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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe it's just me but I've never been one for the seductive dance of wining and dining and dancing before sex.

I've never been good with going from chit chat to humping in more than two stages.

I wish I was better at that...

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Yeah you're not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me but I've never been one for the seductive dance of wining and dining and dancing before sex.

I've never been good with going from chit chat to humping in more than two stages.

I wish I was better at that..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's just me but I've never been one for the seductive dance of wining and dining and dancing before sex.

I've never been good with going from chit chat to humping in more than two stages.

I wish I was better at that..."

It's a cross that many of us bear

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

You're not the only one.

"So do you like.....stuff?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm shite at it, but I just don't care enough for an irrelevant conversation to be that bothered about putting any effort into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say I'm shite at it, but I just don't care enough for an irrelevant conversation to be that bothered about putting any effort into it."

Hit the nail on the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your boring is what your saying lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I care about it... I mean, I like getting along with people I fuck but how do I get from "hey, did you see that last episode of Game of Thrones?" to "so.... When can I suck your cock?"

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

A good kiss is a good diversion from chit chat and a lead in to wherever you'd like to start play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ya okay.. That's fine if you're sure he fancies you... But what if you're unsure...

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

The kiss will make your mind up for you. If it's crap..walk, if you want more....Have more

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Ya okay.. That's fine if you're sure he fancies you... But what if you're unsure... "

If its fab meets your talking you will know fairly easily

If they don't fancy you in person after seeing your face pics they will say it,sorry not my type. Or run off when up you go to the toilet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shite at talking

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Ahh but that nordi accent would pull everything except teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I care about it... I mean, I like getting along with people I fuck but how do I get from "hey, did you see that last episode of Game of Thrones?" to "so.... When can I suck your cock?""

Not doing the small talk things got nothing to do with getting along with people I would probably get along better with people I know I dont have to spend time with having a mindless conversation.

In terms of asking when you can suck their cock....the sooner the better

Personally, I'd be thinking to myself "Why couldn't we have went straight to that instead of talking about weather/game of thrones/pizza toppings for the last 2 hours"?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I care about it... I mean, I like getting along with people I fuck but how do I get from "hey, did you see that last episode of Game of Thrones?" to "so.... When can I suck your cock?""

That's easy just send them a "fancy ur cock sucked" mail God know there's plenty send fancy a fook mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm shite at talking "

The best shite talker I know and the cutest smiler.. Hows that for shite talk Mr hardy..

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Id rather skip a meal or the wine and dine part.

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Oh I could talk for Ireland if the humour is on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice makes perfect, the more you do it tge more comfortable yoj feel and the better you get, its a pisitive feed back loop.. with regard to turn8ng a convo sexual, you have to go ninja, you cant be to up front or you come across as creepy.. a favourite of mine is i'd compliment a girl on her shoes, then id say something like "good taste in shoes is important to me in a girl, and if she has good taste in shoes then she has good taste in underwear..", if she bites we're talking about her knickers, if she doesnt we're talking about shoes..

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"Ya okay.. That's fine if you're sure he fancies you... But what if you're unsure... "
...i am exactly the same as you ...cant really do the chit chat thing ....ollie is a god at it ....plus I never think anyone actual fancies me unless they come out and says it ...i am just one of the lads in my mind lol

Apples

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"Just the chit chat?"

Ollie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Practice makes perfect, the more you do it tge more comfortable yoj feel and the better you get, its a pisitive feed back loop.. with regard to turn8ng a convo sexual, you have to go ninja, you cant be to up front or you come across as creepy.. a favourite of mine is i'd compliment a girl on her shoes, then id say something like "good taste in shoes is important to me in a girl, and if she has good taste in shoes then she has good taste in underwear..", if she bites we're talking about her knickers, if she doesnt we're talking about shoes.. "

LMAO

That's perfect!!! Esp since I love talking about shoes and lingerie....

So how do you feel about bare feet? Mine are pretty well tended, nails painted pink!

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"I care about it... I mean, I like getting along with people I fuck but how do I get from "hey, did you see that last episode of Game of Thrones?" to "so.... When can I suck your cock?""

Lmao, just like that.... I find the best way to get what you want is to just ask for it, or you could suck on a banana in front of him, that would be a subtle hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yes the subtle way of saying how are you I really want to fuck you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah yes the subtle way of saying how are you I really want to fuck you

"

Yabbut.... what if he refuses? *cringe*

It's happenned... well... not *exactly* like that but almost... and then... six hours later he pounces on me d*unk telling me he fancies me but is afraid because his mistress keeps texting him...

Oooops...

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Op I am the same tbh I prefer the straight forward approach I like you and want to be naughty with you is normally my approach lol

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney


"Ya okay.. That's fine if you're sure he fancies you... But what if you're unsure... ...i am exactly the same as you ...cant really do the chit chat thing ....ollie is a god at it ....plus I never think anyone actual fancies me unless they come out and says it ...i am just one of the lads in my mind lol

Apples"
apples your the sexiest lad I have ever seen I must be gay lmao

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

To be honest I'd talk for fucking Ireland, so either way is fine by me.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well that's the cold sex but if you want romance and falling in luv you need to be able to chat and relax and flirt with each other . Take things slowely .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Ah yes the subtle way of saying how are you I really want to fuck you

Yabbut.... what if he refuses? *cringe*

It's happenned... well... not *exactly* like that but almost... and then... six hours later he pounces on me d*unk telling me he fancies me but is afraid because his mistress keeps texting him...

Oooops..."

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I have to be stone cold sober to meet a lady . I would never get d*unk to have sex . I don't need to but seen a lot of people have to have drink to have sex with people .

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