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Compromise IS the key!!!

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By *arcbelf OP   Man
over a year ago

Saintfield, Co Down

I often wonder just how many women or couples spend lonely and frustrated days and nights, because they won't compromise, even a little bit, on who they want to meet. I'm sure lots go to bed at night, angry at the whole world and completely frustrated, because Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie aren't available to play with them, and they are not prepared to compromise at all, even though it might result in some of their sexiest and pleasurable encounters ever. Just a thought, y'know.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

So compromise is going to bed with someone your not interested in?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I can tell you nothing more frustrating than a sheit meet. I don't give too much about looks, but I do care about skills, stamina, interests and respect. So I'd rather play with myself than coming home unsatisfied.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"I can tell you nothing more frustrating than a sheit meet. I don't give too much about looks, but I do care about skills, stamina, interests and respect. So I'd rather play with myself than coming home unsatisfied. "

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Why should one person make another feel uncomfortable?

I mean if one part of a couple isn't attracted to a potential partner that the other one is. Why should they be forced to go along with it?

It's about having fun and all involved being comfortable with what's going on. Not just doing it to make the other person happy

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"I often wonder just how many women or couples spend lonely and frustrated days and nights, because they won't compromise, even a little bit, on who they want to meet. I'm sure lots go to bed at night, angry at the whole world and completely frustrated, because Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie aren't available to play with them, and they are not prepared to compromise at all, even though it might result in some of their sexiest and pleasurable encounters ever. Just a thought, y'know."

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Can understand what you're getting at Op...

The scenario of two people chatting here having the craic... all before pics get swapped and then he or she is not what the other had envisioned...

For some people, superficial looks are everything and that's just the way it is. For others here, they're not looking for a Brad or Angelina... more the experience of having really great sex with someone they spark with and have some attraction towards...

I do believe there's someone (or maybe 4!) for everyone here too... so that's where everyone's focus should be!

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By *lassic ElementsCouple
over a year ago

funtown


"I often wonder just how many women or couples spend lonely and frustrated days and nights, because they won't compromise, even a little bit, on who they want to meet. I'm sure lots go to bed at night, angry at the whole world and completely frustrated, because Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie aren't available to play with them, and they are not prepared to compromise at all, even though it might result in some of their sexiest and pleasurable encounters ever. Just a thought, y'know."

Honestly are you for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder just how many women or couples spend lonely and frustrated days and nights, because they won't compromise, even a little bit, on who they want to meet. I'm sure lots go to bed at night, angry at the whole world and completely frustrated, because Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie aren't available to play with them, and they are not prepared to compromise at all, even though it might result in some of their sexiest and pleasurable encounters ever. Just a thought, y'know.

Honestly are you for real "

The rantings of a desperate man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So preferences and attraction deosent come into it when meeting.it should be only about compromise

Funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder just how many women or couples spend lonely and frustrated days and nights, because they won't compromise, even a little bit, on who they want to meet. I'm sure lots go to bed at night, angry at the whole world and completely frustrated, because Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie aren't available to play with them, and they are not prepared to compromise at all, even though it might result in some of their sexiest and pleasurable encounters ever. Just a thought, y'know."
we have no frustrated days or nights....well maybe a few when the little decides not to sleep when we'd like em to and the hours long session we had planned turns into a quick hard fuck...does that count..Mr S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds remarkably like taking one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder just how many women or couples spend lonely and frustrated days and nights, because they won't compromise, even a little bit, on who they want to meet. I'm sure lots go to bed at night, angry at the whole world and completely frustrated, because Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie aren't available to play with them, and they are not prepared to compromise at all, even though it might result in some of their sexiest and pleasurable encounters ever. Just a thought, y'know."
Ah sure who would want to bother with people that think they are better than you.Let the upstarts ride away on each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Ah sure who would want to bother with people that think they are better than you.Let the upstarts ride away on each other."

Ah now, in fairness that's a massive jump to equate being discerning about who you fancy with feeling superior to who you don't

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

As a couple our first rule is NOT to take one for the team but hey that's just us

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By *arcbelf OP   Man
over a year ago

Saintfield, Co Down

Not at all, Tiffa. All I'm saying is that if you can't find the absolute perfect lover, then widening your scope, even a little, might produce some very pleasant and unexpectedly pleasant results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am vain,if I am not attracted to the person,on a physical and mental level,then I'd rather go fuck myself,well I usually don't,but you catch my drift.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I get where you are coming from OP. I would also include some single men in it, the selective ones, who don't think any hole's a goal. Rumours have it that a few exist.

Yes, perhaps an occasional relaxing of filters/age preference should be tested by all. I'm sure some have tried this and I leave it to them to voice their resulting experience.

Personally, I usually remove any blocks I have once a year, giving others a chance to redeem themselves in my eyes, except the barebackers, them I have no time for

However, there has to be some level of attraction somewhere. Be it a pic, a comment on forums/chat, something to engender a meet with a possibility of play.

Nobody is ever meeting someone without some inkling of a spark somewhere, regardless of the source of it.

Or perhaps we should have one night a year where all filters are removed and anyone can contact anybody else? I see The Purge happening Fab style but maybe it would turn into Caligula

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