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By *he rover returned OP Woman
over a year ago

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So if we get abusive messages are we not allowed to discuss it here?? Its a serious issue, is it to be ignored ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like it rover. Anything bad harmless shite talk is a no-no

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By *he rover returned OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Looks like it rover. Anything bad harmless shite talk is a no-no"

So men or women reciving tbese messages cant reach out for support. For some these messages are traumatic and we cant support one another ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive messages should be reported, the profile blocked - and move on.

Discussing private mail on the Forum is not allowed.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've to admit I found it rather bizarre that your last thread was closed down. It should be possible to discuss such issue. I think the trick is to leave out fab admin. They do what they can do in their remits.

Op, not that I condone abuse but it's very advisable to grow a thick skin here,most of them are just keyboard warriors and the best is to laugh them of. As long as they don't know who you are, they are just shooting holes into the air. Best is to stay calm, polite and distant. Don't get drawn into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks like it rover. Anything bad harmless shite talk is a no-no

So men or women reciving tbese messages cant reach out for support. For some these messages are traumatic and we cant support one another ?? "

I guess because it's against forum rules to discuss private messages.

I don't think a thread about it solves anything anyway. If they need support they can always mail their friends on the site.

Best thing to do is report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did they say that's so traumatic is it not usual shite most them come out with lol

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By *he rover returned OP Woman
over a year ago

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"What did they say that's so traumatic is it not usual shite most them come out with lol "

I wont repeat as its contrary to the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you keep crying wolf.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"So if we get abusive messages are we not allowed to discuss it here?? Its a serious issue, is it to be ignored ??"

No and no

It isn't allowed to be discussed on the forum as the forum rules say.

It isn't ignored if you report it no

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

In case anyone wants to read them

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