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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I received a message from a guy this morning being rude and abusive, the next message that came was saying that he would love to meet me and that his initial message was a way of trying to get my attention.

Do many guys use this method as a way of trying to chat to girls on here?

This is not the first time it has happened to me. I just don’t understand why they would think that someone would meet them after them calling them names.

Surely it would lead to them being added to people’s block list instead of their hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and report is what i say. Nobody needs to give abusive on here

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Yes I’ve had this quite a few times it only leads to them being blocked !!

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

I never send nasty messages no body in there right mind would . Hope your keeping well miss jiggly say hello to the top dj x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and report is what i say. Nobody needs to give abusive on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a lack of patience, immaturity and a wealth of a sense of entitlement. Probably not a character worthy of a meet by the sounds of it

Being polite, genuine doesn't cost much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just don’t understand the reasoning behind it, it reminds me of kids in the playground and the boys being mean to the girls they like

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By *ewguy555Man
over a year ago

limerick city

You can be polite still doesn't mean you will get a reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They think u will read and reply to the mail if tgey especially rude or smart in it

Has happened me a few times

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Again I'm struggling to find any logic to doing that. What goes through peoples mind's.

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"Again I'm struggling to find any logic to doing that. What goes through peoples mind's. "

Emotional immaturity.

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By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal

I love the 'Oh god, I'd love to meet you, I'd drive all night, I love your pictures, you look amazing' and then when you politely decline for whatever reason they start calling you a slut and a slag and all the usual shite lol then they pop up with the same bullshit first message a week later if you don't block!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would never be rude to anyone . No point it gets you nowhere . My thinking it's always nice to be nice . Could not be any other way .

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath


"I just don’t understand the reasoning behind it, it reminds me of kids in the playground and the boys being mean to the girls they like "

But if the boys pulled your hair in the playground you'd get pissed off, these days you may like it

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx

Theres a bit of this playground tactics going on ... ive decided its good old fashioned attention seeking. Pulling the pigtails syndrome

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

There's a reason we're not in the playground anymore, most of us grew up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do girls or guys really believe " treat em mean to keep em keen" ... to be honest it makes no sense to me .. sending a message is akin to the telephone cold call, for every 10 messages sent there msy be 1 reply & for every 10 replies there may be a coffee meet ... we are trying to sell ourselves ... why would we expect to have any more luck than a telephone sales person...but by being mean why would you have any success

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