FabSwingers.com forum: Why are ex’s the best sex??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So.....I bumped into an old flame, and she was saying her husband was away on a stag and I happened to be home for a few days....she jokingly said bring a bottle of wine....

So I did...and she answered the door just out of the bath not expecting to see me....the rest is history....I left 6 hours later!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not always, people just feel the past was better. She might be the best for you though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all someone else’s ex at some point so...... maybe it’s just the excitement of the situation that makes them more fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're not always, people just feel the past was better. She might be the best for you though. "

Certainly was....I never thought I’d have the balls to go knock on her door but I did it for the fun of it.

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By *andsomeman100Man
over a year ago

Ah sure now...

No! - they are NOT!

No f***ing way. Aggggghhhhhhhh!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We’re all someone else’s ex at some point so...... maybe it’s just the excitement of the situation that makes them more fun!

True that, already thinking about the future.....her idea and not mine is to meet once a year every year and have the glass of wine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No! - they are NOT!

No f***ing way. Aggggghhhhhhhh!!!

??????

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

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Probably because you have some issues around being shy or nervous with new people.

Knowing her helped you be relaxed, and knowing it would be strings free helped you enjoy it.

Although I dunno, cause I have never been with an ex. I think sex for the first time with someone is the best. Unless they are a slut making the rounds, in which case it feels about the same as having a wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably because you have some issues around being shy or nervous with new people.

Knowing her helped you be relaxed, and knowing it would be strings free helped you enjoy it.

Jesus your reading into there buddy, I’m not one bit shy....wish I was sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted about this yesterday. We sometimes see our ex through rose-tinted glasses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag do"

I kind of know him, that is the first thing he went looking for...not a pint

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I posted about this yesterday. We sometimes see our ex through rose-tinted glasses. "

Possibly.....she only got away, cos she was attracted to money at the time!! Ah sure.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I bumped into an ex ... started texting ... we both kinda said to be friends with benefits... he chickened out in last minute... said he couldn't do it as he didn't want to put both of us through pain again or what if he changed his mind down the road he didn't want the benefits ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex's are ex's for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag do

I kind of know him, that is the first thing he went looking for...not a pint "

Thats ok so. Lets hope he never finds out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sex with my ex was far from the best that I've experienced so I'd disagree with the thread title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live and let the world Gone mad anyway ! Some people aren’t happy that’s why it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably because you have some issues around being shy or nervous with new people.

Knowing her helped you be relaxed, and knowing it would be strings free helped you enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag do"
This here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably because you have some issues around being shy or nervous with new people.

Knowing her helped you be relaxed, and knowing it would be strings free helped you enjoy it.

Jesus your reading into there buddy, I’m not one bit shy....wish I was sometimes"
Now you know who to go to if you need your head looked into

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag doThis here

Agree or disagree.....we always sneaked around even after we broke up and she had a new boyfriend....I was living away and anytime I was home we had some fun. She is a poster girl that has it all.....but for me it was great sex and 1 up on her asshole of a husband that I know is fucking all around him....money is a curse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So.....I bumped into an old flame, and she was saying her husband was away on a stag and I happened to be home for a few days....she jokingly said bring a bottle of wine....

So I did...and she answered the door just out of the bath not expecting to see me....the rest is history....I left 6 hours later!!

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I'd rather cut my balls off with barbed wire then have sex with my ex partner....she's an ex for a reasone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was great in bed but his ego was bigger then his cock so I'd rather shag anyone else then him again

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag doThis here

Says more about you thou than him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So.....I bumped into an old flame, and she was saying her husband was away on a stag and I happened to be home for a few days....she jokingly said bring a bottle of wine....

So I did...and she answered the door just out of the bath not expecting to see me....the rest is history....I left 6 hours later!!

Not all ex are the best sex.it could be why they are ex'es now

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

I'd rather Eat my own face than have sex with my ex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag doThis here

Says more about you thou than him"

That’s ok with me....

