FabSwingers.com forum: Posting who blocked you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate"
The ladies would never use

their status updates to do anything like that would they.

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate"

your such a lick arse

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate"

It's a long used tactic by both men and women to name and shame because you get banned for naming and shaming on the forum

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate

your such a lick arse

* you're not your

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate

your such a lick arse

He's white knighting in the vain hope of getting to lick arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys its not White Knighting its respecting the ladies choice ... No means no & Fuck off means Fuck off ... accept that you didnt score but there is no need to be abusive or to be shaming people ... if you cannot handle rejection then you are on the wrong site .

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By *ilg41Man
over a year ago

schticks

I recently had a meet 2 hrs drive away - paid for hotel etc etc - If she didnt show i'd be fucking fuming - and naming her wouldnt be beyond the realms of possibility.

If ye were just blocked then ye - get over it - im blocked by half the site

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im blocked by women on here for what ever reason dosent bother me in the slightest

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Im blocked by women on here for what ever reason dosent bother me in the slightest

you're not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate"

A like button would be handy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate

A like button would be handy lol"

Just like in Facebook ... hooefully Fab management will read this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im blocked by women on here for what ever reason dosent bother me in the slightest

you're not the only one

Pretty & Doghunter celebrate ur blockages ...wear it as a badge of honour.. some people cannot handle others being popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im blocked by women on here for what ever reason dosent bother me in the slightest

you're not the only one

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im blocked by women on here for what ever reason dosent bother me in the slightest

you're not the only one

Me too

I can see a kik group bein started ... the blocked ladies if Fab

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

harbourough

My block list contains all the no shows - and is longer than my friends list. No point in naming them. Men love wank fodder chats with cd/tv but not actual meets

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate"

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Works both ways Op as have seen women using their local status update to name and shame guys for "no shows" or being "assholes"

Also it's very easy to say "get over it" but how about a man or couple who've booked a babysitter and hotel room only to be stood up and out of pocket 100-200 quid. Op, would you feel like venting just a little or warning others if you were in their shoes??

I don't name & shame myself but can understand other people's annoyance at times in these situations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is naming and shaming going help if u being stood up on a meet or blocked.

Its not going to resolve anything.only bring more negativity to the situation.being a online site it will happen.

As for the blocking.i have blocked a few.a good few have blocked me.leaves more time for chatting with potentials in my opinnion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a microcosm of the wider world. I dont fuck everyone i see as i walk to work, why would this be any different...

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

"Its just a microcosm of the wider world. I dont fuck everyone i see as i walk to work, why would this be any different...

Because if you could you'd be dead from exhaustion and never get to work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what a way to go

Although im not sure about the postman !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This community is small enough, no shows, rude and disrespectful people get found out pretty quickly by word of mouth.

But there is a flip side to that coin. People we wouldn't necessarily be so hot on, other people have raved about. Just as people who we felt were amazing might not be someone else's cup o'tea.

Ohh the trials & tribulations of a swinger in 21st century Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother naming a no show on our status but I would spread the word

OP I don't understand your attitude of its the woman's right to chose who they meet etc?! That's pure crap... just because she's a woman does not give her the right to not turn up ! It's as shitty as ANYONE else not turning up for a meet. Don't arrange a meet if you have no intentions of turning up

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate The ladies would never use

their status updates to do anything like that would they."

You need the white knight code explained? How else will the OP have the "ladies" falling at his feet if he does not rescue them from the evil single guys on here? Do you not realise that Bonnie Tyler wrote a song about the OP?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Guys its not White Knighting its respecting the ladies choice ... No means no & Fuck off means Fuck off ... accept that you didnt score but there is no need to be abusive or to be shaming people ... if you cannot handle rejection then you are on the wrong site ."

Women use there status to name and shame guys and more often other women here all the time

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Women use there status to name and shame guys and more often other women here all the time

SSSSSSHHHHHHHH you'll ruin his white knightedness

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Reporting inappropriate behavior and moving on is the best thing to do. If there's anything you can learn from an experience, to prevent you from going through similar issues in future, all the better.

The site improves from the quality of feedback that you provide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your argument would’ve been fine if you made it about all Fabbers instead of singling our males. It was that that made it seem cringey.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"OP your argument would’ve been fine if you made it about all Fabbers instead of singling our males. It was that that made it seem cringey. "

But dude

White Knight

1) A man who stands up for a womens right to be an absolute equal, but then steps up like a white knight to rescue her any time that equality becomes a burden.

2) A man who Promotes gender equality but practices special privilege for women.

When a woman believes she can do absolutely everything a man can do and better, but when she is asked to list something heavy as her everyday chore the white knight will come to defend her when she protests.

#white knight#feminism#hero worship#mangina#society

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate

your such a lick arse

He's white knighting in the vain hope of getting to lick arse"

Although we agree with the OP about naming and shaming, there is an element of white knighting here. Alot of the OP's threads are in that vein. It's cringey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im blocked by women on here for what ever reason dosent bother me in the slightest

you're not the only one

Pretty & Doghunter celebrate ur blockages ...wear it as a badge of honour.. some people cannot handle others being popular"
stop licking arse..

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

I see this with peoples statuses all the time. I don't find it useful. We are in several kik groups though and if someone is abusive or rude the fashion is to screen shot it along with one of the profile and share it via the group. We have blocked a few people on the back of these and with the number of worthless profiles increasing these groups are becoming more and more useful.

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Ppl block for all sorts or reasons including just filtering out those who they know from even seeing their profile that they wont be compatible with. Would take it to heart op... just move on. Lots more people who you might click with on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im blocked by women on here for what ever reason dosent bother me in the slightest

That's cuz their jealous

Whatever

Looking good lady

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Just noticed some guys using their status to post who had "blocked" them or was a "no show" at an arranged meet ... guys shit happens, people can choose who they talk to or meet ..

Guys grow a pair & get over it ... you are not gods gift & the ladies are not desperate The ladies would never use

their status updates to do anything like that would they.

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Personally, I think Op should have gone on to apologize on behalf of those dastardly males out there who've ever besmirched or directed a cheeky comment towards the fair maidens of FAB

I also didn't know TOTAL ECLIPSE OF THE HEART was written about a Fabber... Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got some woman block on here, there not blocked because im jeloues of them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP your argument would’ve been fine if you made it about all Fabbers instead of singling our males. It was that that made it seem cringey.

But dude

White Knight

1) A man who stands up for a womens right to be an absolute equal, but then steps up like a white knight to rescue her any time that equality becomes a burden.

2) A man who Promotes gender equality but practices special privilege for women.

#white knight#feminism#hero worship#mangina#society"

Mangina

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nice to know some of my forum posts get read .

As for respecting women or being a white knight .

As a father of 3 girls, having sister & working with women ... I defend my right to stand up for women.

I dont mind that I am not an Alpha male or a lad ... its nice to be nice ... i do not think there is a place for abusive messages or feeling superior .. although on this site perhaps it is beneficial to be a bad boy..perhaps i would get more meets with an ego transplant.

As for jobs like taking out the bins ... there are lots of jobs the ladies do that i couldnt or wouldnt ... share the work

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