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By *raleebi OP   Man
over a year ago

tralee

Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does she think that is a present unless he and his future wife are into swapping and swinging

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By *raleebi OP   Man
over a year ago

tralee


"How does she think that is a present unless he and his future wife are into swapping and swinging "

Yes can see your point.But if he is keen what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a pretty shitty thing to do myself, you're placing him in an potentially awkward situation and it's utterly disrespectful to his partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing is to bring it up in front of his partner, and if you don't think that's a good idea....

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By *lan5200Man
over a year ago

cavan

I doubt she’ll be your girlfriend for much longer when she’s suggesting stuff like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously ??? No, I would say NO, scrap that idea...unless of course his bride to be was secretly responsible for the deaths of your GF's entire family, and the groom is actually someone you hate and your only pretending to be his friend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does she think that is a present unless he and his future wife are into swapping and swinging

Yes can see your point.But if he is keen what do you think?"

If he is keen and you can face his wife at a wedding a few days later I'd question his decency and why he is even getting married to someone he can deceive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does she think that is a present unless he and his future wife are into swapping and swinging

Yes can see your point.But if he is keen what do you think?

If he is keen and you can face his wife at a wedding a few days later I'd question his decency and why he is even getting married to someone he can deceive "

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

After the wedding-

Wife- paddy and Mary never gave us a wedding gift

Husband- oh they did

Wife- really? What did they get us?

Husband- oh.......erm..... doesn't matter. But it was very thoughtful. They've promised the same for our anniversaries, but don't you be worrying about that.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

This is a very bad idea can't even believe you are seriously thinking about this what about his poor wife to be have you even stopped to consider her feelings wouldn't be much of a wedding present for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If his future wife isn't aware of this then it's an absolutely terrible idea and I'd question your girlfriend for even suggesting something like that behind someone's back. Only a shitty person would do that. Thats if the future wife is unaware. Sounds like a destructive person.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I always thought a wedding gift is for both. What does the bride get out of it? Especially when it's done behind her back. Also not nice to put the groom into such situation. Seriously op, it's a rubbish idea.

If your girlfriend is longing for a 3sum arrange one for her on here.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated"

Bonkers totally bonkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Go back to sleep and try and change the dream

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By *s24u!Couple
over a year ago

Limerick

That is awful, don't do that. And question why your gf has suggested it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated"

Shitty idea old stock although there's worse ideas for wedding presents for your mates, I'm sure there's quite alot of people here on fab that would receive your gift with open arms apart from all of the morally correct ones

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By *cobieeMan
over a year ago

Meath

Very bad idea OP....If your wife wants a 3some,arrange it here online.....don't mess about with your best mate...have some sense ffs......do the right thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated"

Hell no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that would be acting the bollocks

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By *rossflow daveMan
over a year ago

Mullingar

Op how did you ever pan out with your other single friend that wanted to shag your gf ?

Seems like a much simpler solution to me !

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

...just get him a toaster like the rest of us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I've really heard it all

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"...just get him a toaster like the rest of us.. "
Tut tut....I resemble that remark !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a pretty shitty thing to do myself, you're placing him in an potentially awkward situation and it's utterly disrespectful to his partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated"
your joking right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that your gf wants to fuck your mate and she came up with this way idea so she gets to fuck him without cheating on you with him

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

...is this a gift for your mate or your gf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that your gf wants to fuck your mate and she came up with this way idea so she gets to fuck him without cheating on you with him"

Think you are right!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


" ...is this a gift for your mate or your gf.

"
if your gf is into swinging and threesum why not let her join the site and find someone that's not your mate and about to get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that your gf wants to fuck your mate and she came up with this way idea so she gets to fuck him without cheating on you with him

Think you are right! "
Well she is the sensible one out of the two of us lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems to me that your gf wants to fuck your mate and she came up with this way idea so she gets to fuck him without cheating on you with him"
Think your right chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How exactly you gonna ask him on I know your getting married but do you want fuck my girlfriend as wedding gift lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a couple profile already so why mess around with ur best friend when they is plenty of guys here willing to give it a go.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Methinks your gf has an ulterior motive, and is lusting after the groom. ....No, it will end in tears. Best pass on this one.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated"

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Just looked at your preferences here...

Now to clarify is this "gift" a gift for the groom, your girlfriend or yourself?

I think it's a great idea Op

Go for it and tell us how you got on

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated"

Does it cum with a gift receipt?? Just in case his new wife doesn't like it and wants to swap

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By *aneMarpleWoman
over a year ago

dublin


"Seriously ??? No, I would say NO, scrap that idea...unless of course his bride to be was secretly responsible for the deaths of your GF's entire family, and the groom is actually someone you hate and your only pretending to be his friend ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll try not to judge your gf as I don't know the girl nor your mate or his bride to be.

On the face of it logic would say it's a bad idea or is there more to the story not being told in the original post.

Your gf may want to just fuck him

She may have poor judgement.

Your mate will be stressed enough and to be honest I can't see this idea working out well even in the situation he did fuck your gf then he would I imagine be riddled with guilt for the rest of his days to do something like that so close to his wedding.

Does his bride to be know you and gf swing and if so what is her opinion on it ?

There are many variable in this discussion and the vast majority point to it being a very very poor idea.

For the sake of a hump you may cost yourself a mate and his marriage.

If you're fine with that as a possible consequence then that's your responsibility.

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By *ampoonerMan
over a year ago

dundrum

Kinda hot scenario in fantasy but the reality would be a nightmare. Best just keep that one in your head haha

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city


"Have a wedding coming up in September and the groom is staying with myself and my girlfriend for a day or two before the wedding she has suggested a threesome with him as a “wedding gift” is it unfair to put him in this position or is it a good idea.

Any help is appreciated"

Why not send your girlfriend to your friends future wife's place in the night .. and you can give him a wedding present yourself..

..lol

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

No don't even think of anything like that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad bad idea. Have you never seen an episode of Don’t tell the bride? That but on speed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's just been a bitch .

She wants her guy that's all that is

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

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over a year ago


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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"Go back to sleep and try and change the dream "

Agreed. I think posts like this are pure fantasy and all in the head of the poster. My theory is that they get a kick out of it somehow by all of us fuelling them with responses. Just a thought.

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By *un for fun.Man
over a year ago

Co.Cork

I'm just wondering if your girlfriend has been with him already & has suggested this to lessen the guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats bad form

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