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"Came across the biggest fake one last wk tatooes in some pics none in another...black hair brown eyes in one brown hair blue eyes in another.....fucking twat "Lol... not so clever so. | |||
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"Some men are probably doing it to get off on it or to try get a fake veri so they can veri their own account. " Make a you wonder eh?. Some pics with lots of fabs are fake... so some know how to work it. | |||
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"Some men are probably doing it to get off on it or to try get a fake veri so they can veri their own account. Make a you wonder eh?. Some pics with lots of fabs are fake... so some know how to work it." Yup you always see them. What makes me laugh is the girls in the site less than an hour who have 3 verifications from meets. Are guys that desperate? Wait don't answer that  | |||
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"Some men are probably doing it to get off on it or to try get a fake veri so they can veri their own account. Make a you wonder eh?. Some pics with lots of fabs are fake... so some know how to work it. Yup you always see them. What makes me laugh is the girls in the site less than an hour who have 3 verifications from meets. Are guys that desperate? Wait don't answer that "Some are.  | |||
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"So many fakes on here at the moment. I kinda get the ones who are trying to scam people. Low life's but there's something in for them. It's the ones with fake profiles and fake pics. What is in it for them? You really have to have something seriously wrong with you to do this. The biggest problem is they are getting away with it. Getting better at it. So.... tips on how to catch a catfish..." What's your definition of a fake profile? | |||
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"Some men are probably doing it to get off on it or to try get a fake veri so they can veri their own account. Make a you wonder eh?. Some pics with lots of fabs are fake... so some know how to work it. Yup you always see them. What makes me laugh is the girls in the site less than an hour who have 3 verifications from meets. Are guys that desperate? Wait don't answer that
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"So many fakes on here at the moment. I kinda get the ones who are trying to scam people. Low life's but there's something in for them. It's the ones with fake profiles and fake pics. What is in it for them? You really have to have something seriously wrong with you to do this. The biggest problem is they are getting away with it. Getting better at it. So.... tips on how to catch a catfish... What's your definition of a fake profile?" No pictures or refusal to send any. Pictures taken from Google searches. Text Copied from others profiles. Lots of photos but not site photo verified. Asking for money or phone credit so they can send you pictures | |||
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"So many fakes on here at the moment. I kinda get the ones who are trying to scam people. Low life's but there's something in for them. It's the ones with fake profiles and fake pics. What is in it for them? You really have to have something seriously wrong with you to do this. The biggest problem is they are getting away with it. Getting better at it. So.... tips on how to catch a catfish... What's your definition of a fake profile?" Ones that have been on no time and are verified. Ones that answer threads with they've done every thing with everyone.. wanting to be noticed. Fake pics. So are good but some are very obvious. I'm sure there's more clues in the way a profile is written. | |||
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"So many fakes on here at the moment. I kinda get the ones who are trying to scam people. Low life's but there's something in for them. It's the ones with fake profiles and fake pics. What is in it for them? You really have to have something seriously wrong with you to do this. The biggest problem is they are getting away with it. Getting better at it. So.... tips on how to catch a catfish... What's your definition of a fake profile? No pictures or refusal to send any. Pictures taken from Google searches. Text Copied from others profiles. Lots of photos but not site photo verified. Asking for money or phone credit so they can send you pictures " You can get photo verified as a male/female but profile can still be fake. | |||
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"So many fakes on here at the moment. I kinda get the ones who are trying to scam people. Low life's but there's something in for them. It's the ones with fake profiles and fake pics. What is in it for them? You really have to have something seriously wrong with you to do this. The biggest problem is they are getting away with it. Getting better at it. So.... tips on how to catch a catfish... What's your definition of a fake profile? Ones that have been on no time and are verified. Ones that answer threads with they've done every thing with everyone.. wanting to be noticed. Fake pics. So are good but some are very obvious. I'm sure there's more clues in the way a profile is written. " For me fake profiles are those, usually guys, pretending to be women or couples. Obviously those with fake pics. Many others have plenty of white lies, age, location, height, size, smokers etc and then there was the teasers who have no intention of ever, ever meeting. | |||
