FabSwingers.com forum: Safety measures for women meeting?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife will be back meeting shortly after a break. Just wondering if any ladies can share any tips on how to keep safe when she is meeting on her own. Any help much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social first - text when she arrives - half way through and when it is ended.

That goes for play meets too.

Always have a face pic so you know who they are even if they give a wrong name.

Always meet verified gentlemen.

Oh and if it's a hotel then use the same one each time.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely dont meet men who are not meet verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on as a single - always had safety measures put into place for my own protection.

I did once take a photo of a gents registration - once explained he was OK with it.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Me and my friend send our live location to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me and my friend send our live location to each other "

Good idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fab friend always knows where I am going and who I'm meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a great idea.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Me and my friend send our live location to each other

Good idea x

Works great

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Me and my friend send our live location to each other "

Haha imagine it was really accurate and showed you in the bar, then in the lift, then in a bedroom and finally bouncing up and down

Sorry I’m bored today lol

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Me and my friend send our live location to each other

Haha imagine it was really accurate and showed you in the bar, then in the lift, then in a bedroom and finally bouncing up and down

Sorry I’m bored today lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me and my friend send our live location to each other

Haha imagine it was really accurate and showed you in the bar, then in the lift, then in a bedroom and finally bouncing up and down

Sorry I’m bored today lol

Jeez how live is live !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to your gut

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Exactly your instinct is always right. It must be very scary for women going to meet strangers for sex . But just be carfull cos some people can hide from you while chatting . I thought I was chatting to a lady and was going great until the guy said haha I'm a man . Fuck I say what do they get from silly shit like that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring a shotgun lol

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Some of these ideas defeat the purpose of discretion dont they??

Also if a woman is so worried about her safety when meeting a new man for sex then maybe she shouldnt be meeting at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Some of these ideas defeat the purpose of discretion dont they??

Also if a woman is so worried about her safety when meeting a new man for sex then maybe she shouldnt be meeting at all

How is that not being discreet? Not giving names of anyone. We are sending our location and room number. It’s better to be safe. If you were a woman maybe you’d understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet socially intially in a public place.

Only meet verified guys & guys that have given their face pic.

I always text a friend on here details of where the actual meet is going to place etc Better off to be safe than sorry

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By *lowersMan
over a year ago

Derry

Business opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of these ideas defeat the purpose of discretion dont they??

Also if a woman is so worried about her safety when meeting a new man for sex then maybe she shouldnt be meeting at all

You sound exactly like the sort a woman should not meet . More worried about being caught cheating than anything else, what a selfish self serving mindset to have .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely let someone know were ur going and who uve the meet with..the sending a text is always a safe option..hope she enjoys her return back..

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Get to know the prospect as much as you can first through chat. Social. Always text to say where you are...

choose wisely young patewan !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly your instinct is always right. It must be very scary for women going to meet strangers for sex . But just be carfull cos some people can hide from you while chatting . I thought I was chatting to a lady and was going great until the guy said haha I'm a man . Fuck I say what do they get from silly shit like that . "

haha that made me laugh. But it is true...the person might just not be what they seem.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Some of these ideas defeat the purpose of discretion dont they??

Also if a woman is so worried about her safety when meeting a new man for sex then maybe she shouldnt be meeting at all

You sound exactly like the sort a woman should not meet . More worried about being caught cheating than anything else, what a selfish self serving mindset to have ."

Not cheating on anybody just picking a few holes thats all dont get your knickers in a twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always tell someone where you are going.

How long you'll be etc.

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

"Always tell someone where you are going.

How long you'll be etc.

If it's a really good meet. Then the latter may cause alarm bells

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

For women its probably better to meet a married man as opposed to a single guy reason being a married man has more to lose so hes less likely to try any funny business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely dont meet men who are not meet verified."
Why is all verified men saints.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"For women its probably better to meet a married man as opposed to a single guy reason being a married man has more to lose so hes less likely to try any funny business

Yeh cause married men can’t be aresholes

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Op as your Part of a couple you should both meet for the social drink/coffee and you can both be reassured...tricky for single women so any measures they feel are necessary should be more then ok to any potential meets

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"A fab friend always knows where I am going and who I'm meeting.

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its someone she is just chatting with. If she wants to be safe get her to tell someone who it is and ask him if he is ok with her letting someone know.

At the end off the day if she feel unsure then tell her not to.

Safety first at all times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of these ideas defeat the purpose of discretion dont they??

Also if a woman is so worried about her safety when meeting a new man for sex then maybe she shouldnt be meeting at all

We will be trying to avoid guys with that attitude anyway..

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"Me and my friend send our live location to each other "

Right down to the room number

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Me and my friend send our live location to each other

Right down to the room number

Have to be safe Sweets

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Get a face pic first.

Pick a public place to meet that you can overlook from another place.

Have them turn up and see they match the face photo before approaching.

Text someone that they match the photo before approaching, if they dont, text someone that they dont match and leave.

Always go home after the social meet, text someone halfway through, then when its over.

Or just do what everyone else does and keep it all secret and meet people in secluded areas because maybe them killing you is half the thrill and you dont really care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as well I met some that weren’t meet verified or else I’d of missed out and so would they.

To be safe meet in a public place for a coffee or a chat to make sure they are who you think they are and people seen you together.

If a hotel meet in the bar or lobby at same time before going to the room.

As has been said before trust your gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bring a shotgun lol "
trust you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your 6th sense

If it sounds too good to be true, it is too good to be true

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I always meet fabbers in a hotel, lobby or bar, ..that way you're on camera anyway. During the chat with a couple I always make an excuse to go to the loo, it gives them a chance to talk about me....and make up their mind about what to do, stay or go. When a date didn't turn up recently,( no phone no), I ( cringe) went up to someone who matched their description. Wrong person. But had an interesting chat. If a woman is undecided after our meet, I always leave first, giving her the option to leave...or phone a friend..and follow me if she wants to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies everyone. Some good tips we will keep in mind.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

"Some of these ideas defeat the purpose of discretion dont they??

Also if a woman is so worried about her safety when meeting a new man for sex then maybe she shouldnt be meeting at all

We will be trying to avoid guys with that attitude anyway.."

Thats ok ive no intention of meeting you anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and hubby have locating app on our phones so he knows where I am and I always send pics throughout the meet

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"I always meet fabbers in a hotel, lobby or bar, ..that way you're on camera anyway."

All that means is that your loved ones will be asked do they know the person in the footage after your dead body is found, wont stop you being murdered. It will also raise a lot of questions in your family like why you met a stranger there of all places. Then they will know it was because you wanted to meet up and have sex with a stranger and got murdered doing it. I guess that will all come out eventually anyway.

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

First meeting in public place. Don't be shy, ask enough questions to get a feel for the person even if you might think this makes you look like an asshole. It's your wife you are sharing after all.

Text on arrival, text room number, and we set up a window within which to get a text later. Know what kinda window you expect her to be finished in, i.e. checking out midday next morning or whatever

Have a safe word just in case

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