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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys I'm on here long time now and my 2nd time around I've pics up and always send a pic with my msgs but still can't get meets are invited to socials does plp not meet each other anymore off this site are is it just me and also alot of fakes on it got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same. Very hard to get verified if women won't talk for whatever reason....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the same. Very hard to get verified if women won't talk for whatever reason...."

Put some public pics up . Zero chance otherwise . And as for “no one has the right to use my pictures “.... what pictures lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have private pics....friends only ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel the same. Very hard to get verified if women won't talk for whatever reason....

Put some public pics up . Zero chance otherwise . And as for “no one has the right to use my pictures “.... what pictures lol"

Agreed...you really need to get some public pics up, tasteful ones tend to work best OP

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"I feel the same. Very hard to get verified if women won't talk for whatever reason....

Put some public pics up . Zero chance otherwise . And as for “no one has the right to use my pictures “.... what pictures lol

Agreed...you really need to get some public pics up, tasteful ones tend to work best OP "

Totally agree at least put up one tasteful pic..best of luck OP

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid


"I feel the same. Very hard to get verified if women won't talk for whatever reason....

Put some public pics up . Zero chance otherwise . And as for “no one has the right to use my pictures “.... what pictures lol

Agreed...you really need to get some public pics up, tasteful ones tend to work best OP

Totally agree at least put up one tasteful pic..best of luck OP "

Cock pics taken in the bath room go down rather well so I heard

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"I feel the same. Very hard to get verified if women won't talk for whatever reason....

Put some public pics up . Zero chance otherwise . And as for “no one has the right to use my pictures “.... what pictures lol

Agreed...you really need to get some public pics up, tasteful ones tend to work best OP

Totally agree at least put up one tasteful pic..best of luck OP

Cock pics taken in the bath room go down rather well so I heard

"

Make sure the loo is in view and clearly has the seat up. Drives them bonkers with lust.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I feel the same. Very hard to get verified if women won't talk for whatever reason....

Put some public pics up . Zero chance otherwise . And as for “no one has the right to use my pictures “.... what pictures lol

Agreed...you really need to get some public pics up, tasteful ones tend to work best OP

Totally agree at least put up one tasteful pic..best of luck OP

Cock pics taken in the bath room go down rather well so I heard

"

Bonus points for a brown trout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen lads its not a coincidence that people with no profile pictures have ZERO luck on here,put some effort into your profiles and youll find people more welcoming when you message..for the most part anyways

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

It’s definitely tough for the single men on here, but read the profile before getting in touch and keep at it is my advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys thanks for the advice I dud had a profile pic up and it didn't help so took it down again so not sure what to do I know it's not easy for us guys on this but didn't think it would be this hard to get a meet are get involved and maybe asked to a meet and greet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys thanks for the advice I dud had a profile pic up and it didn't help so took it down again so not sure what to do I know it's not easy for us guys on this but didn't think it would be this hard to get a meet are get involved and maybe asked to a meet and greet"

Well OP you've already had a verification which is good, consider putting back up a tasteful profile pic and maybe write a bit more about yourself in your profile text. Also look back on the messages you are sending out too. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys thanks for the advice I dud had a profile pic up and it didn't help so took it down again so not sure what to do I know it's not easy for us guys on this but didn't think it would be this hard to get a meet are get involved and maybe asked to a meet and greet"

I no how you feel I think I’ll be deleting my profile soon it’s very hard to be honest better of going out to a club and you will find a woman this is very hard

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Hey guys thanks for the advice I dud had a profile pic up and it didn't help so took it down again so not sure what to do I know it's not easy for us guys on this but didn't think it would be this hard to get a meet are get involved and maybe asked to a meet and greet

I no how you feel I think I’ll be deleting my profile soon it’s very hard to be honest better of going out to a club and you will find a woman this is very hard "

The ladies will like that last bit

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By *wing a ding dingWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

Just don't give up so easily. Put a sexy pic up as your profile pic, e.g. open shirt and a loose tie. When messaging introduce yourself, be fun and flirty and quote something from her profile so she knows you have bothered to read it. Be patient and don't be a Dick. If she's not messaged you try again with a quick "follow up" message saying you understand that she's probably bombarded etc. Don't be pushy or rude and remember to be fun and as witty as you can. Us girls love a laugh. We also like when you make a proper effort to say hello. Hope this helps you a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't give up so easily. Put a sexy pic up as your profile pic, e.g. open shirt and a loose tie. When messaging introduce yourself, be fun and flirty and quote something from her profile so she knows you have bothered to read it. Be patient and don't be a Dick. If she's not messaged you try again with a quick "follow up" message saying you understand that she's probably bombarded etc. Don't be pushy or rude and remember to be fun and as witty as you can. Us girls love a laugh. We also like when you make a proper effort to say hello. Hope this helps you a bit "

Good advice right here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't give up so easily. Put a sexy pic up as your profile pic, e.g. open shirt and a loose tie. When messaging introduce yourself, be fun and flirty and quote something from her profile so she knows you have bothered to read it. Be patient and don't be a Dick. If she's not messaged you try again with a quick "follow up" message saying you understand that she's probably bombarded etc. Don't be pushy or rude and remember to be fun and as witty as you can. Us girls love a laugh. We also like when you make a proper effort to say hello. Hope this helps you a bit "

This a million times

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Your only trouble here is that there are a finite number of women on this site. Yes people join every now and again but it isn’t like other dating sites where tons of new people join daily.

So you really have limited number of shots in here, so you must make every attempt feel look or it is your last.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advice guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm on here long time now and my 2nd time around I've pics up and always send a pic with my msgs but still can't get meets are invited to socials does plp not meet each other anymore off this site are is it just me and also alot of fakes on it got "

You can't get a meet but yet u have a verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't give up so easily. Put a sexy pic up as your profile pic, e.g. open shirt and a loose tie. When messaging introduce yourself, be fun and flirty and quote something from her profile so she knows you have bothered to read it. Be patient and don't be a Dick. If she's not messaged you try again with a quick "follow up" message saying you understand that she's probably bombarded etc. Don't be pushy or rude and remember to be fun and as witty as you can. Us girls love a laugh. We also like when you make a proper effort to say hello. Hope this helps you a bit

This a million times "

A Zillion times

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By *wing a ding dingWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow


"Hey guys I'm on here long time now and my 2nd time around I've pics up and always send a pic with my msgs but still can't get meets are invited to socials does plp not meet each other anymore off this site are is it just me and also alot of fakes on it got

You can't get a meet but yet u have a verification "

Still not taken any advice yet either .... hmmmmmmm .... the mind boggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it

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