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"Also why does many people here pretend they are straigh and they not why not just be honest this is a swinger site ffs no one here judge anyone just be yourself. About been fake they going nowhere and I take tjis days is easy to spot a mile away a profile that is fake. Also how many guys try pretend they couples then just say ohh my wife cancel at last minut but i can still come lots bollox " The amount of guys mail me listed as straigh and asking to meet, and get angry when you turn them down or say "yeah but when you're horny any holes a goal". If they are bi they should list it. I'm straight straight not fab straight. I just don't see why guys feel the need to lie, to others as well as themselves. | |||
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"I'm not meeting new people at the moment but I have actually met people off fab. The thing i dont get is why put up fake pics and profile knowing it's not you. How can you meet someone under those circumstances... you can't." They aren't looking to meet. Its a way if getting people to chat to you. Some people get there kicks that way. | |||
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"Also why does many people here pretend they are straigh and they not why not just be honest this is a swinger site ffs no one here judge anyone just be yourself. About been fake they going nowhere and I take tjis days is easy to spot a mile away a profile that is fake. Also how many guys try pretend they couples then just say ohh my wife cancel at last minut but i can still come lots bollox The amount of guys mail me listed as straigh and asking to meet, and get angry when you turn them down or say "yeah but when you're horny any holes a goal". If they are bi they should list it. I'm straight straight not fab straight. I just don't see why guys feel the need to lie, to others as well as themselves." I know does me head in and when people keep sending u msg when u said to them u not interested and the copy past msg . Is sad how some people don't actually know how to have a conversation anymore. And this is a swinger site but msg like Hi u up for a shag tonight ? How can guys actually think that works | |||
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"I'm not meeting new people at the moment but I have actually met people off fab. The thing i dont get is why put up fake pics and profile knowing it's not you. How can you meet someone under those circumstances... you can't. They aren't looking to meet. Its a way if getting people to chat to you. Some people get there kicks that way. " I know but it's sad really. On all levels. | |||
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"Came across the biggest fake one last wk tatooes in some pics none in another...black hair brown eyes in one brown hair blue eyes in another.....fucking twat "Obviously not the most intelligent person in the world? | |||
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"Also why does many people here pretend they are straigh and they not why not just be honest this is a swinger site ffs no one here judge anyone just be yourself. About been fake they going nowhere and I take tjis days is easy to spot a mile away a profile that is fake. Also how many guys try pretend they couples then just say ohh my wife cancel at last minut but i can still come lots bollox The amount of guys mail me listed as straigh and asking to meet, and get angry when you turn them down or say "yeah but when you're horny any holes a goal". If they are bi they should list it. I'm straight straight not fab straight. I just don't see why guys feel the need to lie, to others as well as themselves." They've obviously heard about your sausage. | |||
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"Also why does many people here pretend they are straigh and they not why not just be honest this is a swinger site ffs no one here judge anyone just be yourself. About been fake they going nowhere and I take tjis days is easy to spot a mile away a profile that is fake. Also how many guys try pretend they couples then just say ohh my wife cancel at last minut but i can still come lots bollox The amount of guys mail me listed as straigh and asking to meet, and get angry when you turn them down or say "yeah but when you're horny any holes a goal". If they are bi they should list it. I'm straight straight not fab straight. I just don't see why guys feel the need to lie, to others as well as themselves. They've obviously heard about your sausage. "it's why I don't show it on my profile lol | |||
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"Also why does many people here pretend they are straigh and they not why not just be honest this is a swinger site ffs no one here judge anyone just be yourself. About been fake they going nowhere and I take tjis days is easy to spot a mile away a profile that is fake. Also how many guys try pretend they couples then just say ohh my wife cancel at last minut but i can still come lots bollox The amount of guys mail me listed as straigh and asking to meet, and get angry when you turn them down or say "yeah but when you're horny any holes a goal". If they are bi they should list it. I'm straight straight not fab straight. I just don't see why guys feel the need to lie, to others as well as themselves. They've obviously heard about your sausage. it's why I don't show it on my profile lol"Tasty | |||
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"Verifications are the best way, check out who's verified them and you should be able to tell from the quality who's real and whose a waste of time. " Fake profiles ,everything's hidden. I've mine private but that's because my veries were contacted not for good reasons. | |||
