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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why message someone all day yesterday about meeting and I change my plans and yet no sign off him at the arranged place and low and behold he not online lol grow up be honest ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be a lot of time wasters on here. It happened to me last week aswell. Very annoying....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Waste of time more so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waste of time more so"

There is alot of this going on. I have had a couple and single women do this to me in the past month as well. I tend to arrange meets around something else that I'm doing at the time so if there is a no show then at least it wasn't a no show.

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By *un for fun.Man
over a year ago

Co.Cork

Plenty of this happens unfortunately, just have to put it behind you and move on,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had on c.d emailing me from Galway looking about a meet last week ,I changed my plans for them made myself available,ignored my messages ,a right ignorant twat , I think we should start naming and shaming or a black list button should be on the site so they would be investigated for time wasting , that would get rid of them all.fab is ruined with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye can report for not showing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens unfortunately, just seems to be part of the territory.

I've been lucky overall but it is upsetting to be led on a wild goose chase.

There's more good than bad on fab so it's best not to dwell too long on things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s soooooo frustrating

Tyre kickers I call them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are all meant to be adults here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a nice kick to the confidence when it happens. Esp when they are all over you right up to the meet. But most ppl on here have had it happen unfortunately. Just have to report them for a no show, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s soooooo frustrating

Tyre kickers I call them "
Dickheads we call them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Waste of time more so"
...part of the territory unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s soooooo frustrating

Tyre kickers I call them Dickheads we call them... "

Lol that’s accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some seem to just like the fantasy and then bottle it on the reality....... as everyone keep saying it goes with the territory on here unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club pissed off with them not turning up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things happen.

Had thinks planned and had to cancel the whole lot.

Private life comes first.

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By *leasureGuy17Man
over a year ago

City Center

Can they not be named and shamed ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s soooooo frustrating

Tyre kickers I call them "

I'd like to kick your tyres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things happen.

Had thinks planned and had to cancel the whole lot.

Private life comes first."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's timewasters in every walk of life where you are dealing with strangers...try selling something on done deal..

After a while you can tell most of them but the odd one slips through..

Ya its a balls but I wouldn't waste any more of my time bothering about it.

Genuine things (as in real life stuff) does happen and people get delayed or can change their minds..they are usually courteous and do offer an explanation

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Always make sure the ppl are verified and are willing to swap numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is fantasy versus reality going on with websites like fab.

People who use this website with no intention of ever meeting. The kink of being on a sex site, the 'wild side' ..

Getting complements about your body from strangers bit of course meeting? Geez that's too far.

Same happens on dating websites just minus the kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well verified is the way to go less likely to be a fantasy they're indulging in

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

What's to stop me naming and shaming everyone on this thread for time wasting or worse just because I didn't like you or maybe just because I'm crazy?

My word against yours

So no you can't name or shame anyone here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been lucky enough so far.

Heard some terrible stories and hope it doesnt happen to us.

I do believe there are people who love to be fluffed on here but we don't have the time for that.

Psyche (f)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s soooooo frustrating

Tyre kickers I call them

I'd like to kick your tyres"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple been updating and messaging then when it comes to it nothing. Bugs my happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why message someone all day yesterday about meeting and I change my plans and yet no sign off him at the arranged place and low and behold he not online lol grow up be honest ppl"

There is to much of this going on here ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it will keep going on which is sad. We should know that people have a life outside of fab and a no show can be genuine. Manners cost nothing so a quick ( I can't meet text never hurt anyone ). As we all should definitely know ( at

This stage ) that there are people on here who where never brought up with manners and who don't give a flying fuck about anyone and anything and only care about themselves. On fortunately we as genuine people have to put up with this situation and can only report and block. This is probably why we see so much non replying to messages sent out to other fabbers as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ye can report for not showing up "
what happens to person reported for not showing

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
over a year ago

keady

Sent to jail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sent to jail "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And it will keep going on which is sad. We should know that people have a life outside of fab and a no show can be genuine. Manners cost nothing so a quick ( I can't meet text never hurt anyone ). As we all should definitely know ( at

This stage ) that there are people on here who where never brought up with manners and who don't give a flying fuck about anyone and anything and only care about themselves. On fortunately we as genuine people have to put up with this situation and can only report and block. This is probably why we see so much non replying to messages sent out to other fabbers as well. "

Yep

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We’ve been swinging fior years and have never - repeat NEVER - had a no show.

I guess that’s because we take time to satisfy ourselves about their genuineness before arranging to meet.

Do your homework, set your filters and you’ll drastically lessen the numbers of fantasists annoying you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree wholeheartedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone like reporting anything. Come on grow up.. If the person doesn't show up, may be some unexpected thing happen in his or her life.. Or just block him or her that's your choice..

My advice is to move on and ignore him/her

No need to report the person for God sick

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