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By *odjer More OP   Man
over a year ago

D16

A woman I regularly sleep with suggested we try anal yesterday afternoon , however , obviously it would not fit and initially with lots of lube she realised it would not work we went back to normal sex . She is normally quite sexually shy and not very adventurous so thus was a surprise. Any suggestions on what we could do to make anal work should it happen again ??

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By *odjer More OP   Man
over a year ago

D16

Just realised I have a few spelling and grammar structure issues up there before some smart arse decides to point them out

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Maybe try some anal play when ye have sex, without trying actual anal. Use your tongue and fingers, get her used to feeling something in her ass so that she opens up more naturally. If she's on top have your hand/hands on her ass, work your finger close to her opening and press in when she cums. This can make for a great orgasm and also she will take you in, rather than forcing it in. It might take time, but don't rush anal because one bad experience will be a no-no for good.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"Just realised I have a few spelling and grammar structure issues up there before some smart arse decides to point them out "

Was her arse smarting this morning

I know theirs always one

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Maybe try some anal play when ye have sex, without trying actual anal. Use your tongue and fingers, get her used to feeling something in her ass so that she opens up more naturally. If she's on top have your hand/hands on her ass, work your finger close to her opening and press in when she cums. This can make for a great orgasm and also she will take you in, rather than forcing it in. It might take time, but don't rush anal because one bad experience will be a no-no for good."

I agree. Also if she lies on her side with you behind her she can slide herself onto you, even just your finger so she can feel how to control it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the few times I'm happy to be average lol is when we engage in anal sex...Mrs doesn't get hurt and enjoys herself and I enjoy getting to have anal with her but the same apply's....plenty of tongue & finger play to get her ready first and lube before you go in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clitoral stimulation with anal play relaxes and heightens the experience

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"Clitoral stimulation with anal play relaxes and heightens the experience "

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"Maybe try some anal play when ye have sex, without trying actual anal. Use your tongue and fingers, get her used to feeling something in her ass so that she opens up more naturally. If she's on top have your hand/hands on her ass, work your finger close to her opening and press in when she cums. This can make for a great orgasm and also she will take you in, rather than forcing it in. It might take time, but don't rush anal because one bad experience will be a no-no for good."

she's need to prep for it too otherwise its unlikely to be a very pleasant experience.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Fuck her with a handfull of hair in one hand, and the the thumb of the other hand in her ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck her with a handfull of hair in one hand, and the the thumb of the other hand in her ass."

Sounds ideal!

Also, get her a nice set of training butt plugs.

She’ll be wearing them out and about on the sly in no time I bet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck her with a handfull of hair in one hand, and the the thumb of the other hand in her ass."
Yep it's that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to show her how to warm up for anal sex by using your ass first.. lead by example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to show her how to warm up for anal sex by using your ass first.. lead by example "
Oh the she knows how to warm up....strap on harness with black dildo when she's feeling domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to show her how to warm up for anal sex by using your ass first.. lead by example Oh the she knows how to warm up....strap on harness with black dildo when she's feeling domme "

Oh I love when my bitch (hubby) takes it well

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Hello bum fun for two that's one of my fantasies lol

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By *s24u!Couple
over a year ago

Limerick

I find it easiest when I have cum first (with a butt plug in) so I'm more relaxed, take loads of deep breaths and take it really slow. Lube, lube and more lube, all the lube From there on in it's pure romance.

PS remove but plug first

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By *ey-Enigma2Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Patience is key...and a nice massage of the glutes first too helps!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and working it up slowly as relaxation is key. Takes time before able to enjoy it. Rimming, fingers, and switching to clit play assisted me initally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She needs to be very relaxed because if to tenses up anyway it will really hurt and be very uncomfortable and you will never get near her ass again once the tip is in that's the hardest part and LOADS of lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She needs to be very relaxed because if to tenses up anyway it will really hurt and be very uncomfortable and you will never get near her ass again once the tip is in that's the hardest part and LOADS of lube "
Loads of lube......but you love it really don't ya Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She needs to be very relaxed because if to tenses up anyway it will really hurt and be very uncomfortable and you will never get near her ass again once the tip is in that's the hardest part and LOADS of lube "
And another month b4 I can get near your bum to.... F my life

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By *odjer More OP   Man
over a year ago

D16

Thanks for all the feed back folks !! She texted me this evening saying she would like to try it again so it's lube massages and butt plugs before hand this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the feed back folks !! She texted me this evening saying she would like to try it again so it's lube massages and butt plugs before hand this time "

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