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"Ah, well that's understandable. But in general you can usually tell." I agree. Just one or two who have a good few fooled. | |||
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"So many fakes on here at the moment. I kinda get the ones who are trying to scam people. Low life's but there's something in for them. It's the ones with fake profiles and fake pics. What is in it for them? You really have to have something seriously wrong with you to do this. The biggest problem is they are getting away with it. Getting better at it. So.... tips on how to catch a catfish... What's your definition of a fake profile? Ones that have been on no time and are verified. Ones that answer threads with they've done every thing with everyone.. wanting to be noticed. Fake pics. So are good but some are very obvious. I'm sure there's more clues in the way a profile is written. For me fake profiles are those, usually guys, pretending to be women or couples. Obviously those with fake pics. Many others have plenty of white lies, age, location, height, size, smokers etc and then there was the teasers who have no intention of ever, ever meeting. " I call them pics hunters or desperate idiots. They can fool you once or twice, but no endless. We use kik video chat for a quick veri, especially if the profile is a couple or a woman. Why matured people behave like that? What kind of a sense is it?  
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"Insist on Kik. If they want anything else, their trawling your info. Otherwise insist on Fab only. Ask for pics with the days paper and a clear view of locality in background. Ask for eircode and then Google surrounding area on maps and verify. Jaysus! Has it come to this "No one in their right mind would give anyone their decide | |||
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"Ask for a pic in a particular pose..eg:. Arms folded, or stand on one leg ..or both!"That's to complicated, a quick cam would sort out if genuine | |||
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"We'll in fairness I wouldn't give out my phone no. Got caught out before with an idiot. Kik yeah thats good . Have video chat. Face pic... could be anyone's. " Get a 'disposable' £20 phone from Tesco.. If grief arrives bin the SIM card and change the number. | |||
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"I'm not meeting new people at the moment but I have actually met people off fab. The thing i dont get is why put up fake pics and profile knowing it's not you. How can you meet someone under those circumstances... you can't." Some women and couples get away with fake pics because there's a pussy behind the profile that can be fucked and most don't mind which pussy they fuck. And that's how those women and couples get and are well verified. Now I'm not sure if a man would get away with fake pics, some try but they're normally found out quick enough. then again this is fab and nothing is impossible. How do you spot them? The pics as in 'too good to be true' are normally a give away even if they don't show up on google reverse search. Also details in pictures that don't match with the other pics. And sometimes you get a clue when you put the pics in context with the profile. If you're a good observer you'll spot the signs and there's always some, yes some get better in deceiving but they'll never be perfect. I've no idea what you get from hundreds of fabs for a pic that doesn't show you other than laughing at the hundreds that were silly enough to fab it. | |||
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"We'll in fairness I wouldn't give out my phone no. Got caught out before with an idiot. Kik yeah thats good . Have video chat. Face pic... could be anyone's. Get a 'disposable' £20 phone from Tesco.. If grief arrives bin the SIM card and change the number." The old reliable - the old fuck/fab phone | |||
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"We'll in fairness I wouldn't give out my phone no. Got caught out before with an idiot. Kik yeah thats good . Have video chat. Face pic... could be anyone's. " Applogies - I meant to say, get their mobile number.Not to give out yours. | |||
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"We'll in fairness I wouldn't give out my phone no. Got caught out before with an idiot. Kik yeah thats good . Have video chat. Face pic... could be anyone's. " What about getting them to talk to them via cam....it's what we are thinking of doing when I'm home from work in the nxt few weeks to try and sort out the bullshitters from the genuine ones | |||
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"No face pict no chat when i start talk to them on kik no selfie no chat. No bulshiet here and that was I know i never get catfished " Can you video cal on kik without your number showing up ??????? | |||
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"No face pict no chat when i start talk to them on kik no selfie no chat. No bulshiet here and that was I know i never get catfished Can you video cal on kik without your number showing up ???????" Yes you can and now you can video chat, swipe to your right to make it full screen  | |||