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"So.....I bumped into an old flame, and she was saying her husband was away on a stag and I happened to be home for a few days....she jokingly said bring a bottle of wine....

So I did...and she answered the door just out of the bath not expecting to see me....the rest is history....I left 6 hours later!!

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6 hours??!!!

...sure your jaw must have been killing you

from all the chatting & talking you both did

What was the wine like??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking is better than sex with my ex...and the silence is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wanking is better than sex with my ex...and the silence is awesome

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

My ex

was so fecking lazy in bed...

I had to fake her orgasms for her

She also said I was "too big" for her

...so I suggested putting it in her other ear"

Ex's are ex's for good reason Fabbers

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Sex with my ex would turn my stomach.....

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Arent you a nice guy hope her husband gets laid on his stag doThis here

Says more about you thou than him

That’s ok with me...."

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"So.....I bumped into an old flame, and she was saying her husband was away on a stag and I happened to be home for a few days....she jokingly said bring a bottle of wine....

So I did...and she answered the door just out of the bath not expecting to see me....the rest is history....I left 6 hours later!!

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6 hours??!!!

...sure your jaw must have been killing you

from all the chatting & talking you both did

What was the wine like??"

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

An ex is an ex for a certain reason . Unless you want to open up old painfull relationships stay clear .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So.....I bumped into an old flame, and she was saying her husband was away on a stag and I happened to be home for a few days....she jokingly said bring a bottle of wine....

So I did...and she answered the door just out of the bath not expecting to see me....the rest is history....I left 6 hours later!!

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I don’t drink wine myself...strictly whiskey or guinness. She drank it all....so maybe that’s what took the 6 hours...I’m a gentleman, I won’t get into details....

6 hours??!!!

...sure your jaw must have been killing you

from all the chatting & talking you both did

What was the wine like??"

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By *urbo-boosterMan
over a year ago

cork

I certainly can't agree with that. Was oh do dull. Like said it earlier post. Ex's are ex's for a good reason.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Sorry to go against the general responses above but I've had sex with a few ex's in the past and most were great.

There's the knowing exactly what turns her on, the careless frivolity, the swagger of being ready to do things with her you've learned that she may be new to and the stupid, male attitude of Yeah am here again reminding her of what she's missing

Some I've walked away from questioning myself and admonishing myself for taking the easy fuck but most have been a lot of fun.

I guess it all depends on your attitude and emotional state/attachment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry to go against the general responses above but I've had sex with a few ex's in the past and most were great.

Some I've walked away from questioning myself and admonishing myself for taking the easy fuck but most have been a lot of fun.

I guess it all depends on your attitude and emotional state/attachment."

That’s true enough John, regardless of what the chat on the thread says, it’s was a great night spent....we knew each other’s mood and what each other likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s one ex of mine I’d absolutely love to bump into and “have a glass of wine” with. I still think about her quite often and would love to fuck her brains out now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex is an ex for a reason and I wouldn't dream of going back there no matter how good the sex was

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My ex is an ex for a reason and I wouldn't dream of going back there no matter how good the sex was

Maybe the feeling is mutual with your ex......maybe he thinks your the mad crazy bitch!! ??...

Still though, out of all my ex’s there was only 1 I wanted to shag, and I did, so I’m delighted with life this week

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I've one X that i had amazing sex with but hes a bit mental so that's why we are X's.

I wouldn't go there now no matter what.. I've finally gotten free of him and no way i'll get drawn back in to the lies and head games.. even for the amount or orgasms that man could give me..

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By *oudicaWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

I can completely empathize with this. My ex and I split because we wanted different things out of life in general so it was amicable, but because we had such an amazing sex life we fell into bed together A LOT after we split.

It always seemed hotter, more elicit, almost forbidden and that just added to the excitement.

He’s on the other side of the world now but it can still turn me on thinking about him...... I think I’ll always want to shag him

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