FabSwingers.com forum: Why so much abuse

By *0notout3 OP Man
over a year ago

roaming

Hi all been on fab a while like everyone i nosey at the forum posts but looking lately i have notice more and more at peoples posts on their profile that there seems to be more and more abusive comments been sent particularly to

The ladys on here when they dont drop their knickers at every message they get from guys looking meet honestly what the crIc with this behaviour are we not adults just looking a bit of sexy fun in life get grip guys show a bit of respect it will not cost u anything if someone says no or not interested move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all been on fab a while like everyone i nosey at the forum posts but looking lately i have notice more and more at peoples posts on their profile that there seems to be more and more abusive comments been sent particularly to

Rant over"
playing the look at me Mr nice guy card won't work

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By *0notout3 OP Man
over a year ago

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nothing 2 do with playing the nice guy card it simple manners and respect for example seen one girl post because she said no not intetested to a guy he threatened to post pics of her from facebook

Wtf

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"nothing 2 do with playing the nice guy card it simple manners and respect for example seen one girl post because she said no not intetested to a guy he threatened to post pics of her from facebook

Wtf "

Which thread was that on? Copy and paste the link

Most of the abuse is sent via email so unless you've the ability to read everyone's email I doubt you can prove there's more abuse than say a year ago or 5 years ago. You must remember there are more people joining every year so maybe the percentage stays the same just more people do it?

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By *0notout3 OP Man
over a year ago

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Read what i posted i was browsing

And a girl put up on her status message she had recieved the message also another lady posted that because she said no to a meet after a cpl of messages she was called a stuck up cow all i am saying is whats the point in sending an abusive message to someone just because they r not interested dont get it if you messaged someone and they were not interested would u follow the response with abuse i wouldn't do c what it would achive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The abuse is totally out of order , must say though if people actually replied to messages instead of ignoring them , then people wouldnt get annoyed and frustrated with peoples ignorance takes 2 mins to say thanks for message but no thank you .

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Its part and parcel of putting yourself out there online...some ppl deal with it quietly and not giving attention to stirrers, whilst others give them the attention they crave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The abuse is totally out of order , must say though if people actually replied to messages instead of ignoring them , then people wouldnt get annoyed and frustrated with peoples ignorance takes 2 mins to say thanks for message but no thank you ."
what difference would getting a reply make. If they are going to be abusive the will be ..reply or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The abusive guys are not getting any sex in the vanilla wirld & thought swingers would be better ... but their blue ball syndrome mskes them abusive in both vanilla & Fab world ... a little manners & respect always helps .. i get lots of thanks but no thanks replies ... but i know thats how it is ... a message is sent on the NSA principle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its part and parcel of putting yourself out there online...some ppl deal with it quietly and not giving attention to stirrers, whilst others give them the attention they crave."

Exactly. I don't understand why anyone would get annoyed or engage with those who are abusive. Filters, blocks they are our friends

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

I got hounded on the forums for asking a few questions regarding my cheating. A lot of my old threads got reposted to somehow show what a liar I am. (Newsflash, a cheat is a liar) Harrasment got so bad the threads got deleted.

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By *0notout3 OP Man
over a year ago

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Guys thats the point i was trying to make surly this is a swinging site where people look for other people to indulge in their fantasies with so if u dont like the response you get why not go ok and move on the whole back and forth abusive message to me is not worth the hassle would the people who send abusive hurtful message get on like that if it was face to face dont think so

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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I agree Op, the aforementioned disgruntled "ladies"

should all form a FAB vigilante gang and go over to the homes of these young rascals

pull down their pants spank them as one of the other ladies sits on said rascal's face

A little harsh I know but it might teach those hooligans some manners who continue to give us gentlemen of FAB a bad name

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