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" I'm not meeting new people at the moment but I have actually met people off fab. The thing i dont get is why put up fake pics and profile knowing it's not you. How can you meet someone under those circumstances... you can't. Some women and couples get away with fake pics because there's a pussy behind the profile that can be fucked and most don't mind which pussy they fuck. And that's how those women and couples get and are well verified. Now I'm not sure if a man would get away with fake pics, some try but they're normally found out quick enough. then again this is fab and nothing is impossible. How do you spot them? The pics as in 'too good to be true' are normally a give away even if they don't show up on google reverse search. Also details in pictures that don't match with the other pics. And sometimes you get a clue when you put the pics in context with the profile. If you're a good observer you'll spot the signs and there's always some, yes some get better in deceiving but they'll never be perfect. I've no idea what you get from hundreds of fabs for a pic that doesn't show you other than laughing at the hundreds that were silly enough to fab it." Spot on as usual DH. The details in the pics are a giveaway. Consistency can't happen if you post several pics a day. Backgrounds seem to change as much as the extensive lingerie wardrobe. I have a few bits in my lingerie draw but sweet Jesus there are a few here that must spend a fortune on theirs. And some are so unusual. | |||
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"No face pict no chat when i start talk to them on kik no selfie no chat. No bulshiet here and that was I know i never get catfished Can you video cal on kik without your number showing up ??????? Yes you can and now you can video chat, swipe to your right to make it full screen "we will be using kik then as a way to verify then..,one way to stop the bullshitters so let the games begin from the last week in August then  | |||
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"No face pict no chat when i start talk to them on kik no selfie no chat. No bulshiet here and that was I know i never get catfished Can you video cal on kik without your number showing up ??????? Yes you can and now you can video chat, swipe to your right to make it full screen we will be using kik then as a way to verify then..,one way to stop the bullshitters so let the games begin from the last week in August then " | |||
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"I'm reminded of the story the gets told a lot around there's parts about the guy calling a "couple" on the phone and when he spoke to the husband he then asked to speak to the "wife" The husband then tried to imitate a woman's voice.....badly. "That's actually hilarious... that's really pushing it..  | |||
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"I'm reminded of the story the gets told a lot around there's parts about the guy calling a "couple" on the phone and when he spoke to the husband he then asked to speak to the "wife" The husband then tried to imitate a woman's voice.....badly. "Some sad sad people out there  | |||
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"Also why does many people here pretend they are straigh and they not why not just be honest this is a swinger site ffs no one here judge anyone just be yourself. About been fake they going nowhere and I take tjis days is easy to spot a mile away a profile that is fake. Also how many guys try pretend they couples then just say ohh my wife cancel at last minut but i can still come lots bollox The amount of guys mail me listed as straigh and asking to meet, and get angry when you turn them down or say "yeah but when you're horny any holes a goal". If they are bi they should list it. I'm straight straight not fab straight. I just don't see why guys feel the need to lie, to others as well as themselves. I know does me head in and when people keep sending u msg when u said to them u not interested and the copy past msg . Is sad how some people don't actually know how to have a conversation anymore. And this is a swinger site but msg like Hi u up for a shag tonight ? How can guys actually think that works " hahahhaa you’re dead right b | |||
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"I'm reminded of the story the gets told a lot around there's parts about the guy calling a "couple" on the phone and when he spoke to the husband he then asked to speak to the "wife" The husband then tried to imitate a woman's voice.....badly. "Reminds me of the beard scene in the Life Of Brian. | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? " What do you call a good profile?  | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile? "Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect"If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious. | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious. "Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal "You'd wonder why they even went to kik? | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik? "Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games "Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like. | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect"Did you send him one? | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games
Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like."See its dem single guys again | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
Did you send him one? "Noo not when he started messing. ..he agreed then backed out. If he'd sent one I'd always send one back ...not on this occasion though | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games
Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like.
