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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this "

So you dont think women need to worry about their shape/size on fab cause men will fuck anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this

So you dont think women need to worry about their shape/size on fab cause men will fuck anything? "

To be fair some guys just need a pulse....for a few even that might be negotiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this

So you dont think women need to worry about their shape/size on fab cause men will fuck anything?

To be fair some guys just need a pulse....for a few even that might be negotiable

"

Might be their only chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body confidence is a huge issue for me but I find if you meet the right person (and not just anyone) go for someone you really like and be confident in your approach then you'll land the prize. Be honest and respectfu it means more than what you look like be it overweight, disabled or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this

So you dont think women need to worry about their shape/size on fab cause men will fuck anything? "
exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Body confidence is a huge issue for me but I find if you meet the right person (and not just anyone) go for someone you really like and be confident in your approach then you'll land the prize. Be honest and respectfu it means more than what you look like be it overweight, disabled or otherwise. "
well said mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this

So you dont think women need to worry about their shape/size on fab cause men will fuck anything?

To be fair some guys just need a pulse....for a few even that might be negotiable

"

Yep. But ive come across a few that ive politely replied to that im not interested to be than called fatso or should who'd fuck a beached whale.

There is pressure on both men and women on fab and in real life to conform to a certain look or size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck them steph and not that way lol. Nobody has a right to be abusive towards a person's weight etc just because they are rejected. You are damn bloody right to set standards for yourself and pick and choose. Change only for yourself and not anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing with body confidence is that you will never feel good enough if you compare yourself to others, that’s the same for men and women.

Accepting who you are, where you are just now in your life is more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a wild waste of energy comparing our bodies to others. Don't see the point. Doesn't stop me admiring a sexy body though

And there nothing wrong with wanting to improve and be a better version of ouselves. I keep moving, exercising, not so others like what they see but simply for myself, to be happy in my own skin.

So be happy with the body you got, or change it. Love the quote 'If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems a wild waste of energy comparing our bodies to others. Don't see the point. Doesn't stop me admiring a sexy body though

And there nothing wrong with wanting to improve and be a better version of ouselves. I keep moving, exercising, not so others like what they see but simply for myself, to be happy in my own skin.

So be happy with the body you got, or change it. Love the quote 'If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.' "
agree with you there well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems a wild waste of energy comparing our bodies to others. Don't see the point. Doesn't stop me admiring a sexy body though

And there nothing wrong with wanting to improve and be a better version of ouselves. I keep moving, exercising, not so others like what they see but simply for myself, to be happy in my own skin.

So be happy with the body you got, or change it. Love the quote 'If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.' agree with you there well said "

Well said

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"Seems a wild waste of energy comparing our bodies to others. Don't see the point. Doesn't stop me admiring a sexy body though

And there nothing wrong with wanting to improve and be a better version of ouselves. I keep moving, exercising, not so others like what they see but simply for myself, to be happy in my own skin.

So be happy with the body you got, or change it. Love the quote 'If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.' "

Very well put

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"Seems a wild waste of energy comparing our bodies to others. Don't see the point. Doesn't stop me admiring a sexy body though

And there nothing wrong with wanting to improve and be a better version of ouselves. I keep moving, exercising, not so others like what they see but simply for myself, to be happy in my own skin.

So be happy with the body you got, or change it. Love the quote 'If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body confidence is a huge issue for me but I find if you meet the right person (and not just anyone) go for someone you really like and be confident in your approach then you'll land the prize. Be honest and respectfu it means more than what you look like be it overweight, disabled or otherwise. "

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this "

That is a very long sentence

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this

That is a very long sentence "

Was thinking the same when I began reading it.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah eyes got tired getting to the end of that lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from confidence, desirability or how society views you...we don't talk enough about the other benefits of exercise half enough...mood, stress, energy, mobility, strength, freedom from aches and pains and lower risk of injury. Longer, richer life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and better sex drive and the physical activity or riding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fell out of a few trees in my climbing days so more padding helps lol

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"So on various forums lately on fab I'm seen guys saying they feel pressure to be in better shape comparing themselves to other in shape fab guys so has this flipped on fab from real world in guys feeling pressure to look certain way instead females having too like in real world because let's be honest most guys would fuck any female with pulse so don't women on fab have much worry about in that regard would love here fabbers opinion on this "

Not everyone just requires 'any female with a pulse', personally I require attraction in some form, more often than not.... Physical

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Seems a wild waste of energy comparing our bodies to others. Don't see the point. Doesn't stop me admiring a sexy body though

And there nothing wrong with wanting to improve and be a better version of ouselves. I keep moving, exercising, not so others like what they see but simply for myself, to be happy in my own skin.

So be happy with the body you got, or change it. Love the quote 'If you don't like how things are, change it! You're not a tree.' "

I have got a thick trunk though

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I like to let it all hang out so I've no hang ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body confidence is a mind set

If you can be confident in yourself people find that attractive

I haven't a perfect body and if I'm naked and someone is more interested in my flaws, rather than being into the moment and enjoying the sexual pleasure, then it's that person who needs to revisit their mind set

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