouple
over a year ago

donegal

Question 1 is

Is she single or married ?

If playing away from home don't get your self involved ..if single go with ur heart...and connection is important

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

If you are just meeting for sex then I can't really see why you would need to have things in common...other than mutual attraction and being able to chat etc which you obviously must have to have made arrangements

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Just go for it!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool"

why are you on Fab if you are not up for NSA sex ... an older womsn and nsa sex is that not the male fantasy ..

grow a pair, msn up & give here a great time.

lots of guys here would take your place

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

There has to be chemistry for me to have sex . Enjoy yourself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be chemistry of some sort to make a meet enjoyable for me. If you both are flirting and building up to the meet, chances are it will be good and could lead to much more. People both don't need to be on fab to have good sex. Lol

If its a 'sure lets do it' in a half hearted way....don't do it as believe me its so not worth it.

Always trust your gut feeling!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *earlaitCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Another single guy getting a touch of cold feet perhaps ???? Lol!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

Always trust your gut feeling!

"

That's my pet name for sex due to the enormous size of my incredibly attractive cock.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a meet next week with an older woman, 10 years older. She's not a fab member which makes no difference but putting it in so you know im not talking about someone here. The problem is that we have nothing in common except for the sex and there's a room booked. Should I go ahead with it or leave it. My heart is saying it's wrong and head is saying have sex you fool"

I think you have already answered your question don't you think by simply having to ask the question.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Always trust your gut feeling!

That's my pet name for sex due to the enormous size of my incredibly attractive cock. "

Prove it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

Always trust your gut feeling!

That's my pet name for sex due to the enormous size of my incredibly attractive cock.

Prove it "

Oops

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top