See its dem single guys again "Ffs don't you start. | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games
Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like."I started chatting to a women recently, not verified, doesn't want to exchange pics until we establish an connection and doesn't want to be wank fodder. On one hand seems responsible on the other could be a fake profile. Who's knows? | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games
Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like.
See its dem single guys again
Ffs don't you start. "Psml can't beat them join them ...lol Great thread BTW. .. informative | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games
Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like.
I started chatting to a women recently, not verified, doesn't want to exchange pics until we establish an connection and doesn't want to be wank fodder. On one hand seems responsible on the other could be a fake profile. Who's knows?"He'd actually requested moving to Kik to exchange photos .. hence the suspicion | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik? "Maybe she has decided a while ago to leave fab world but hubbie pretends to be still as a cpl? It happened to us too
A quick video call, saying 'hi', ask to wave the hand to confirm this person /these ppl are real.
We found only this way works and saves our time. It's also handy to see if there is an attraction between other cpl/person.
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games
Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like.
I started chatting to a women recently, not verified, doesn't want to exchange pics until we establish an connection and doesn't want to be wank fodder. On one hand seems responsible on the other could be a fake profile. Who's knows?"In fairness if you're chatting awhile with the intention of meeting a face pic is not out of the question. | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Maybe she has decided a while ago to leave fab world but hubbie pretends to be still as a cpl? It happened to us too
A quick video call, saying 'hi', ask to wave the hand to confirm this person /these ppl are real.
We found only this way works and saves our time. It's also handy to see if there is an attraction between other cpl/person.
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
If he said he'd swop pics and now won't give you one I'd be suspicious.
Yup alarms bells rang .. shame seemed normal
You'd wonder why they even went to kik?
Yup I know ... it baffles me but conversation is over. I'm not playing games
Good for you. That's exactly what it sounds like.
I started chatting to a women recently, not verified, doesn't want to exchange pics until we establish an connection and doesn't want to be wank fodder. On one hand seems responsible on the other could be a fake profile. Who's knows?
In fairness if you're chatting awhile with the intention of meeting a face pic is not out of the question. "True, it's that nagging thought at the back of your mind - is she/isn't she? How long is to long? Time will tell - Que sera sera | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
Did you send him one?
Noo not when he started messing. ..he agreed then backed out. If he'd sent one I'd always send one back ...not on this occasion though "
Further up you said you requested a face pic and he insisted to do it on kik. Now it's a bit of a hen and egg situation, one has to make the first move and I normally go by the rule who requests a face pic first should also make the first move. Then again in case of doubt go with your gut feeling. | |||
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"Came across the biggest fake one last wk tatooes in some pics none in another...black hair brown eyes in one brown hair blue eyes in another.....fucking twat "You know some poor people fell for it  | |||
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"Came across the biggest fake one last wk tatooes in some pics none in another...black hair brown eyes in one brown hair blue eyes in another.....fucking twat
You know some poor people fell for it "Playing devils advocate - they could be before and after pics | |||
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"Came across the biggest fake one last wk tatooes in some pics none in another...black hair brown eyes in one brown hair blue eyes in another.....fucking twat
You know some poor people fell for it
Playing devils advocate - they could be before and after pics "Changing his eye colour? Lens maybe.... nah!! | |||
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"Two profiles recently went to Kik and no face pic. .. I stop conversation immediately but these were good profiles. Do I presume fakes ??? What do you call a good profile?
Photos, couple of veris about a year old, been messaging from near enough the start .. I requested a face pic he requested we do it on Kik. .. got to Kik and just wouldn't send one. Usual reasons. .. I've been messed around before. Just seems suspect
Did you send him one?
