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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your idea of a low sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Wife only once a week or less. Happy for me to get more as long as she doesn't hear about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love your idea of a low sex drive "

#TheEternalOptimist..

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

None of mine did I tried to stick it out but was not a happy bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..?"
Why not more to a relationship than sex.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex."

And that’s why so many people in relationships are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love your idea of a low sex drive "

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

And that’s why so many people in relationships are on here "
For some the Grass is always greener on the other side.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

And that’s why so many people in relationships are on here For some the Grass is always greener on the other side."

He was referring to just the sex side of the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

And that’s why so many people in relationships are on here For some the Grass is always greener on the other side.

He was referring to just the sex side of the relationship. "
And I said more to a relationship than sex so why wouldn't it survive.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I would have said 3/4 times a week was fairly high... I know some are 24/7 but I’d imagine it’s not everyone... is it?

I think my urge has disappeared.. it’s been months now.. maybe it’s gone because I haven’t had any.. I literally forget what it feel like.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"I would have said 3/4 times a week was fairly high... I know some are 24/7 but I’d imagine it’s not everyone... is it?

I think my urge has disappeared.. it’s been months now.. maybe it’s gone because I haven’t had any.. I literally forget what it feel like."

That happens to me if I go too long without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

And that’s why so many people in relationships are on here For some the Grass is always greener on the other side.

He was referring to just the sex side of the relationship. And I said more to a relationship than sex so why wouldn't it survive."

There's more to life than subsistence, but without it you wouldn't survive

Trust, Communication and Sex, for us are the vital compontants to any relationship. The trifecta, if you will.

A relationship can survive without 1 of these, but in all honesty it's doomed, it's a sinking ship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes def... I barely get it once a month sometimes could be a few months so if ur getting it 3. 4 times .. settle with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..?"

From experience i would say its difficult & the reason many find their way to Fab.

There are many reason for the low sex drive, work, minding kids, stress ... or just that you no longer fancy your partner & just go thru the motions ... the duty shag.

Sex/love making within a relationship is a foundation stone .. as a counsellor once said to me

"When its gone in the bedroom, its gone"

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

And that’s why so many people in relationships are on here For some the Grass is always greener on the other side.

He was referring to just the sex side of the relationship. And I said more to a relationship than sex so why wouldn't it survive."

For some it just doesn't it's like a missing piece of jigsaw. You might not understand it and can happily settle for more wanking then sex. Others not so much.. why is hard for you to understand some relationships thrive on the physical side of the relationship..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I love your idea of a low sex drive "

my first thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex."

Can’t imagine you ever having to worry about it either way there slick.. a blow up doll never says no..

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

Can’t imagine you ever having to worry about it either way there slick.. a blow up doll never says no..

"

But she can fart and fly out the window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship solely based on sex or giving sex extreme priority is not a relationship and probably why people in relationships are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

Can’t imagine you ever having to worry about it either way there slick.. a blow up doll never says no..

"
Why do you feel you have to insult people that question you on something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well Topdog, since the majority of your posts seem to be designed to insult, demean or degrade someone, I feel any input you provide deserves that kind of response. Does that answer that question for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wheres the popcorn

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..?"

3/4 times a week is actually a lot for many married couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well Topdog, since the majority of your posts seem to be designed to insult, demean or degrade someone, I feel any input you provide deserves that kind of response. Does that answer that question for you? "
What you mean I don't suck up to everyone on the forums and try to be a white knight so everyone will like me.Thats not my style. But for some reason you seem to take exception to everything I say.

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Of course it can its all balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course it can its all balance"

Exactly, it depends on communcation and compromise, as does every relationship. To assume that the libido of both partners will remain constant over the years and through different life stages is a tad naive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well Topdog, since the majority of your posts seem to be designed to insult, demean or degrade someone, I feel any input you provide deserves that kind of response. Does that answer that question for you? What you mean I don't suck up to everyone on the forums and try to be a white knight so everyone will like me.Thats not my style. But for some reason you seem to take exception to everything I say."

No, your modus operandi is to slag off couples, imply all men on here would get up on a cracked plate and say there’s no such thing as a good looking woman on Fab. There’s a little green arrow there beside your posts and all your vitriol is in one easy to access location. So don’t act like the wounded party when your called on your B.S.