Noo not when he started messing. ..he agreed then backed out. If he'd sent one I'd always send one back ...not on this occasion though
Further up you said you requested a face pic and he insisted to do it on kik. Now it's a bit of a hen and egg situation, one has to make the first move and I normally go by the rule who requests a face pic first should also make the first move. Then again in case of doubt go with your gut feeling. "It's the oddest encounter I've had ... I think I made the right call. My gut was screaming this isn't right. I did request the pic and to be honest it's never been an issue before, both parties exchange pics. It was the ill do it on Kik .. then stalling and excuses. If you don't want to just say no here | |||
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"One guy sent me a face pic first message... following week another message different person in pic.. " I came across a profile with two face pics, defo not the same guy in the two pics unless he had a serious chin surgery between the two pics | |||
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"One guy sent me a face pic first message... following week another message different person in pic.. " No way !!! Not very bright | |||
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"One guy sent me a face pic first message... following week another message different person in pic.. " Schizophrenic - but well done for remembering | |||
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"One guy sent me a face pic first message... following week another message different person in pic.. Schizophrenic - but well done for remembering "I don't have to remember. If someone sends a message it shows up under their new message. | |||
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"People do it I imagine as it is an ego stroke. Even if a fake profile. People will get pleasure producing chemicals from strokes in a false situation. A bit like watching joi porn vids where the performer is talking to a cam but the viewer convinces themseles it is them they are talking to.the human brain for all of the fantastic work it does has some incredibly primal instincts that allow the brain to manipulate the more modern parts of the brain such as frontal cortex where rational thoughts take place " | |||
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"Due to this I will only meet with people I have chatted to at socials, parties and club's. It filters out fakes and Messer's. I think at this stage I have heard every excuse as to why they won't go to an organised event. " Its rampant , and not a rabbit in sight.  | |||
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"Don't know why anybody is surprised... part of the allure of anonymous sites like these is precisely that... safety and anonymity and low-risk. Yeah, it's shitty when you have your heart set on meeting someone but I'd rather put up with 100 fake profiles than fend off 1 asshole in person." I get where you're coming from but safety is paramount. It's one thing chatting to a fake but setting up a meet with someone with a fake profiles is highly dangerous. Would they turn up ?. Would they turn up alone? Would they turn up and watch from a distance? Or worse, follow you. As a single women this is frickin scary. | |||
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"Pretty sure I’ve been catfished recently too by a picture collector/guy posing as a female. They were very keen to meet super quickly, but went silent on the day of the meet, then requested pictures, arranged new meet, silent again. Very frustrating, as I had said no to other arrangements both days! What can you do though? Lesson learned I gues! "Wow. This really bites because I'm one of those one who have been caught out by jerks who demand a million pix, share old blurry crappy ones then either show up looking like a dog's breakfast, or worse, furtively walk on, recognise me and then pretend not to see me so now I'm very very militant about reciprocating photos. If I smell any doubt, I just block them for being cheaters, wankers or ugly dudes pretending to be twenty years/kilos lighter/heavier... | |||
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"Pretty sure I’ve been catfished recently too by a picture collector/guy posing as a female. They were very keen to meet super quickly, but went silent on the day of the meet, then requested pictures, arranged new meet, silent again. Very frustrating, as I had said no to other arrangements both days! What can you do though? Lesson learned I gues!
Wow. This really bites because I'm one of those one who have been caught out by jerks who demand a million pix, share old blurry crappy ones then either show up looking like a dog's breakfast, or worse, furtively walk on, recognise me and then pretend not to see me so now I'm very very militant about reciprocating photos. If I smell any doubt, I just block them for being cheaters, wankers or ugly dudes pretending to be twenty years/kilos lighter/heavier..."My problem wasn’t with sending pics, I’ve no problem sending as many as anybody wants as I am the person in my pictures. I meant that I wasn’t checking the person properly, as I didn’t actually get a face pic (more fool me lol) This Thread is very useful, some great pointers! Sorry, didn’t mean to touch a nerve, I should’ve been more clear | |||
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"We'll in fairness I wouldn't give out my phone no. Got caught out before with an idiot. Kik yeah thats good . Have video chat. Face pic... could be anyone's. " As for live pic. As in request they do something in the picture. Maybe a thumbs up or peace sign or something that you decide. | |||
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"Pretty sure I’ve been catfished recently too by a picture collector/guy posing as a female. They were very keen to meet super quickly, but went silent on the day of the meet, then requested pictures, arranged new meet, silent again. Very frustrating, as I had said no to other arrangements both days! What can you do though? Lesson learned I gues!