Your a bore.. your tedious, ordinary and a little bit sad really.

I hope that clears things up as to why I will take exception to anything you say to me, consider this formal notice , I don’t want your input on anything, your opinion means nothing to me, neither do your insults or “wit”. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a typical example why monogamy doesn't work as 1 size doesn't fit all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well Topdog, since the majority of your posts seem to be designed to insult, demean or degrade someone, I feel any input you provide deserves that kind of response. Does that answer that question for you? What you mean I don't suck up to everyone on the forums and try to be a white knight so everyone will like me.Thats not my style. But for some reason you seem to take exception to everything I say.

No, your modus operandi is to slag off couples, imply all men on here would get up on a cracked plate and say there’s no such thing as a good looking woman on Fab. There’s a little green arrow there beside your posts and all your vitriol is in one easy to access location. So don’t act like the wounded party when your called on your B.S.

Your a bore.. your tedious, ordinary and a little bit sad really.

I hope that clears things up as to why I will take exception to anything you say to me, consider this formal notice , I don’t want your input on anything, your opinion means nothing to me, neither do your insults or “wit”. Cheers "
There is something about the way you reply to me that makes me think you don't like me .I just can't put my finger on it.Its probably just my imagination.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

So..... back to the question. . When I was married sex became non existent so very unhappy times . Now free and single still not as much sex as I'd like but a thousand times happier.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"So..... back to the question. . When I was married sex became non existent so very unhappy times . Now free and single still not as much sex as I'd like but a thousand times happier. "

Good for you girl

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"So..... back to the question. . When I was married sex became non existent so very unhappy times . Now free and single still not as much sex as I'd like but a thousand times happier. "

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"So..... back to the question. . When I was married sex became non existent so very unhappy times . Now free and single still not as much sex as I'd like but a thousand times happier. "

Ha same story here. It really effected all aspects of my life. Now could still do with more sex but it's on my terms and I'm happier and more confident this way good strong women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm at a place where I am more zen about sex. I can go without masturbating which makes the real thing so much more intense when it happens. I don't get hung up on "getting done" or morecyo the point "not getting any".

I think if the sexual fizzle goes out of a relationship it is because the couple don't talk about it. There's more to sex than sex itself and no two people are genuinely identical so a relationship can survive if the sex drives are different. You just need to work on it.

And again if 3/4 is low then the OP doesn't have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So..... back to the question. . When I was married sex became non existent so very unhappy times . Now free and single still not as much sex as I'd like but a thousand times happier.

Ha same story here. It really effected all aspects of my life. Now could still do with more sex but it's on my terms and I'm happier and more confident this way good strong women "

Just out of interest, do either of ye know why it became non existent when ye were married? Was it the husband didnt want it as much as ye did? Boring sex? Etc. Im not trying to be nosey just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's an old saying :

Too much of a good thing leaves you wanting less...

3-4 times a week is good for a marriage id say, so just knock one off the other days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’d be happy with 3/4 times a week!! In a relationship! but I’m footloose and fancy free now and still not getting enough lol!!

3/4 times a week sounds pretty good now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a few people on this site are like the old man that went to the doctor to get his sex drive lowered.The doc told him it's all in your head old man I know that's why I want it lowered.

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By *he rover returnedWoman
over a year ago

xxx


"I don’t think I’d be happy with 3/4 times a week!! In a relationship! but I’m footloose and fancy free now and still not getting enough lol!!

3/4 times a week sounds pretty good now!! "

Sounds bloody great if you ask me

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"I don’t think I’d be happy with 3/4 times a week!! In a relationship! but I’m footloose and fancy free now and still not getting enough lol!!

3/4 times a week sounds pretty good now!!

Sounds bloody great if you ask me "

I’d be happy with once a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can a relationship survive when one person always wants to and the other is satisfied with 3/4 times s week..? Why not more to a relationship than sex.

And that’s why so many people in relationships are on here For some the Grass is always greener on the other side.

He was referring to just the sex side of the relationship. And I said more to a relationship than sex so why wouldn't it survive.

There's more to life than subsistence, but without it you wouldn't survive

Trust, Communication and Sex, for us are the vital compontants to any relationship. The trifecta, if you will.

A relationship can survive without 1 of these, but in all honesty it's doomed, it's a sinking ship.

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