Wow. This really bites because I'm one of those one who have been caught out by jerks who demand a million pix, share old blurry crappy ones then either show up looking like a dog's breakfast, or worse, furtively walk on, recognise me and then pretend not to see me so now I'm very very militant about reciprocating photos. If I smell any doubt, I just block them for being cheaters, wankers or ugly dudes pretending to be twenty years/kilos lighter/heavier...
My problem wasn’t with sending pics, I’ve no problem sending as many as anybody wants as I am the person in my pictures. I meant that I wasn’t checking the person properly, as I didn’t actually get a face pic (more fool me lol) This Thread is very useful, some great pointers!
Sorry, didn’t mean to touch a nerve, I should’ve been more clear "Completely understand. TBH it's only been a few short years since I got back in the game so I made a lot of stupid mistakes first and it's cost me... but seeing it from a man's perspective helps as I have seen and heard it all from a woman's point of view. | |||
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"Ask for a pic in a particular pose..eg:. Arms folded, or stand on one leg ..or both!"Yeah this is what do cos im not a fan of camming, ill ask for like pinky of right hand touching left cheek but as a second pic, always get a face pic first then the pose to back it up! | |||
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"Ask for a pic in a particular pose..eg:. Arms folded, or stand on one leg ..or both!
Yeah this is what do cos im not a fan of camming, ill ask for like pinky of right hand touching left cheek but as a second pic, always get a face pic first then the pose to back it up! "Agree 100% | |||
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"Ask for a pic in a particular pose..eg:. Arms folded, or stand on one leg ..or both!
Yeah this is what do cos im not a fan of camming, ill ask for like pinky of right hand touching left cheek but as a second pic, always get a face pic first then the pose to back it up!
Agree 100%"If they start complaining you know somethings not 100% | |||
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"Then there also some semi-fakes. 1 in particular irks me a lot here...half her pics,the other half are some of googles finest yet the same person has lots of veris "How do you know if its googles finest ??? | |||
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"Also why does many people here pretend they are straigh and they not why not just be honest this is a swinger site ffs no one here judge anyone just be yourself. About been fake they going nowhere and I take tjis days is easy to spot a mile away a profile that is fake. Also how many guys try pretend they couples then just say ohh my wife cancel at last minut but i can still come lots bollox " Loads of "hubby looking to play alone " status going up. Also appearing on webcam whacking off "while she is at work " | |||
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"Click on the image - Search in Google for this image should appear. It should show up if it has been taken from Google. " Thank you | |||
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"I'm reminded of the story the gets told a lot around there's parts about the guy calling a "couple" on the phone and when he spoke to the husband he then asked to speak to the "wife" The husband then tried to imitate a woman's voice.....badly. Lol...I got a call from him too. " | |||
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"I'm reminded of the story the gets told a lot around there's parts about the guy calling a "couple" on the phone and when he spoke to the husband he then asked to speak to the "wife" The husband then tried to imitate a woman's voice.....badly. Lol...I got a call from him too. "LMAO!! | |||
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"Ask for a pic in a particular pose..eg:. Arms folded, or stand on one leg ..or both!
Yeah this is what do cos im not a fan of camming, ill ask for like pinky of right hand touching left cheek but as a second pic, always get a face pic first then the pose to back it up!
Agree 100%
If they start complaining you know somethings not 100%"Brill! My new BS deflector technique. Thanks for this! | |||
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"Ask for a pic in a particular pose..eg:. Arms folded, or stand on one leg ..or both!
Yeah this is what do cos im not a fan of camming, ill ask for like pinky of right hand touching left cheek but as a second pic, always get a face pic first then the pose to back it up!
Agree 100%
If they start complaining you know somethings not 100%
Brill! My new BS deflector technique. Thanks for this!"Hope it helps | |||
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